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Chapter 323. 323. Opponent

Lu Wen brought several students to Qian Xiaoming's place.

This place just resolved the fight between Japanese students and American students. By the time Lu Wen and the others arrived, the place had completely returned to normal. The next step was Qian Xiaoming's debate competition.

Debate competitions are usually debated by several people together, one debate, two debates and three debates, but the competition in the small college is only debated by one person, which better reflects the level of students.

On the other side of Qian Xiaoming was a student from a small college in Italy. The topics of the debate were also somewhat representative and related to these students. These topics were carefully selected by UNESCO.

The topic of Qian Xiaoming's debate is: the generation gap between children and parents. The main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the parents, and the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children.

Regarding this topic of debate, students like Qian Xiaoming have personal experience. No matter where the generation gap between children and parents exists, the generation gap between children and parents is an objective thing.

The debate that Qian Xiaoming drew was that the main responsibility for the generation gap lies in the fact that the child is the opponent. The Italian student is called Albert.

When the topic comes up, the two people draw their own debate direction, and then give each of them 10 minutes of thinking time. This is the time to test them, and their extensive knowledge will be reflected here.

When the time comes.

The referee said directly: "Now, the affirmative please state your point of view first."

Albert was obviously very confident. After hearing what the referee said, he said directly: "My point of view is that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. Parents with more than ten years of life experience are very mature and know There are a lot of things. You Chinese people have a saying that parents eat more salt than we eat rice. Obviously, parents know a lot more about this world than we do.

However, the times are constantly moving forward, and the life experience they have accumulated is not applicable in today's rapidly developing society.And we are young people in the new era. We are constantly progressing with the times, and the pace of our parents cannot keep up with us who are advancing. It is impossible for us to stop and wait for our parents to catch up with us.

Parents not only do not understand us, but sometimes use their old views to resist our development; this is how the generation gap between the two generations arises.Therefore, we believe that the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. "

Albert's knowledge is very extensive, and he also knows Chinese sayings. Qian Xiaoming didn't think of this, but he didn't panic either. He has his own self-confidence. He didn't learn it for nothing for so long, and he Now I still feel that my mind is very clear, as if every time it is his turn to take the exam, his mind is very clear. Blessing's intermediate learning aura's sake.

Qian Xiaoming said seriously: "Chairman, judges, friends here, hello! First of all, let me point out some mistakes made by the other party:

The generation gap can be clearly defined as the differences between the two generations due to values, mental states, and living habits.

Responsibility has two meanings: one is what should be done within one's duty;After mastering these concepts, from the generation, expression, development and essence of the generation gap, we can make it clear that the main responsibility of the generation gap in the family lies with the children.

The generation gap is mainly manifested as: differences, misunderstandings, suspicions, complaints and even confrontations between parents and children.Generally, as the children mature, the generation gap will gradually ease.

One is the drastic change in the physical and mental state of young people.Dramatic changes prompt us to discover ourselves, pursue independence, subvert childhood concepts, and begin to choose and pursue career, friendship, love, and life values.In today's one-child families, the lack of knowledge and experience of the parents makes them less prepared for the changes in their children, and they can only deal with them in the same way as before.Only when teenagers make their parents clear about this mutation can they bring about corresponding changes in their conceptions and eliminate misunderstandings and barriers. "

Qian Xiaoming was talking on stage, with a confident and free and easy face. At this moment, he no longer had the funny face in front of Lu Wen, nor the incongruity in front of his classmates. He has now replaced himself Among the roles that the teacher had customized for himself, at that moment, he imagined how he would scold Fang Qiu for himself and for the benefit of the country.

Lu Wen also looked at Qian Xiaoming on the stage, and he was very satisfied. After such a long period of study, coupled with repeated external practice in school, he has initially established his own self-confidence.

And the students next to him seemed to have seen a ghost. They had never seen Qian Xiaoming like this. Is this the same Qian Xiaoming who has always been out of tune?Is this still Qian Xiaoming who is full of hippie smiles?
Not only them, but even Qian Xiaoming's parents are full of surprise at this moment, they almost can't recognize their son, they look at the son talking on the TV screen, they suddenly feel a little dazed, their own The son seems to have grown up.

