Chapter 126

The real aristocratic education is firstly family nurturing, and finally penetrates into the bones.

As the saying goes: “It’s not richer than three generations.”

This is because material is very easy to lose or break, and wealth often accumulates and disperses.

But spirit is something that can be passed down, and it can be passed down from generation to generation as heirlooms. Those big families that have prospered for hundreds of years all have their own family precepts and their own family spirit, because this is the most precious East ~ West.

The real aristocratic education is to pass on a spirit to the child, to pass on to him an optimistic, positive, unforgiving, and courageous spirit is better than anything material!

A famous writer once said: “We hope that there will be two permanent inheritances left to our children, one is the root, the other is the wings.”

What is the root? That is faith, a lasting belief in goodness and virtue.

Mencius said: “If you are poor, you can never lose your righteousness, and you can never deviate from the way.”

Let children understand early on that a person must live cleanly, gracefully, and with dignity, and that one should not betray his faith and use any means for the sake of some immediate practical interests.

There is also wings. The best education for parents to their children is to teach by precepts and deeds, take the children to fly, let the children learn to fly, and give them a pair of wings that can fly.

Just like the famous philosopher IELTS Bells said: The essence of education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul calls another soul.

Zeng Guofan said: “The children of the mortal family have the same clothing, food and daily life as those of the poor, so the generals can become great things, and if they are contaminated with wealth and ethics, they are hardly expected to achieve success.”

If you really want to be good for your child, you should not leave him a golden mountain and silver mountain, but give him the right to create, let him sweat, shed tears, and bleed, let him run in the rain without an umbrella, and let him become The best self!

The real aristocratic education, followed by cultural influence, ultimately makes people have dignity.

Some people say that the essence of aristocratic spirit is honor.

Mencius said: “The rich and the rich cannot be fornication, the poor and the poor cannot be moved, and the mighty cannot be succumbed. This is called a big man.”

The real aristocratic education is precisely the restraint of material enjoyment in a glorious society, and the cultivation of the body and mind with culture; even if you hold authority, you are more courageous to take responsibility, stick to your honor, and maintain a free and independent soul in the face of money, power, and even life and death.

Known as the “last nobleman”, Ms. Zheng Nian, graduated from Yenching University in her early years and studied in England.

Received a complete system of Chinese and Western education. After returning to China, her husband worked as a diplomat, and she worked as a foreign company employee. Later, her husband died young and her daughter committed suicide. She was also falsely accused of being an English spy and went to prison.

In order for her to admit those unnecessary crimes, Zheng Nian had her hands twisted behind her back for more than ten days, the handcuffs were deeply embedded in the flesh, the skin was worn, pus and blood flowed, and the days were like years.

She had to zip up the zipper on the side of her trousers every time it was convenient, and she was strangling the wound and tearing the liver and lungs, but she would rather deepen the wound than dishevelled clothes; a woman who delivered meals kindly persuaded her to cry loudly. In order to let the guards notice that her hands were crippled.

And what Zheng Nian thought was: How could he beg for mercy because of this?

“I really don’t know how to make that kind of howling sound. It’s too naive and uncivilized.”

When her health was so bad that her body and mind were about to collapse, Zheng Nian created her own gymnastics and forced herself to exercise quietly. What scared her more than a lot of hair loss and bleeding gums was the decline in thinking ability after the body collapsed; she salvaged her. Tang poems buried deep in memory, recite and appreciate those genius works, immersed in immortal poems and beautiful artistic conception.(Read more @ wuxiax.com)

Zheng Nian said that she used various methods to maintain her mental health in prison. In order to resist the extreme isolation of the world, she sometimes even took the initiative to attack, deliberately arguing with the guards, even if she was beaten and kicked as a result, she was called “crazy old lady”. “.

In her view, “struggling is also a positive action, and it is easier to uplift people’s spirits than patience and depression.”

The interrogator was not only unable to make Zheng Nian confess his guilt, but also failed to use her superiority to crush her arrogance in her bones: as a prisoner, she refused to show weakness and beg for mercy; The habit of neatness, that reserved and elegant temperament, has not been completely worn out in an inhuman situation.

The light of culture is sometimes very weak, and under brutal oppression, one can only see oneself.

However, with this glimmer, Zheng Nian alone resisted the cruelty of the world and the impermanence of life with this delicate body. This kind of “poor but stronger” strength and resilience is extremely moving.

Ni Shixiao wants Leilei to be a woman like Zheng Nian.

She has her own noble personality, as long as she becomes a noble person in her heart.

Regarding wealth, she only needs to have her own skills to make a living;

Ni Shixiao’s family fund will naturally have her share.

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Three days later, the school bus from the Noble School came to pick up Leilei.

Leilei held Ni Shixiao’s arm hard but refused to get in the car. There was nothing to do with him.

“Leilei, good, obedient, get in the car and walk with the teacher. There are many children as old as you in the school to play with.”

“Leilei doesn’t want children, I just want to be with Baba.” Xiao Nun lay on Ni Shixiao’s body, crying heartbreakingly.

“Baba promised, you can be with Baba after your holiday.”

“Really?”

“Baba won’t lie to Leilei…”

“Okay, you have to come to see me…”

Children’s tempers come quickly and go quickly.

Staying in school for a period of time ensures that she will be reluctant to think about it.

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This stage will last until about 13 or 14 years old, and then it will enter the rebellious period.

It was so easy to persuade Leilei to get into the car, and Ni Shixiao will have to fight for every day when his parents visit.

Otherwise, after a long time, the two of them will become incompatible.

After a while, Suzhen has to be picked up. It is also a problem for a mother to not see her child for a long time.

Ni Shixiao himself plans to study at Harvard University early next year.

He had officially obtained a degree from G University when he was auditing at G University.

Next year, he will find a tutor at Harvard University to study as a graduate student.

If you want a long-term success in your career, you still need a high degree of education.

Don’t carry that so and so and so did not have a high degree, but became the richest man, but you have to admit that although they do not have a high degree, they have high knowledge.

And how many of those who made a fortune because of the big environment, in the end, how many kept their own business?

Which one of those defending is not highly educated?

If you want to improve your knowledge level, why not just get a high diploma at the same time!



Ni Shixiao’s self-learning ability is very strong, but it is always good for someone to take it with him, and he can open up his mind and listen to everyone’s opinions.

Working behind closed doors is not an option.

In the end, the business is done, and it is networking, knowledge, and physical strength. There is a strange phenomenon that most of the elites in the financial industry are good sports, at least they love fitness.

Finance needs a strong heart, and to carry a strong heart requires a good body. Husband.

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