Chapter 218
Li Huiying's terminal illness was discovered at an early stage, and she underwent surgery. The curative effect is very good, and the chance of "relapse" is relatively low.

But the possibility exists after all.She is an only child.The most worrying thing are the two parents who are getting into old age.

In case she is gone, the second elder doesn't even have a person who will "retire and die".The scene of having no children under her knees is very bleak when one thinks about it.

After Li Huiying's serious illness, although she felt a little inferior in her heart, she worked harder to find a marriage partner.

I used to be very arrogant, but now I have lowered my requirements.

As long as he doesn't dislike her man, and can meet her most basic requirements.Also willing to marry.

Li Huiying's most basic requirement is to have a stable income.

It's okay to have less income, but stability is required.The second is that the appearance does not require good looks, but at least it will not be unappetizing.Another one, second-married men can also be considered, but don't bring children to become a burden on the new family.

Also, the man's family should not be too poor.Her side is heavily in debt because of medical treatment for her, and it is so poor to find a husband. It is almost impossible to live this day.

Li Huiying used to find boyfriends who were several years younger than her.It proves that she is also a person who pays special attention to her appearance.

The images of those tall and mighty boys are most likely to be favored by her.

But the handsome boys who date often do not have stable income.

Li Huiying had her longest-lasting boyfriend, who was three years younger than her and very good-looking. With the support of his good "family background", he started a business.Unfortunately, the "little boyfriend" had no business acumen and soon lost all his money.I still owe a whole lot of debt.

In addition, the ability of young people to "bear pressure" is too bad.Once the little boyfriend encountered setbacks, he immediately gave up and hid back home to play games dully, killing time and dispelling depression.

Before Li Huiying herself and her family suffered major changes, she was under tremendous financial pressure due to doing business like this. Perhaps she could still tolerate and tolerate this "little boyfriend" and allow him to "slowly develop into a mature man. Strong psychological quality", but after experiencing a serious illness, her previous boyfriend left heartlessly, and Li Huiying's criteria for choosing a spouse have undergone earth-shaking changes since then.

Still middle-aged men are more reliable.

About last year, when I went home for the Spring Festival, Li Huiying accompanied her cousin on a blind date.

It was a "blind date man" introduced by a colleague of Li's mother in the hospital, who was said to be a male doctor.However, instead of working in the city's top three general hospitals, he worked in the city's Maternal and Child Health Hospital.

The man is in his 40s, but he has never been married, and of course he has no children.It just looks a bit "vicissitudes". Someone in their 40s looks like they're in their early 50s.

In addition, an old man in his 40s is actually only riding a dilapidated motorcycle to go on a blind date.Later, I gradually learned that this "blind date man" didn't even pass the test for the "C1 driver's license" of a small car.

Although Li Huiying's family situation is not as good as before, she still provides a joint venture car and takes her cousin to go on blind dates.

Li Huiying looked down on the blind date male doctor from the first time she saw the "broken motorcycle".

No wonder there is no wife at such an old age.

The cousin is a relatively introverted person, and she is a bit content with the status quo, unwilling to go out to find a job.The age has been dragged to almost 40 years old, and it will be even more difficult to find someone if you don't find someone.Since then, I have been "chewing the old" at home until I die of old age, and that will be troublesome.After all, the cousin also has a younger brother (also Li Huiying's "cousin").

In recent years, the family has been very active in organizing blind dates for her.

And because the cousin is relatively timid, every blind date is not accompanied by the mother, or by cousins ​​like Li Huiying.

On that blind date, the doctor surnamed Lai took his two daughters to the pedestrian street of the city, the second-floor "private seat" of a relatively high-end cold drink shop, ordered a fruit plate worth more than 100 yuan, and ate the fruit slowly. Talk about life.

Listening to Li Huiying talking about her cousin who is very talented in painting and artistic, Dr. Lai said that he is also keen on designing some small accessories in his spare time.For example, the pattern of the pendant he is hanging now is designed by himself, and then "customized" through the Internet, and made into a satisfactory "trinket" with precious metal materials.

Dr. Lai also specially took down this small ornament that he carried with him, and showed it to the second daughter.

During the weird blind date, Dr. Lai and Li Huiying talked a lot, talking about art, life, and food.On the contrary, the cousin seldom speaks, like a "stuffy gourd", eating stuffily.

Of course, the cousin would occasionally say a few words.But not interesting either.

After that night, the cousin was quite arrogant and didn't ask Dr. Lai's phone number.Dr. Lai did not ask her cousin's mobile phone number.

