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385. Confidence

Mom and Xiaoqi came to visit Meng Qingqing and Dudu at home that day.

Xiaoqi is now a sophomore in Beijing. Because of the National Day, he came back for the holidays. Every time he came back, he would come to see this cute little Dudu. When Dudu saw his uncle, he also stuck to him and ignored the others.

No, grandma said to change a piece of clothes for him. The clothes on his body got wet when he drank water just now. He twisted his fat little body and asked his uncle to change it for him. At home, Xiaoqi is also a young master who does not work hard. He stretches out his clothes and opens his mouth to eat, but in front of Dudu, he is still clumsy but patiently changes clothes for Dudu, feeds him food, and is patient. Peel a banana for him.

Yu Xiaofei looked at Dudu and Xiaoqi and said: Not to mention, Dudu looks very much like Xiaoqi when he was a child, and he looks very similar to Xiaoqi when he was eating.

Lu Shuangping on the side said: Like Hao Nan when he was a child, his facial features and expressions are similar.

Yu Xiaofei glanced at Meng Qingqing, smiled and said nothing. This Lu Shuangping is competitive and wants to gain the upper hand in everything, but she has to be serious in small talk. It is much more difficult to get along with than his own mother-in-law. Fortunately, Qin Haonan can balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, otherwise her daughter's life will be difficult.

While Meng Qingqing was going upstairs to get things, Lu Shuangping said to Xiao Fei: My mother, you are Qingqing's mother, Qingqing may listen to what you say, we all like children, but there is only one Dudu Children, not only does Dudu feel lonely, but we also feel that children don’t love children enough. You see, if there are two children, Dudu has a companion. Sometimes when you bring one of the children to play at home, we also feel It’s not so cold and cheerless, don’t you think so? Mother-in-law.”

Yu Xiaofei smiled and said: For us, this is of course good! But we can't just think about what we like, we have to ask Qingqing and Haonan what they mean. One more child means more work.

Hao Nan is fine. Of course he is willing to have another child. Our family can't afford it, don't you think? Qingqing is the main one. I don't understand what she said to be busy with her studio. Our family can't afford it. Lack of money, why does she have to go to work? Other women wish they could stay at home, but Qingqing, she is fully able to stay at home and take care of the children, and she doesn't even have to do housework. How many people envy her this kind of life, But she just doesn't like being at home.

Mother-in-law, people are different. Some people like to be content with the status quo, and some people like to grow up and don't like a life that remains the same. Our family is not short of money, but we can't just live with nothing just because we don't have money! This is right. Dudu’s growth influence is also not good, Qingqing likes to work, so let her do it, it’s better than those women who are addicted to the mahjong table every day! People must have some sustenance in life, we are older, put The spirit is in the children, the children, in the work.

I don't object to her wanting to work,

But she should also fulfill her duty as a daughter-in-law. She has to have another child. As long as she gives birth, I don’t need her to take care of her.

You've talked to me about this issue many times before, and I've also told Qingqing that she also wants to have another child, but when Dudu grows older, her studio is now at the best time to develop At this time, she is afraid that she will not be able to keep up with the child.

Lu Shuangping was a little angry, It's still such an excuse for a long time, alas...

Lu Shuangping suddenly remembered something, she looked upstairs, and said to Xiao Fei: These few days, Haonan and Qingqing seem to be having a fight, and Qingqing sleeps with Dudu in Dudu's room every night.

The weather has changed in the past two days, maybe Qingqing is afraid that the child will catch a cold, so she sleeps with the child.

No, I think Qingqing also ignores Haonan. I asked Haonan, and he said nothing happened, but I just saw something wrong.

Yu Xiaofei said calmly: My mother-in-law, you are a straightforward person, so I will tell you some things bluntly. As elders, it is best not to interfere too much with the children's affairs. They have already married and set up a business, so how they live their lives is up to them! Even if there is any conflict between them, I believe they will resolve it by themselves, if we intervene, it may make things more complicated.

Lu Shuangping was speechless, this Yu Xiaofei had never cared about her daughter since she was a child, so now she doesn't worry about her daughter's affairs, that's all, it's useless to talk to her.

Lu Shuangping said sarcastically: Mother-in-law, it's no wonder you look so young, it turns out that you live so easily! Don't worry about your daughter's affairs, just follow her. I'm not as lucky as you, and my heart is not as good as yours. Kuan, it’s not right to look at the child, if you don’t talk about it, how can you get by?”

Yu Xiaofei felt that there was nothing she could do with this Lu Shuangping, so she shook her head and said nothing more.

I'll go upstairs to see what Qingqing is doing! Yu Xiaofei said and hurried upstairs.

Entering her daughter's room, Yu Xiaofei said: Qingqing, have you been having trouble with Haonan these days?

Did my mother-in-law tell you? I knew that every time you came, she couldn't do without nagging me in front of you.

Although she is nagging, she still cares about you. What's the matter with you and Haonan? You've been sleeping in Dudu's room for the past few days? Qingqing, husband and wife must communicate well about anything, and don't get sulking. Cold war It can't solve the problem, and it hurts the relationship. You and Haonan have always had a good relationship, and there are very few conflicts. Why this time? Can you talk to me?

Meng Qingqing has been really aggrieved these days. Qin Haonan's attitude towards the Bang Shasha incident made her feel very bad, but she couldn't blame him for anything, and she couldn't say how wrong he was. If he was right, I feel very uncomfortable in my heart.

So Meng Qingqing told her mother all these things between her, Bang Shasha and Qin Haonan.

After hearing this, Yu Xiaofei was filled with emotion, How can you have such a friend? Haonan is the same, how can he sympathize with such a person? In this regard, he is like your father, he is easy to soften his heart, but he doesn't look at anyone, is it worth it? It is worthy of sympathy, not to mention that Bang Shasha has always had unruly intentions towards Haonan, and he does not care about your feelings in doing so.

So! This matter is not a matter of communicating with him.

However, Qingqing, although Haonan's actions are a bit inappropriate, his heart for you is true. I can guarantee this. A man does not think carefully when doing things, so he often hurts others unintentionally, and he is not self-conscious. I know. Their way of doing things is different from that of women, but in their hearts, they don’t want to hurt others, and Hao Nan is the same, he usually loves you so much, we can all see, how could he do things that hurt you. (To be continued.) To find this site, please search for or enter the URL: