After being dressed as cannon fodder, the bosses cried and begged for my forgiveness

Chapter 160, True and False Ome 21
Jian Yi didn't know the psychology of Jane's father, he was so quiet only when he came to other people's house to be honest.

But Shuyan Shangshen saw the old man's regret.

So she smiled and didn't say anything. After pouring him a cup of tea, she gestured for him to sit closer to Jane's mother with her eyes.

Seeing the girl blinking at him, Papa Jian couldn't help shaking his head angrily and amusingly, secretly thinking that this girl is also a ghost.

Back then, if his son had been so clever, the husband and wife would have been able to reconcile better, but his son was as virtuous as his mother, he looked soft on the surface, but had the hardest temper.

Now he also realizes that he was indeed too pedantic back then, and he did look down on women a bit, so he regrets it a little today.

As for the son's marriage, of course he didn't have that thought.

Otherwise, he wouldn't have followed to Jing's house.

But since they are all here, he should make a statement to reassure the Jing family.

"Don't worry, my family is not an educational family, but the family education is also very strict. Jian Yi is not the kind of character who sees differences and wants to change. He must fall in love with your daughter for the purpose of marriage."

"If Jian Yi treats Bei Bei badly in the future, we parents will be the first to say no."

Mother Jane nodded and also agreed. "I'm not waiting for an evil mother-in-law. In the future, Beibei can live with us if she wants to, or live alone with Jian Yi. I will listen to them. I promise to be a good mother-in-law."

Jian Yi also expressed his attitude to them seriously, "Uncles, aunts, and the four elders, I really want to date Beibei, and I hope you can make it happen."

After hearing this, the Jing family was not untouched.

Seeing the sincerity of what people say, it doesn't seem like a fake.

And it's not a marriage yet, it's just so solemn, if she really gets married in the future, it won't be too bad for Beibei to marry into Jane's family.

As a result, the elders of the Jing family were a little shaken.

Seeing how sincere his family was, Jing's mother didn't object so much.

When he was young, he always took care of his daughter a lot. Now that the child is grown up, she doesn't want to have any quarrel with the girls, so she naturally agreed.

It's just a relationship, it's not like getting married right away.

It's also my fault that their family is too strict, so they have to come here so solemnly.

Father Jing is actually the most enlightened one in the family.

It's just about his daughter, so he has to be serious, lest people think his family is casual.

So the mentality of raising a son is different from raising a daughter.

One is afraid of being bullied, and the other is afraid of bullying others, but they both have the same heart to love and protect their children.

So the mother took the lead and nodded, "Then let them try, the left and right children will always love to fall in love when they grow up."

Jian Yi was overjoyed when he heard it, his eyes lit up as if he had won a lottery.

Even Jane's mother was very happy, as if the marriage proposal was successful.

After the two families had a brief talk, several elderly people invited them to have dinner.

Father Jing had no choice but to serve the meal.

Seeing him as a big man, Jane's father still washes his hands and cooks?

Even serving rice?For a moment, it was a little strange. How could there be such a man?
Originally in his cognition, men should go out to work, while women should wash and cook at home and take care of their children.

But Jing's family doesn't seem to be like this.

Their family seems to have a good family style, but men also do housework, and women also help out.

The couple talked and laughed together, but they cooperated happily.

Seeing how sweet their husband and wife's interaction was, Father Jane couldn't help thinking of when he was young, when he would only go to the sofa every time he came home.

If Jian Yi's mother cooks dinner late, he will lose his temper.Even slam the door away.

Thinking about it now, Jian Yi's mother probably insisted on divorcing him because he was disappointed again and again in this kind of ignorance and incomprehension.

Jane's father couldn't help looking at Jane's mother frequently, as if he had something to say.

Seeing this, Shuyan Shangshen proposed to take them for a stroll around the neighborhood after dinner.

Jane's mother smiled and said yes, and Jane's father was even more grateful, thinking that this girl is really going to become a ghost, a ghost.

After they all finished eating, Jing's father still went to wash the dishes, and Jing's mother also went to help, and the four elders also helped to clear the table together.

The family looked extremely harmonious, as if they were used to helping together.

Jane's father saw all the feelings after watching it.So it turned out that what Jian Yi's mother asked for back then was only his help?

Lord Shuyan knew that the old man was full of doubts and confusion, so he took the couple for a walk after dinner.

Jian Yi took her hand and walked in front, while Jane's father and Jane's mother walked behind.

I still remember that Jian Yi's family lived here more than ten years ago.

This meeting, when passing by the former community, Jane's father and Jane's mother immediately thought of the past.

In the early days, Jane's father was busy with work and didn't care enough about his family.

He thought that as long as he gave his wife the money, she should be satisfied instead of asking for this and that all day long.

But what Jane's mother really wanted was that he could accompany them to have a meal when he was free, but he said that she was too demanding, so it's no wonder she wasn't sad.

She doesn't want him to accompany her every day, she just hopes that he will remember to eat when he is busy, and come back to rest when he is free, so that she can cook some soup for him to replenish his body.

But Jian's father was so focused on work that he had no other thoughts. Moreover, he was a man who grew up under the education of male chauvinism, so he was naturally impatient with Jian's mother's thoughts.

After all, men and women have different minds. If there are too many misunderstandings, they will be disappointed in each other.

During that time, Jane's mother felt that she couldn't make it through, so she wanted to divorce.

At that time, Jane's father felt that she was making trouble for no reason, so naturally he didn't bother to pay attention.

But if this misunderstanding is not resolved for a day, the contradiction will become bigger and bigger, and in the end the two will reach the final step.

If Dad Jing hadn't persuaded them, saying that the children need their parents, let them calm down, and don't let the children watch their parents become enemies in the end.

Otherwise, they are afraid that the more trouble they make, the more ugly they will be.

It was also thanks to Father Jing's words that he reminded the two of them, so they were able to raise Jian Yi together after their divorce.

After so many years, the two calmed down and gradually realized their mistakes.

Back then, Jane's father was too conceited, thinking that everything he did was right.Naturally, he would not apologize to his wife.

But Jane's mother thought that he didn't love her or this family, he only loved himself.So when I was tired, I didn't want to go on.

But today, when they saw that Jing Beixin's family lived happily, they knew they were all wrong.

In a long marriage, two people need to understand each other, respect each other, and talk to each other.

Instead of blindly swallowing all the worries, this will only deepen the misunderstanding.

Both Jane's father and Jane's mother seemed to realize their immaturity back then, and they all sighed.

Shuyan Shangshen and Jian Yi turned around and saw that they both realized their mistakes, so they looked at each other and left them space to talk on their own.

Jane's father saw that they were quite clever, so he took Jane's mother to the lake to whisper.

"Back then, it was my fault. I shouldn't have said that to you. It wasn't that you had long hair and short knowledge, but I had short hair and short knowledge."

Jane's mother smiled and said, "Your hair is indeed short, but I am also wrong. I should communicate with you well, instead of blaming you for everything. I am also wrong about this."

The two talked about their faults to each other, but they had a sense of déjà vu that had cleared up their suspicions.

Shuyan Shangshen looked relieved and funny, held Jian Yi's hand and said, "If we get married in the future, we must not be like them. It's best to talk about everything, and it's best for everyone to discuss it." .”

Jian Yi agreed, "That's right, I will definitely discuss with you whatever happens in the future, and I will also share the housework with you."

Shuyan Shangshen nodded in satisfaction, "Let's date first, we're still too early to get married."

Jian Yi frowned, and said jealously, "Why do you say that? I came to your house with the mentality of marrying you..."

The expression is quite resentful.

(End of this chapter)