They feel like they don't like each other.

However, a few days later, Dr. Lai, who had a crush on his cousin, obtained detailed information about Li Huiying, including mobile phone number and WeChat, through his previous blind date introducer.

It turned out that at the blind date that night, Dr. Lai didn't like the heroine of the blind date, but was very interested in Li Huiying.Especially if I learned about Li Huiying's family conditions from the blind date introducer, I would be more satisfied.

Before, the reason why I agreed to meet my "cousin" was because I heard from the introducer that "cousin" had a rich family, and there was a heaven and earth building in the urban area with luxurious decoration.The cousin has only one younger brother.In this kind of family, even if the parents don't divide the family property equally and prefer their son more, but there are only two children, the parents should prepare an extremely generous "dowry" for their daughter, right? !
At the beginning, Dr. Lai imagined Li Huiying's "cousin" as a daughter of a wealthy family.

In fact, the "cousin" family has a "world building".However, the floor area of ​​Tiandi Building is narrow, barely enough for 40 square meters.This area only covers 3 floors. If it is placed in a big city where every inch of land is expensive, it will be very valuable.It's a pity that it is in a third-tier city.It cannot be used as a "first-line pavement" along the street.

Under such circumstances, the narrow "Tiandi Building" can only be said to barely solve the housing problem of the "cousin" family.

After Dr. Lai learned about these specific situations, especially when he thought of the "cousin"'s taciturn performance during the "blind date" that day, his interest in her obviously weakened to the bottom.

Without the lively Li Huiying as a foil, Dr. Lai might have considered that he was a particularly older unmarried man after all, and might have forced himself to continue dating his "cousin" for a while.

But with Li Huiying, although she is not particularly good-looking, but she is better at dressing up, and her speech and behavior are graceful, which of course attracts Dr. Lai's attention.

The key point is that I heard from the matchmaker afterwards that Li Huiying was actually an "only child" and that her family had a "world building" covering an area of ​​more than 100 square meters.Parents still have a set of "welfare housing" in the city's top three hospitals.In addition, my father retired from the post of "Dean of the Department of Teachers' College", and my mother is still working as a "head nurse" in a tertiary hospital... With all the advantages and conditions added up, Dr. Lai really took a fancy to Li Huiying.

Therefore, a few days later, he launched a fierce pursuit of Li Huiying.

Li Huiying felt quite surprised.

Since she had an operation for early cancer, not only did her boyfriend break up with her quickly, but in the next few years, her marriage and relationship problems were unprecedentedly unsmooth.

That time I unintentionally accompanied my "cousin" on a blind date. Could it be that this meeting created a relationship that belongs to her?

To be honest, Dr. Lai's appearance can't be said to be too bad, but he looks too vicissitudes.Li Huiying's biggest dissatisfaction with him is only this point.

In addition, after Dr. Lai began to pursue her, Li Huiying also got to know the "introducer" in detail.Therefore know very well.

Dr. Lai's job is decent.

In the Maternal and Child Health Hospital of this city, his real "post" is not a clinician, but a staff member in the hospital's administrative building who is responsible for "issuing birth certificates for newborns".The so-called "Dr. Lai" is just a "respectful title", not the actual medical work.But "Doctor Lai" has a "organization".This article can guarantee that he will not be easily dismissed by the employer.

Dr. Lai probably has no "grey income" in such a regular job.Just received a meager salary, which is probably barely enough to support his wife and children.But Li Huiying, who has gone through the "test of life and death", is not as ambitious as she was when she was young. What she values ​​most now is "stable job and income".

When Li Huiying became seriously ill, if her parents had not had a stable income to support her high expenses for surgery and follow-up treatment, it would be a big question mark whether she would still be alive in this world now.

Let’s look at her ex-boyfriend. When disaster strikes, you are not to blame for the breakup. As a result, even a penny of "breakup fee" (or "consolation money" is better) cannot be given to the "ex-girlfriend".So what if such a man looks tall and mighty?Empty has a good skin.In fact, he is also a "wreck".

Therefore, "Dr. Lai" is not a real "doctor". At most, he can only be called "Lai Zhen" (the "abbreviation" for "person who registers and issues birth certificates"), but Li Huiying did not work during that period. ah.Therefore, you should not be too demanding on your future husband.

Secondly, Li Huiying also inquired clearly with the "introducer": the reason why "Lai Register" was so old and did not find a wife to marry was mainly because when he was young, his family was poor and he had no housing, and young girls could not see him.Dr. Lai worked hard on his own, earning money and saving money, thinking about buying a house.

