Blessed To Have Each Other In This Life

Jiang Ci was stuck in depression and couldn't get out for many days.

She pretended to be relaxed and said to Xu Che: "I will be fine in a few days, I am used to it."

Every time I face the darkness of the human heart, I will be tortured by negative emotions for a long time, including her colleagues. The special nature of work makes many of them have some addictions. Addiction to tobacco and alcohol are actually a way to relieve stress.

A few days later, Xu Che asked Jiang Ci to have dinner and drove early to pick her up.

Jiang Ci knew that today's dinner was more formal, and he wanted to meet Xu Che's family. She dressed up specially and wore a skirt, hoping to look "lady".

I got into Xu Che's car and found a medical publication on the seat. I picked it up and opened it.

"Page 26." Xu Che said lightly while holding the steering wheel, "You can look at it. It is an article published by a colleague in the Department of Neurology."

When Jiang Ci heard this, he turned to that page, which was an essay on the characteristics of adolescent brain development.

The general content is that in today's society, juvenile delinquency or victimization has gradually increased. From the perspective of brain development, it is because of the mismatch between the two major areas of the brain.

Teenagers are impulsive, adventurous, and emotional, because the limbic brain system responsible for driving emotions is full of hormones. It develops rapidly from the age of 9 to 12 and gradually matures in the next few years.

The prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for providing reasonable judgment and impulse control, does not mature until about 25 years old.

For nearly ten years, there was an imbalance between emotional impulse and deliberation.

Nowadays, children's puberty is early all over the world, and the development of the prefrontal cortex has not matured earlier, which means that the imbalance state is constantly delayed.

In addition, there is another intriguing fact-

Adolescence is the healthiest period in a person's life. For example, the immune system, resistance to cancer, and tolerance to cold and heat are all at the best level in life. Although the body is healthy, the death rate is 2 to 3 times higher than that of children. Traffic accidents accounted for half of the total deaths, and homicide and suicide ranked second and third. The rates of unintended pregnancy and illegal imprisonment are also very high.

After reading it, Jiang Ci looked at Xu Che with a wry smile: "Show me what this is for?"

"I want you to know that this is a global problem." Xu Che held the steering wheel and looked straight ahead. "If you think about it this way, can you feel better in your heart?"

Jiang Ci couldn't help but smile: "It seems to be."

"Well, if you consider the problem in the general direction, your sense of responsibility will be relatively reduced, and the psychological burden will also be reduced." Xu Che said calmly.

Jiang Ci laughed: "It's really wretched psychotherapy."

"I invented it." Xu Che glanced at her with a slight smile on his lips.

Jiang Ci looked a little uncomfortable by him, turned his head, and his cheeks were slightly hot.

...

This dinner is at Xu Che's sister's house.

Xu Che's parents died very early, and he was raised by his sister. My sister is ten years older than him. She runs a private restaurant alone and is an internet celebrity in the food industry.

She was very enthusiastic when she saw Ginger Porcelain and praised that Ginger Porcelain was more beautiful than the picture.

Jiang Ci said a few words with a smile, but he was confused and thought to himself: When did Xu Che photograph me?

The atmosphere during the meal was very lively. His brother-in-law was slightly fat, and it was said that he had a blessing after marriage, and the conversation was very humorous. There was also a lively and cheerful pair of children, who kept talking at the dinner table.

A meal was chatting and laughing, eating for nearly an hour.

Jiang Ci is slightly confused: Why does the taste of these dishes have a sense of familiarity...