At this moment, the son who has been arguing with them, they feel that they have really grown up. They no longer know what they are thinking in their hearts. Now they have mixed feelings in their hearts, and they have all kinds of feelings.

There is joy, joy, and the thought that this kid has grown up and his parents can't control him, but the joy in his heart is mostly.

Qian Xiaoming didn't know what the parents below and outside thought, he just wanted to win this competition and realize his dream.

Qian Xiaoming's time was up, and the referee showed a red card to signal the end of the time. Qian Xiaoming just said, "So we believe that the main responsibility for the generation gap lies with the children."

Albert's complexion became a little heavy. In Qian Xiaoming's 1-minute debate just now, he not only refuted his justification for the debate, but also clearly stated his own point of view. At this moment, he clearly felt that this was a strong opponent. , should not be underestimated.

When it was time for Albert to explain, he took a deep breath and said slowly: "I would also like to raise a few questions about the other party's point of view here. First, the views of young people are in line with social development. Among them Sometimes, as parents, you should not blindly deny your children's views. Children's views are not necessarily wrong, and some parents completely deny their children's views.

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Next, I want to explain my point of view. Parents use their outdated ideas to guide their children, which will make children who are in the rebellious period feel disgusted.Parents regard themselves as elders and think that they are justified no matter what.

Therefore, they failed to communicate well with their children, and there was a generation gap between them.All children hope that they can have a pair of parents who understand them, and hope to tell them about their troubles.

But at this time, parents either feel that their children have been affected by some bad habits, or feel that such troubles are completely insignificant.Such responses again and again will naturally make children unable to communicate with their parents, deepening the generation gap between children and parents.Therefore, the responsibility for the generation gap between parents and children lies with the parents. "

Qian Xiaoming: "Children are impetuous, angry and self-righteous. Well-informed parents certainly don't buy it.

The solution to the generation gap lies with both parties.Parents should work hard to learn cultural knowledge, understand the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times; keep learning and progress; at the same time adjust their physical and mental state, and strive to treat their children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting appearance;
Children should be considerate and caring about their parents, and use appropriate methods to guide their parents to understand themselves and the concept of the times; at the same time, they should have a clear and profound understanding of their own youth and superficial needs.However, the primary responsibility of parents is to support the family; while the social task of children is to learn.Therefore, we believe that the main responsibility for the family generation gap lies with the children. "

The two sides were fighting each other on the debate stage, complementing each other and not giving in to each other. The people in the audience and the people in front of the TV could feel a dignified atmosphere. They looked at the two people who were facing each other on the stage, and they were secretly admiring. Two good boys.

The judges on the stage watched the debates on both sides with brilliant eyes. They have seen all the previous debaters, and none of them are as wonderful as them, and the time is slowly passing by as their debates Well, it's time soon.

But instead of the judges stopping, they continued to watch their debate, which they kind of didn't want to interrupt now.

At this time, both Qian Xiaoming and Albert felt the strength of their opponents, so they used all their solutions, while explaining their own views, while looking for loopholes in the opponent's views, and thinking about themselves What else is not explained clearly.

This kind of thinking is very brain-intensive. In addition, they all got the topic temporarily. They didn't have any preparations before. Now their faces are covered with sweat. This is not because of physical fatigue, but because of overthinking .

And as time went on, they thought for longer and longer, leaving more and more sweat. Qian Xiaoming didn't expect that he would meet such a strong opponent in the first match, and he didn't want to be eliminated here.

Thinking that all the previous students were promoted, and Zheng Chen and Jiang Yuning were both promoted as No.1, if he falls behind here, then he will really lose face. Thinking of this, he became even more determined up.

When Jiang Yuning No.1 was promoted, Xu Miaohan told him. He knew that he was also happy for Jiang Yuning, but it was more pressure. Although Jiang Yuning was the first to become famous in their class, he thought that he was no better than her at all. Difference.

Albert also had the same thoughts as Qian Xiaoming. He didn't compare himself with others, but he simply didn't want to lose this game, so the two of them felt a little bit of a needle point now.

At this time, not only they felt it, but also the audience and judges at the scene felt it. They also saw that these two people were reaching their limit. Stopped.

(End of this chapter)