Greenery Ace No. 9

Chapter 678 Exclusion and Isolation
Before hearing Zhou Zheng's words, Zheng Bin had always been confident in what he said just now, and felt that those words were wise words, and he believed that he was the best evidence of these wise words, without exception.

However, after listening to Zhou Zheng's long speech, Zheng Bin was suddenly shocked, because what Zhou Zheng said were opinions and statements that she had never heard before, which had a huge impact and influence on his thinking. It made him feel a little confused.

However, after thinking about it carefully, he felt that what Zhou Zheng said was quite reasonable. The difference in IQ between people is really very small, and there is no difference at all on the surface. It is not enough to make the difference in academic performance between the two people so much, and the most reasonable explanation for this is that, as Zhou Zheng said, these students have different interests from each other, and some people's only way of entertainment and lifestyle is to study , Monotonous and boring, but they don’t think it’s boring, they even think that learning is the most supreme form of entertainment in the world, as long as they can learn, they will be happy, but they feel at a loss after graduation and don’t know what to do.

Generally, this kind of students will continue to study from kindergarten to Ph.D., or even postgraduate, because these students can find that special feeling of success in school. They are afraid of losing this feeling, so they will continue their time in school. Graduation faces the society. In order to continue the length of time in school, most of them even choose the profession of teachers so that they can stay in school all their lives and avoid facing complex society.

Because they have grown up in school for a long time, they have no possibility of mastering the complex skills in interpersonal communication. In addition, they all have relatively simple thinking, because they usually face books and reports and have no social interaction at all. ability, if they are pushed into the society suddenly, these people will be at a loss, no matter where they go, they will be excluded. In the new company or unit, they will either be excluded by all colleagues or suppressed by their superiors. If it happens that the student with good academic performance is a girl and she is very beautiful, then it will be even more troublesome.

Even if there are some male students who have other ideas about him in school, it is a school after all, and no one dares to mess around, but it is different when entering the society. No matter which company or unit you enter, as long as the female student looks special If she is so beautiful, it will definitely attract a lot of people's attention, and at the same time, many people will give her wrong ideas.

If this girl has enough social skills and a way to deal with other people, then these rotten love affairs can be easily resolved, but this girl who is good at learning does not have the ability to adapt. She neither knows how to accept nor rejects, and finally evolves What's more, these boys who made up their minds about her all think they have a chance and want to take advantage.

Even the leaders of the unit wanted to get involved. Such a complicated living environment was bad enough for a grown man, not to mention a female student, so she definitely wouldn't be able to stay in this unit for long. Will roll up and get out.

In fact, this kind of dangerous working environment is not only for this kind of female students, the situation of male students is also not much better.

Students like this who study silently in school usually don't have many friends, and they don't have any means of entertainment. When they have nothing to do, they just read all kinds of books. Whether it's biographies or famous quotes, they can recite them all. It is impossible for you to make friends by relying on them. What you need to make friends is time and heart-to-heart exchange.

Having no friends means that the student has no experience and methods of getting along with others. After entering a new environment, he doesn't know how to behave, and even he is not very considerate in terms of politeness. Disdain, slowly once his reputation spreads in the unit, it will cause a chain reaction, everyone will target him, ignore him, and even think he is a fool.

Everyone supports him to do the dirty work with a tacit understanding, and then others stay in the office and enjoy the air-conditioning and eat snacks. Some boring people will deliberately bully him in order to highlight their courage and courage Be humorous and amuse the people in the office at the same time.

Although this unlucky male student knew in his heart that everyone was full of malice towards him, and he also knew that everyone was deliberately punishing him when he was a little unlucky, but he had no way to deal with it, because he didn't know how to deal with it, and he lacked this aspect. Experience, if he was a gregarious child before and didn't spend all his time on reading, then he would definitely learn how to deal with such a dilemma, because ordinary children have experienced such a dilemma since childhood and know how to deal with it.

But the most terrible thing is that this student does not have this experience. He will endure desperately at the beginning, thinking that everyone does not have too much malice towards him. The demeanor is also a bit of a fuss. For newcomers, there is no need to make things too rigid. If everyone can't get off the stage, it's not easy to be a leader.

Originally, this kind of thinking is very good, it’s called peace of mind, and peace of mind is the most effective method for many things, because if you deal with many problems tit-for-tat, there are often no good results, but peace of mind makes this matter go quietly. The past of the voice will have unexpected results in some things, and it will not take much effort.

But this male student must have thought things simply. It might be useful if he put it in school, but what he is facing at the moment is a society full of malice. Have a grateful and pure heart?Everyone has been polluted by the big dye vat of society. No one believes in truth, goodness and beauty anymore. All people believe in only two words: benefit.

This male student desperately backed down, and even tolerated others, but in the eyes of others, it was not the same thing. They didn't understand his retreat as a kind of self-cultivation and self-cultivation behavior, but thought that he did it like this. It's because he's easy to bully, and because he's a coward. After having this point of view, everyone was still a little scruples about bullying him, but now seeing how incompetent he is, when bullying him, they are even more fun, without any worries at all.

