Greenery Ace No. 9

Chapter 579
Seeing that Zheng Bin finally understood the meaning of what he said, Zhou Zheng finally breathed a sigh of relief. After relaxing, he inevitably became a little proud. He hugged his shoulders, looked at Zheng Bin with an air of arrogance, and said: "Brother Bin, I think with your IQ and wisdom, as long as I speak to this extent, you must understand what the method I'm talking about is.

But I didn’t expect it. Your performance disappointed me a bit. I’ve explained it to this extent, but you still don’t understand what the method I want to say is. It seems that you need to strengthen your studies, and you can’t be satisfied with your current situation. Knowledge level, you must catch up, don't let me leave you behind, then I will feel very sad, after all, if my idol and the person I admire the most are not as intelligent and knowledgeable as me, it will inevitably make people I have a strange feeling in my heart, do you say that I continue to insist on admiring you?Or rein in the precipice and focus the direction of worship on yourself?
I think these two choices are not very good. If I still insist on admiring and admiring you under such circumstances, it will appear that I am too unprincipled, and at the same time I have become a big fool; but if I want to It would be too unfeeling to immediately change direction and worship yourself, so in order to avoid this embarrassing situation, you must strengthen your studies and don't let me surpass you too much. "

Seeing Zhou Zheng's dying appearance, Zheng Bin's nose almost crooked in anger, but after all, Zheng Bin's self-cultivation is very high, so he doesn't have the same knowledge as Zhou Zheng, he just smiled wryly, then looked at Zhou Zheng attentively, and slowly Said: "I don't care about what you said. You can choose either of these two options. I have no opinion at all, and you don't have any pressure. But there is one thing I want you to explain quickly. What exactly does the method mean? You keep going around in circles like this, without getting to the point, which inevitably makes me wonder if you really have a way to deal with our captain in your heart?

Are you guilty of talking about him in such a way and always using the method of changing the subject?Don't you have any way to deal with the captain at all?Are you just here to tease me? "

Seeing that Zheng Bin was really in a hurry, Zhou Zheng stopped joking: "Hehe. Okay, I won't tease you anymore, I'll get to the point with you.

In fact, the way I just said to deal with the captain with wisdom is very simple. The reason why our captain is so stubborn and stubborn is because he desperately wants to save face. Every time he makes a mistake in decision-making, or is looking at a problem When he makes a mistake, once everyone persuades and corrects him, his rebellious psychology will be very serious, and he will even go his own way in the end. Even in the face of opposition from everyone in our team, he will insist on doing things in his own way. But even if he is so stubborn and doesn't listen to other people's opinions at all, it doesn't prove that he thinks what he is doing is right in his heart.

He was just pushed to that position by us, and he refused to admit his mistake even after being beaten to death in order to save face. This directly led to the establishment of an insurmountable gap and contradiction between us and the captain. If he does not admit his mistake, we Forcing him to admit his mistakes and change his own plans and measures, the two sides refused to give in to each other, and the conflicts became more and more intensified, which eventually led to a breakup, or even a breakup, which did not help solve the problem at all, and finally reached the most critical situation. At the right moment, when the same cannot be done, the two sides each backed down a step, and then changed the crisis situation.

Brother Bin, think about it carefully. Since the establishment of our team, has it always been like this when other members of the team have conflicts with me, Brother Dali?Sometimes even if our opinions are very reasonable, my Dali brother intends to correct his mistakes and admit his mistakes, but sometimes we are too eager for quick success, press too hard, and our words are too sharp, and we don’t think about it at all. It’s a matter of saving face for the captain, so once he admits his mistake in this situation, the captain will lose all his face to the ground. You said that the captain is such a face-saving person, can he bear such a situation? ? "

Zheng Bin was a little confused by what he said, and thought to himself what Zhou Zheng was trying to express?Shouldn't one admit to being wrong?How much is face worth?Truth is priceless, okay?
Zheng Bin took a long breath, and then expressed the doubts in his heart: "Zhou Zheng, I think what you said earlier is quite reasonable, because I also think our captain is a very face-saving person. Most of the conflicts caused by the captain in the team are caused by his too good face. I think you can see this very clearly.

But I don’t quite agree with what you said later. Even if our captain loves face, he should admit it if he makes a mistake. After all, face is more important than the normal development of our team?Sitting in the position of the captain, he should have a mind that tolerates everything, including his own mistakes. The truly great people are those who have the courage to admit their mistakes. No one can make mistakes, but Afterwards, the performance was very different. Some people made more mistakes in order to cover up their mistakes, and some people did not hesitate to pay the price of lying in order to refuse to admit their mistakes.

However, as long as some people make mistakes and realize their own mistakes, they will immediately admit their mistakes without any scruples, and even openly criticize themselves in front of others. I think this kind of person is the most respectable person, and also Great people, this kind of talent can achieve great things.

Like those narrow-minded people who don't even have the courage to admit their mistakes, can you expect him to achieve anything?
I think our captain already has the mentality and mind to tolerate everything. The only thing he doesn't understand is that he pays too much attention to his own face. I think as long as he passes this level, he can definitely become a very Great team captain, but if he can't pass this level, then there will be troubles later, not only he will suffer, but even our entire team will be ruined by him, because that sentence is good, a snake has no head No, if there is no good leader to lead our entire team, then no matter how high the fighting spirit of our entire team is, it will be difficult to achieve results.

