A tumultuous life

Bao Li looked at Xue Shanshan and said, "Don't you know the relationship between me and her?"

Xue Shanshan said, "I don't know."

Bao Li said, "I am her sister-in-law, and she is my sister-in-law."

Xue Shanshan was stunned for a moment, looked at Bao Li, and said, "Do you want her to divorce?"

Bao Li said, "It's not because of me, Xiao Wu, but because it is necessary."

Xue Shanshan said, "I don't understand."

Min Rou explained it, and Xue Shanshan finally understood.

At the beginning, Bao Li's family was good, and Xiaoyu was also outstanding. It was reasonable for them to get married. At that time, they didn't care about anything. After all, they had a good family background and could do anything. The problem is that when something happened, there were more problems. If Xiaoyu's husband worked hard, or knew what struggle was, he would understand Xiaoyu's difficulties.

The problem is that he didn't understand Xiaoyu's difficulties, but was a little tormented.

Bao Li may have been influenced by her family and felt that Xiaoyu was incapable. After coming here and experiencing some things, she found that it was not Xiaoyu's fault. Some things are mutual. Just like Xiaoyu, who has been working hard and hard, found a useless brother.

At this time, it is easy to see who is responsible.

Xiaoyu is outstanding and it is easy to attract many people's covetousness when she goes out to work. This is certain. Logically speaking, at this time, she should be comforted by the Bao family. The reality is that she did not get comfort, and was criticized. This made her feel that something was wrong.

Xue Shanshan said: "What will your brother do after the divorce?"

Bao Li said: "My mother wants a grandson."

Don't say anything about favoring boys over girls. Many families, even after decades, have not changed their minds and think that boys are favored over girls. Someone once said that there is no need to favor boys over girls without succession to the throne. Maybe there is something wrong with the idea. It's not that this person's idea is wrong, but that many people's ideas are wrong.

From a genetic point of view, only men's genes will be inherited.

That's why someone has to carry on the family line.

Many things from our ancestors cannot be changed. They make sense, and some things have different interpretations. Just like a child born to a Chinese American, he is always alert and distressed. He is sent to the hospital, but he can't be treated well and can't find out the symptoms. There is no way, so he can only ask for help from Chinese medicine in China. Chinese medicine requires clinical diagnosis, not blind guessing. But there is no way to get through, so he can only prescribe medicine like this. The prescription is also incredible. It says that rhino horns are ground into powder and given to children to drink. There is no way. At that time, he could only treat a dead horse as a living horse. After all, Western medicine has no way. The child is waiting to die, so he can only rely on Chinese medicine. As a result, unexpectedly, the child's disease was cured.

Many people feel incredible.

ToYou know, people who understand science or chemistry may know that the composition of rhino horns is the same as that of human fingernails. How can they cure diseases? This is something mysterious.

Chinese culture is the only recorded historical culture in the world, and it also records many mysterious things. Don't say superstition, but we need to believe. We are a patriarchal society, not a matriarchal society. It's not like the Jews, who may be happy, after all, they can be passed down.

Since it is a patriarchal society, how can you not like to have grandchildren?

It's just that some people want bigger ones, and some people want smaller ones.

There is nothing wrong with Bao Li's parents wanting to have grandchildren.

If the family is good, they may not care. If the family is not good, there will be many problems. At this time, wanting to have grandchildren will cause problems. Think about it, if Xiaoyu and her husband work together to have another child, there is nothing wrong, and it can be said that it is a normal request.

The problem is that her husband did not bring back the money, and he relied on Xiaoyu's efforts alone. He also wanted a grandchild, which was a problem. And, most importantly, Bao Li's mother supported her son's approach. This caused many conflicts.

Xue Shanshan's idea was very simple, and she didn't understand it. If she wanted to have a grandchild, she could let Xiaoyu and her husband have one, and that would be fine.

Min Rou said, "I'm afraid Xiaoyu's husband is tired of her."

Xue Shanshan didn't understand, but she understood a little.

Min Rou's meaning was very clear, that is, Xiaoyu's husband might not have much interest in her. Therefore, even if she wanted a child, it would be very difficult.

Xue Shanshan said, "That's it, and you're still tired?"

The subtext of this sentence is, why would you get tired without taking a piss and looking at yourself? Who do you think you are? An extraordinary person? Just an ordinary person, who has nothing and no ability. How could the first person get tired of it?

Logically speaking, Bao Li's brother is not qualified to say this, the person who said this should be Xiaoyu.

Besides, she also subconsciously looked at Xiaoyu.

Bao Li said: "You have never thought about what our family was like before."

This sentence has some meaning.

Xue Shanshan did not understand and said: "I don't understand."

Min Rou said: "You are just a child, so you haven't figured out many things."

Xue Shanshan said: "I just didn't understand."

An Siming said: "He has a good family background, so he is a playboy."

Xue Shanshan said: "Didn't you say that the family has fallen into decline?"

An Siming said: "Habits that have been developed are not easy to change."

Xue Shanshan did not speak immediately, but understood.

From the beginning,Xiaoyu's husband just likes to flirt with women. There seems to be nothing wrong with this. After all, many second-generation rich people have this problem. In addition, many women also like such people. Just like Xiaoyu, she also likes him, otherwise she would never marry him.

Family decline means that the family can no longer keep certain things as before, and can only let many things start to lose. Think about it, flirting with women, even if you don't spend money, you still need to maintain your image of being rich, not to say that you look a little down and out.

Since it is to maintain, you need to spend money to maintain it. It is impossible that you can say that you are rich as soon as your lips touch, and you are rich. This requires behavior to prove it. Others are not children, and they can listen to what he says about what they are. Moreover, spending is a habit, so you will spend money recklessly and naturally want to spend money.