I beat animals and picked up debris in the courtyard of the heavens

Chapter 262 Anna
At that time, Wang Gui was instigated by his mother to slap Anna.Anna was startled and angry, and left without a word of divorce, not even caring about her daughter.

This is one of the most common contradictions in family dramas, and most men will choose to stand on the mother's side, prevaricating with the sentence "my mother is not easy", and ask their wives to unconditionally compromise and make concessions to the elderly-no matter which side is wrong.

But after Wang Gui calmed down, he immediately sent his mother away.

Then he pleaded guilty and wrote a letter of guarantee, sincerely inviting his wife home.

Later, the mother-in-law never lived with her daughter-in-law for a long time, and the conflicts were weakened by time and separated by space, and lived the rest of her life in peace.

I very much agree with the saying that the essence of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually the conflict between husband and wife.

A man who can understand clearly will never use "oldness" as an excuse to pamper the elderly, and he also knows how to balance the relationship between everyone and Xiaojia.Since they can't be as close as mother and daughter, they simply isolate themselves, and don't make strict requirements for wives and mothers.

Therefore, he was able to admit his mistakes, be subdued, and corrected when he knew his mistakes. Anna never worried about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Compared with Jiang Defu, Wang Gui is not a perfect husband, but he has indeed defeated many fools by an overwhelming advantage.

Look at Anna's side.

For the sake of her family, she gave up her dream university.

The college entrance examination resumed, and Anna, who was delayed by the reasons of the times, was eager to try.But at that time, she was already pregnant with her second child.

There was a lot of opposition around her, Wang Gui acted both hard and soft, and her mother was angry and wanted to sever the relationship. Almost everyone opposed her to continue pursuing her dream on the grounds that she was already a wife and mother, and family should come first in everything.

Anna was trapped on all sides, and finally had to bow to fate, abandon her dreams, and choose family.

As a man, He Yuzhu took it for granted, and with his experience, he also understood that once Anna really went to the college entrance examination, 90.00% of the time, she and Wang Gui would definitely end up in a divorce!

As for pregnancy and having a second child, none of these can hinder Anna's determination. At most, these will make Anna hesitate. In fact, she will be late, but sooner or later there will be a day when they break up!

So what Anna's mother did was right, and it was also for Anna's own good!A woman's studies are not so important to a woman's lifelong happiness!The Wang Gui she fancy can give Anna a stable and happy life for the rest of her life!

Anna seems hypocritical, but in fact she is transparent and rational. She will not be as single-minded as Wen Li, not to mention forcing herself into a bitter wife, and pushing her husband farther and farther away.

In fact, Wang Gui also had moments of distraction.In middle age, he once had an affair with a young English teacher, and was caught by Anna.

But her way of handling it is completely different from Wen Li's.

Anna didn't cry or make trouble, and she didn't go around talking about damaging her husband's career and image. Instead, she calmed down her emotions, and then seriously negotiated with her husband: either get a divorce, or correct her mistakes and live a good life.

Wang Gui chose the latter, changed his mind from then on, and devoted himself to being a good husband and father.Later, even when no one was around, he learned to actively avoid suspicion.

In this marriage defense battle, Anna won a big victory.

Thinking about it carefully, there is indeed a trace of discord, but whose marriage can not be stained with a trace of dust?Anna is well versed in human nature, but slowly convinced herself.

Or maybe it's because she didn't love Wang Gui to the bottom of her heart.

Therefore, she can tolerate the flaws in the marriage, and also keeps a door for the returning husband.

But I also believe that she will not bear it again and again, let alone entangle her so deeply in an unworthy man.

Of course, the petty bourgeois girl Anna has had love.

The other party is in the same family as her. He can play the piano and play chess. He is full of life style and can be called Anna's soul mate.

Living with the incomprehensible Wang Gui, first love turned into a synonym for "love", representing another kind of missed life, for her to sigh with emotion, and then use it to pay tribute to her youth.

But goodbye in middle age, Anna refused the love proposal of her first love, and gave up the opportunity to go abroad with him.

In fact, she had a brief moment of excitement, but was finally brought back to reality by reason, just like the heroine in "The Bridge of Lost Dreams".

On the one hand, it is because she is reluctant to give up the existing warmth, and on the other hand, because she understands the unreliability of love.

If you really abandon your family and children and go with your first love, life may not be better than it is now.

A new round of running-in will exhaust their energy, and when their respective masks are taken off, life will still reveal its ferocious true colors.

In fact, love only determines whether two people can get married, but it cannot guarantee a happy marriage.Because happiness is managed, you need to work hard outside of love.

The major premise of living a good life is not to marry love, but to live life with brains.

And two people who sincerely want to live a good life can often fulfill themselves and live up to others.

When He Yuzhu watched this TV series, he still watched it very seriously. The main reason was that Wang Gui was also an honest person, which resonated with him!

Moreover, it is more real than "Parents' Love" and gentler than "Golden Wedding". It not only exposes the cruelty of marriage, but also hides beauty between the lines, so that people can take a breath from time to time and not be completely disappointed in the future.

Anna probably also slowly developed love for Wang Gui.

To be precise, it should not be called love.

It is a complex and chaotic emotion, born out of a long time together, and it often appears in the form of family affection, but occasionally there will be a few pink bubbles, which make the heart beat.

However, whether it is love or not is not important, what is important is that in this life, Wang Gui and Anna are living well.

Of course, in He Yuzhu's increasingly domineering mentality, he still doesn't want Anna to follow Wang Gui, because he can give Anna a better life!

The video on the huge screen began to show Anna's mental journey, and Wang Gui appeared from time to time...

Anna watched fascinatedly all the time, and Anna's mother was even more relieved. She thought that Wang Gui was a good person, and it was right to plan to marry Anna to Wang Gui!

But soon when Wang Gui had an affair, Anna and her daughter suddenly looked ugly!

Anna remained silent, very disappointed with Wang Gui!

Anna's mother even cursed Wang Gui for a good death!
Anna teased: "Mom, this is the good guy you found for me?! Do you really want to marry me to him?!"

Anna's mother said angrily: "Don't even think about it, I will never let him succeed! I will tell Wang Gui tomorrow that the blind date has been cancelled!"

I don't blame Anna's mother for being angry, this kind of thing was a big deal before getting married!On the contrary, if Anna and Wang Gui are married now!
Even if Anna's mother is angry, she will not resolutely object and let them divorce!

In a word, the sunk cost of doing that is too high to bear!
Now that they are not together, the sunk cost is very small, so Anna's mother can confidently declare that Wang Gui will be eliminated!
Therefore, people are all profit animals, and they are also the most hypocritical creatures. They are obviously for profit, but they have to put on various emotions as a fig leaf...

(End of this chapter)