After finally purchasing a property in the city that was quite cheap at the time, the house in "Dexing Home" was considered a homeowner.

At that time, the house was fully paid, and it was less than 30.

But Dr. Lai has a "provident fund", so you don't have to use it for nothing, just get a 25-year "provident fund mortgage".

After buying a house, in addition to repaying the mortgage on time, you have to save money to slowly finish the decoration of the new home... In short, after Dr. Lai came out to work, he had to rely on himself for everything. "Worrying about money" has always been his life main theme.With his economic conditions, ordinary women look down on him.

Dr. Lai, on the other hand, can't completely "have no desires and no desires" for the economic conditions of the woman's family. He doesn't have high requirements for the woman's appearance, but he always fantasizes that his future wife's family background is very good, so good that he can let him "Less struggle for 20 years".As a result, it is also the same "high can't be achieved, low can't be achieved".

To be honest, Li Huiying and Dr. Lai are actually "the same type of people".

If one of them hadn't been old, and the other was seriously ill, they would have lost sight of life, unknowingly, they would have lowered their "standards for choosing a spouse".It is also impossible to see each other right.Can barely accept each other.

As for Dr. Lai's parents, both are retired employees of the city's railway department.

It is not considered a wealthy family, but it has a pension. This alone is better than many families.

For this reason, Li Huiying was not too resistant to Dr. Lai's pursuit.

After the two met for a second date (the first time they were dating "indirectly" on the occasion of a blind date with their "cousin"), they went to "Dr. Lai's" new home for the third time and quickly went to bed. .

This is the model of "adult men and women" falling in love in this era.

Regardless of whether they can really enter the palace of marriage in the future, anyway, there will never be less contacts in certain aspects.Neither side cares much about that anymore.

After having the closest contact with "Lai Jiji", Li Huiying didn't feel too much guilt towards the "cousin" of the original "blind date protagonist".

The reason is simple, "Doctor Lai" didn't like her, but Li Huiying instead.This is her own choice, even if she does not show up, Dr. Lai will not have any possibility of developing with "cousin".

In addition, the younger brother of Li Huiying's "cousin", that is, Li Huiying's "cousin", once coveted the large-scale "three-sided light" Tiandilou built by Li Huiying's parents, which also made Li Huiying very happy. disgusted.Early in the morning, it was recognized that the uncle's family was not a good "bird".

Li's father and Li's mother bought land in the "development zone" of this city. Due to various reasons, no high-rise buildings were built for more than ten or twenty years.Li Huiying's cousin, after graduating from university, entered the city's education department to develop. It is estimated that "outside water" made a lot of money, which can be regarded as a small fortune.

The "cousin" came to discuss with Li's father, and he would contribute to help build a five-story Tiandilou. He only had the right to live on the top two floors.All the money invested in building the building will not be repaid by Li's father.

"Cousin" said: I did this to find a partner.You must know that girls in the city or women of the right age in the countryside are all snobbish.Your family doesn't have a spacious house, so it's hard to find a wife.He just wanted to build the house, so he used the top two floors as a "marriage room" to please his wife.

At that time, Li's father and Li's mother did not have the money to build a house. After hearing this suggestion, they hesitated for a while.

At that time, Li Huiying had just arrived at a private university in the "Emperor Capital" to study for a year.The family just called to talk about "cousin"'s suggestion and ask for her opinion?

She was so scared that Li Huiying went back to her hometown in person and had a long interview with her parents.

What she meant: We must not allow outsiders to participate in building a house.Now to put it nicely, as long as the top two floors have "permanent residency".God knows if their family has bad ideas, thinking that she, Li Huiying, might find a boyfriend from the "Emperor Capital" to marry in the future.I seldom come back.Wouldn't that piece of land and the buildings on the land become the "cousin"'s family over time?
Therefore, it is resolute not to allow the "cousin" to invest in building a house on land that does not belong to him.

Of course, Li's father and Li's mother listened to their daughter's opinion.

The "cousin" couldn't build a new house on Li's father's land.

After this incident, the cousin's family has the same attitude towards her family, but they don't have any special opinions.

But Li Huiying has been prejudiced against the "cousin" and "cousin" family since then.

It's just that these negative emotions are well hidden in her heart.

Even if she snatched the "cousin" blind date.so what?
Li Huiying has no psychological burden at all.

(End of this chapter)

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