I beat animals and picked up debris in the courtyard of the heavens

Chapter 291
For example, the relationship between Yanxi and Xiuzhu has been in bed for a long time, and it is clearly stated in the book that they are only short of a formal wedding.

Yanxi was indifferent to Xiuzhu because he had already obtained it and Xiuzhu was keeping an eye on Xiuzhu. At that time, even Meili looked down on Xiuzhu.But in their relationship, Yanxi was still sorry for Xiuzhu, and she was in chaos at first and finally gave up.In fact, he has always been an uncertain young man. In the novel, Yanxi is only 18 years old when he appears.

There is also no conflict between the three sisters-in-law of the Jin family. The biggest conflict comes from the fourth young lady Daozhi and the third young lady, because the third young lady is Bai Xiuzhu's cousin.

The really hateful thing about Yanxi is that after the death of his father, he is really not a human being.Even his own mother is annoying him.

The essence of Leng Qingqiu is ignorance and insufficient concentration.As a result, when you meet a tall, rich and handsome man like Jin Yanxi, if you treat yourself better, you will not be able to find Bei.

But after some things, she will reflect on herself, she will continue to learn, and finally realize the mistakes she made when she was too young, and embark on a truly independent path. I believe that she will also gain true love in the future.

A girl from the bottom class (objectively speaking, she belongs to the commoner class, has helpers at home and can afford to read), should not be obsessed with romantic talents.Although poetry, lyrics and songs are beautiful, they are of little benefit to the daily life of daily necessities.

"Talent for icing on the cake" is more of a pastime.Therefore, I always feel that girls from poor families should not easily choose the path of art, because the cost is too high and it is too difficult to make a living.To learn skills in a down-to-earth manner, it is most important to ensure your ability to eat first.If a person is economically dependent on others, he is bound to be passive and not free.Economy is the first priority, regardless of whether a man or a woman is married or not.

TV dramas beautify the male and female leads and even the second female lead. In fact, Leng Qingqiu is not so lofty and aloof, even a bit worldly greedy for money; Married a woman who couldn't control herself; the second female lead was even more vindictive, and later on she didn't love the male lead at all, and the male lead's family was ruined. After he cheated the male lead into marrying him, he abandoned the male lead and went to France to have sex with others. get married.

The novel is not a love story limited to the love between men and women at all, it is a profound literary work that pierces the social reality.

In the original book, Leng Qingqiu's character is not so prominent. In the book, Jin Yanxi is just a full-fledged playboy, and she is very angry when she reads it.Of course, the TV series has made some changes, somewhat adding the meaning of "gifted scholars and beautiful ladies" to this love tragedy, and amplifying their character traits into Leng Qingqiu's resignation and independence, Jin Yanxi's personable, and the actors are too close, otherwise Jin Yanxi's tonality in the original novel, anyone who sees it will call a scumbag!
If Jin Yanxi was really talented, he wouldn't give things away over and over again, and he wouldn't bother giving things away.He will rely on his talent to attract Qingqiu.If Yan Xi was talented, the Jin family would not fall.On the contrary, several girls from the Jin family have become successful.

If Qingqiu had the knowledge of the Jin family girl, she would have dismissed these things and concentrated on studying.She may be thinking to herself, "What's wrong with meeting a talented and handsome young man from Zongli?"

"Just like that. She thought that Yanxi always sent things like this because she cared about herself, so she was moved, but no one can judge whether the sincerity behind the gift is true. To judge a person, one can only judge from what he usually does and what kind of friends he makes. Judging, this is something Qingqiu can't do.

What Qingqiu can do is to reject those gifts, not fabrics, not gift certificates.Rejection can test whether Yanxi really loves her sincerely.

Unfortunately, Qingqiu accepted everything, so she was not the Qingqiu we imagined, and we had too high expectations.

But after marriage, Qingqiu showed a very independent demeanor, perhaps not losing to Miss Jin's family.

Miss Jin's daring to fight and leave home is because the tolerant environment cultivated their bold character.It was the same when Qingqiu left home to go to the south alone.What's more, Qingqiu came out after entering Jin's house.

He Yuzhu saw them revisiting Xishan, but he didn't feel Jin Yanxi's sincerity at all, and it could even be said that there was no true love between them.First of all, Jin Yanxi's purpose is not pure. After he met Leng Qingqiu, compared with those courtesans, he hoped to marry a good wife and mother who was obedient at home, so that he would not restrain himself, while a courtesan is a girlfriend who is just a showman. Unfortunately, Leng Qingqiu fits the bill.What's even more unfortunate is that Leng Qingqiu was firmly captured by Jin Yanxi's substance from the bottom of his heart.

Do you think he likes him by trying so hard to please?He has a lot of skills, and in a big family, he has a lot of ability to figure out people's hearts. You see, Jin Yanxi can eat a lot at home!He did not rely on personal qualities or talents to impress Leng Qingqiu.What is even more sad is that Leng Qingqiu herself and her mother and uncle, she is vain, and her family can't stop being greedy for petty gains. There is no shortage of time.

In fact, this tragedy was also Leng Qingqiu's own fault.There is a small dialogue in the middle, it is about women's reading, haha, don't want to disagree with the three views.Not to mention the matter of Jin Yanxi outside.I see that now, Jin Yanxi is considered a scumbag.

In fact, the tragedy of the Jinfen Family is that Jin Yanxi knew intellectually that she should marry a wife like Leng Qingqiu, but she couldn't control her lust; But can't control it.

In a family like the Jin family, the family tradition is like this. Not to mention Jin Quan, Feng Ju had an outer room. The family also felt that he just didn't know how to live and deal with problems. Peifang didn't have the power to object at the root, so Fourth sister Michizhi's generous character also allowed her husband to keep Japanese maids in his house. It seems that this is the magnanimity and sentiment that a housewife of this class should have.

The so-called love and the so-called equality do not exist in the values ​​​​of such a feudal family, even if they have been westernized for one or two generations.

In contrast, Jin Yanxi is just particularly arrogant and indulgent, and always doesn't follow the old rules: the old rules are that when talking about marriage, he must be of a good family. In the end, different values ​​​​can't be adjusted; the old rule is that you have to wait until you cheat outside of marriage. For example, Fengju Pengzhen and others go to the alley to play opera. , insisted on continuing to fall in love like Xiuzhu (Xiuzhu deliberately seduced and said that Yanxi's pursuit of love is an internal cause), the end of breaking the rules is that it is impossible to just let go, Yanxi even has the idea of ​​letting go in time None, very naughty.

The old rule is that officials make a living and the social scene is the key point, Qingqing and I are mediators, Yanxi, as a loser, can only be happy blindly, not as capable as her father, brother-in-law Liu, not even as good as her two elder brothers.

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