This male student originally thought it would be a good idea to calm things down, but what he never expected was that after he made such a big concession, instead of letting him go, these people even worsened their efforts to deal with him, without giving him any way out. , Am I that annoying?

At this point, the male student began to doubt his life and himself, why did I do so well in school?As soon as I came to the society, I was hated so much. Could it be that I failed as a human being?If I really hate it so much, why am I so popular in school?My academic performance is so good, but after coming to this company, I may become a hated person.

If the brain is a little more open, or if it turns faster, then this male student will definitely understand that it is not his fault that these people do such things, but that these people who bully him are not human at all. After this point, all he could do was fight back, no matter who bullied him, he would fight back immediately, and after a few times, these people would never dare to bully him again.

But obviously this male student doesn't have this comprehension ability. All his professional abilities are only useful in learning, and he has no successful experience in dealing with interpersonal relationships, so he doesn't know how to deal with it at all.

At this time, he will only intensify his patience, thinking that all the faults are his own, that he did not do his job well, failed to please his leader, and failed to win the favor of his colleagues. No, so I have to endure these things desperately, don't cause trouble for others, no matter how much others bully me, I just have to cover my mouth and let the tears fall into my stomach.

This kind of depressive life can easily destroy a person. Maybe this male student had a lively and cheerful personality, a positive outlook on life and values, and a warm heart. Under the atmosphere, the whole person will become more and more gloomy, and his personality will undergo a huge change. He will become more and more silent when he was originally cheerful, and he will even refuse to communicate with others, because he knows that in this place as long as If he communicates with others a little bit, others will take advantage of him to ridicule and tease him mercilessly, and even insult him.

So after having this kind of thinking, he will close himself up and not contact the outside world. He who lacks social experience will become more and more isolated, become out of group, and his personality will start to become distorted.

Such a change will make the outside world mistakenly think that this kid is not worthy of respect at all, and he doesn't even feel afraid of him at all, then those who bully him will bully him even more, treat him as a wrong person, and make all bad jokes For him, he has to do all the dirty work, and he has to bear all the blame, so there is no benefit to him.

It may take several people three months to complete a project, but his colleagues deliberately teased him and asked him to complete the work of several people by himself in a week. Originally, the work was worth three or four million yuan, but in the end he finished it alone. , only received a few hundred yuan in remuneration, and the rest of the big heads were shared by others. Such grievances and unwillingness will slowly cause a person to lose his nature and embark on the path of evil.

These vicious cases that have happened recently are actually caused by repression, which can explain the problem very well.

If those colleagues who bullied this male student don't know how to restrain themselves and continue to go their own way, then what awaits them will be incalculable results.

Because people's patience has a limit, even this male student usually shows a very timid look, but as the saying goes, a rabbit will bite when it is anxious, let alone a living person.

Everyone has their own temper, and everyone has their own weaknesses and endurance limits. If this bottom line is touched, then tragedy is entirely possible.

This male student thought that if he endured these grievances, he would be recognized by everyone, and everyone would gradually accept him, or he used his hard work in exchange for everyone's acceptance of him, but things are developing more and more in the opposite direction. Not only did everyone not agree with and accept him as a person, but at the same time they bullied him, they felt that this person was too stupid. He didn't consider his own interests at all, and he did what others asked him to do. He was simply a fool.

His hard work is not recognized by everyone, but he is bullied more ruthlessly by everyone, then the male student's endurance limit may be broken, and he will start to think of ways to fight back. Usually after this stage, people will be in a state of loss. The edge of reason, and this male student has obviously lost his mind, so his counterattack will be the most ruthless,
He may take revenge on those colleagues who have hurt him in extreme ways, such as pouring sulfuric acid on their faces, deliberately giving them laxatives, and hurting them in the most cruel way during one-on-one time, and finally lead to irreparable consequences .

Usually after such a vicious case occurs, the media and public opinion will condemn the criminal, but why the criminal appears, everyone never thinks about it.

Why does the soil that breeds this kind of crime always exist with confidence? Everyone does not question it, and always condemns and criticizes the person who commits such a vicious case. Such vicious cases are not uncommon and happen from time to time.

Thinking of this, Zheng Bin became deeply worried. Although he didn't have to worry about finding a job after graduation, he could go to work in his family's company, or even take a leadership position directly, but after all, students like him were a minority, and most of the others Students who have studied well have to graduate and enter the society to work, and the dangerous environment in front of them is exactly the same as what he imagined just now. Can these students stand these tests and finally display their powerful knowledge? And the ability to work is really a huge test.

Seeing that Zheng Bin was silent for a long time, Zhou Zheng was a little anxious: "Brother Bin, why are you silent for a long time? If you think what I said is unreasonable, you can immediately refute me. On the contrary, if you think what I said is reasonable, Can you just express a tone of approval? Are you trying to protest to me in silence by staying silent for a long time? If so, there is no need, because this trick is useless to me. "

(End of this chapter)