It is actually not a big problem for the captain to have this defect. As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and no one can make mistakes. As long as he overcomes this defect in his heart, he will actually become a very good captain. I think we should help the captain overcome himself. Keep this flaw and shortcoming in mind, and try to help him become a better person, a better captain.

We must not be like what you said just now, because the captain has this problem of saving face, we deliberately bypass his problem, and then use your so-called wisdom to go around in front of him and make his problem bigger. It's not helping him, it's hurting him.

If we keep getting used to the captain's fault like this, he will never realize his shortcoming, which means he will never improve. You and the captain are very good friends. I definitely hope that the captain can improve in the days to come. Be more brave and progressive, but the method you just mentioned will only make the captain worse and worse in the future. "

The long speech Zheng Bin said is actually very reasonable. There is no perfect person in the world, there are more or less faults, and the closest people around him will notice his faults more clearly. After this person has a problem, he will usually choose to work hard to help him correct his faults and shortcomings. This is also the most correct method recognized in the world, and it is also the most idealized method. No one has studied it.

What Zheng Bin said was too idealistic, and he didn't take realistic factors into consideration, so in Zhou Zheng's view, Zheng Bin's point of view was simply a castle in the sky, it looked beautiful, but there was no point of focus, as long as With a slight push, this castle in the air will immediately collapse completely.

If it were an ordinary person, after listening to Zheng Bin's impassioned words, he would definitely be convinced by his views and momentum, and then continue to follow his train of thought, but what Zheng Bin met was Zhou Zheng, a As a person who has grown up in the real society, the dark side of society and the cruelty of reality have long been shown in front of him, so he understands Zheng Bin's beautiful words better than anyone else, but There is no actual effect at all. If people's personalities are really easy to change, there will not be so many people with problems in the world.

After Zheng Bin finished his long speech, he thought that Zhou Zheng would be persuaded by him, so he immediately looked at Zhou Zheng with a little complacency, thinking that Zhou Zheng would immediately echo his point of view, and even started to praise himself, but he was completely wrong. .

After Zhou Zheng listened to Zheng Bin's point of view seriously, with a playful smile on his face, after Zheng Bin finished speaking, Zhou Zheng smiled wryly, and then calmly said: "Brother Bin, what did you just say? These words are really beautiful, the words and sentences are well-organized, logical and majestic, making it impossible to refute. If you use what you said just now to participate in the speech contest, you will have to win the special prize if you don’t win the first prize , it must be that Dugu Qiubai has no opponent, but if you want to use these words to convince me, then I can only tell you sorry that what you just said is not enough to change my thoughts and opinions, because Although what you said just now is very beautiful, in my opinion, the point of view in it is a castle in the air, which is not appetizing. It can be said that if this point of view is applied in reality, it will be useless at all. "

Zheng Bin's eyes widened. He couldn't believe that Zhou Zheng would say such a thing. He was very surprised and said: "How could it be? I thought you would agree with my words, but why do you think that what I said? If it is applied in reality, it will be useless at all? I think what I said is thorough enough, why can’t I convince you? Do you think our captain is so hopeless? ? Even if we all go to help him together, he still can't overcome his inner flaws and face-saving problems? You are too pessimistic."

Zhou Zheng sneered, thinking that Zheng Bin may really have read too much, and his understanding of reality is a bit naive: "Brother Bin, since we have already talked about this, I have to say something, Maybe what I said may sound uncomfortable to you, but let me tell you in advance that what I said below is not aimed at you at all, let alone criticize you. The views you hold are very The idealistic point of view is that kind of metaphysical knowledge. I don’t know if it’s right to say that. Anyway, it’s a very idealized and perfect concept and point of view. This is the truth that is worth pursuing and learning for all of us. It doesn't necessarily work in reality.

Let me tell you this, Brother Bin, I know you read a lot, maybe you read more than the rest of our team combined, oh of course, except for Gu Xiaofeng, that kid must have read a lot Also a lot.

You have read so much, you must have more knowledge and cognition in many fields than the rest of our team, and you also have your own unique insights and cognition on certain issues in your heart, and What is even more commendable is that you can see the essence through phenomena, and see the truth and truth that we cannot see. Just because you can see those truths, you may sometimes feel that some of our ways of doing things and looking at problems Your point of view is so stupid that you want to use those truths to educate us. Of course, your starting point is good, and you want to use profound knowledge and truth to help us improve our cognitive level and wisdom, but in fact it is futile for you to do so. Yes, we are at such a level of cognition. Our cognition and living habits are gradually accumulated in our daily life. They are habits printed in our brains and hearts. It can convince and change us, because there is always a deep wall between truth and reality. Once this high wall is built, it is difficult to overcome.

It's like once a person has a bad habit, if you want him to get rid of it, you have to let him lose his skin, or even lose half his life, because it is easy for a person to form a habit, and you let him quit This habit is simply as difficult as reaching the sky. This is just for a habit. If a person’s natural personality is a bad personality, and you want to use artificial power to get rid of his bad habit, then It's just a dream, it's impossible. "

"Isn't your point of view too pessimistic? I think it depends on human effort. If you want to get rid of bad character and bad habits, artificial efforts will not be ineffective." Zheng Bin retorted.

(End of this chapter)