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The construction of a complete society has many, many, and many aspects. These things cannot be done by relying on Zhao Chaogang alone. These things need many people to do them. Therefore, for some things in the secret world of martial arts, Zhao Chaogang began to gradually open up to others.

Of course, in order to ensure that the development process of Yushi District is under Zhao Chaogang's control, and to ensure that Yushi District will not become someone else's back garden, Zhao Chaogang will not open some important departments in Yushi District to others, even in the future. These departments need to replenish new blood, and the people Zhao Chaogang chooses will be those who are 100% loyal to Yushi District.

As for how to identify whether these people are 100% loyal to Yushi District, this is not difficult for Zhao Chaogang at all.

Business is an extremely important part of the whole society. It can be said that without the existence of business, this society would not exist. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang attaches great importance to business matters.

Zhao Chaogang understands that it is impossible to build a complete martial arts business by himself alone. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang does not object to those who want to enter the business field of martial arts, but welcomes them very much. These people come to do business in the martial arts secret environment.

If a society wants to develop better and more vigorously, commerce is an extremely important part of it. As commerce develops more and more prosperously, the society will develop better and better.

Therefore, Zhao Chaogang has no objection to some warriors devoting their energy to do business. Warriors know the power of warriors best, so.Even if these warriors have gone into business, however.They still won't forget to practice, and.The warriors who know how to invest in the martial arts business circle in the first place are the most intelligent and far-sighted part of the people.

It is said that these warriors are smart and far-sighted, because they know how to make a long-term plan for the cultivation of themselves or their descendants.

Yes, if a martial artist devotes himself to business now, it will distract this martial artist a lot, and the progress of this martial artist will lag behind other martial artists greatly in terms of cultivation.But, don't forget, this martial artist has delayed his cultivation now, but in the future, his cultivation speed will definitely be very fast.

Doing business can earn enough contribution points for this warrior. The bigger the business this warrior runs, the more contribution points this warrior will earn in the future. With so many contribution points, this warrior will It is absolutely possible to buy the best cultivation pills.In other words, this martial artist has great stamina.

Also, even if the cultivation of this martial artist is indeed delayed, but.At the same time, this warrior provided the best conditions for the cultivation of his descendants. In the future, the descendants of this warrior no longer need to worry about cultivation resources.Maybe this martial artist can't become a strong man in the martial arts world now, but.At some point in the future, his descendants will definitely become strong.

With such a calculation.It would be wrong to say that these warriors are the most farsighted and smartest!
The business development in the martial arts secret environment is getting better and better, and the martial arts secret environment is also becoming more and more prosperous accordingly, and the ways for warriors to earn contribution points have also begun to increase. It stands to reason that Zhao Chaogang should not be in those wild areas outside the Yushi District. Or some other dangerous place.

Why did Zhao Chaogang do this?The answer is simple, that is Zhao Chaogang in order to maintain the self-motivation of all warriors.

The inertia in the human heart is innate, just like a person who was originally extremely aggressive, once he lives in a comfortable place for a long time, over time, the aggressiveness in this person's heart will gradually disappear, and eventually disappear in the public.

Warriors are also human beings, and as long as they are human beings, there will be inertia in their hearts.Don't look at those warriors in Yushi District who are practicing extremely crazy. These warriors are practicing so crazy now because their curiosity about martial arts is still extremely high in their hearts. Also, they have mastered powerful power for the first time. After feeling the magic of that powerful power, the pursuit of power became more urgent in my heart.

With these reasons, the cultivation state of these warriors will of course be extremely crazy, but, as mentioned above, once a person stays in a comfortable place for a long time, the aggressiveness in this person's heart will slow down. Slowly disappearing, this kind of thing is the same for these warriors.

These martial artists are currently extremely crazy about their cultivation, but as time goes by, the madness in their hearts will gradually calm down and eventually disappear. At this time, these martial artists will no longer be so crazy When the cultivation energy is gone, without the crazy cultivation energy, the development of martial artists in the martial arts secret environment will slow down, or even regress, and eat their old money. This kind of thing is not what Zhao Chaogang wants to see.

As I said earlier, Zhao Chaogang didn't open up the martial arts secret environment to build a paradise. If Zhao Chaogang wanted to build a paradise, then Zhao Chaogang didn't need to spread martial arts in the martial arts secret environment at all.

Because compared to warriors, ordinary people are easier to manage for Zhao Chaogang, and the destructive power of ordinary people is much worse than that of warriors. It is not a threat to his life safety, living capital, ordinary people generally will not resist, but warriors are different, because of their own strong strength, once encountering injustice, nine warriors will rise up to resist. Therefore, ordinary people Compared with warriors, it is much easier to manage.

But now Zhao Chaogang is spreading martial arts in the martial arts secret environment, which means that Zhao Chaogang opened the martial arts secret environment not to build some kind of paradise, but to enhance the strength of the entire Chinese nation, and finally, let China stand on top of the world.

To achieve this goal, the warriors in the secret world of martial arts must continue to improve, that is to say, the cultivation of those warriors in the secret world of martial arts cannot stop.

However, the inertia in people's hearts is very strong. If there is no external stimulation, as time goes by, 100% of the energy of cultivation in the warrior's heart will gradually decrease. Zhao Chaogang has also considered these, so Zhao Chaogang Chao Gang established a wild area directly outside the Yushi District.

There are powerful savage beasts in the wild area.Acquired Dzogchen, the wild beasts of the innate realm can be found in the wild area.With these savage beasts threatening the martial artists in the secret world of martial arts, the passion for cultivation of the martial artists in the secret world of martial arts will not disappear.

Even if everyone knew that the powerful wild beasts in the wild area would not attack the jade area.As long as they don't leave the jade area, they are still very safe. However, human beings are born with a sense of crisis. Therefore, in order to be able to fight against these powerful beasts, warriors in the martial arts secret environment will not relax their cultivation.

Of course, the threat of powerful wild beasts is not enough. Once a person stays in a dangerous place for a long time.Over time, many people will have psychological problems, so Zhao Chaogang took out the elixir and some rare minerals.

Every elixir will be guarded by powerful wild beasts. If warriors want to obtain these elixir, they must defeat or kill the powerful savage beasts guarding the elixir. The same is true for those precious mineral deposits.

Also, there are countless powerful martial arts cheats in the jade pagoda.These martial arts cheats are also attracting warriors to practice continuously, it's not that the price of these martial arts cheats is very expensive, indeed, the price of these powerful martial arts cheats is not low.However, for this money, warriors only need to have this heart.Still earning it.

There are restrictions on the cultivation of these powerful martial arts cheats, and there are restrictions on the level of the warrior.If the warrior's realm is not at that stage, the warrior should not even think about buying this martial arts cheat book.Let alone practice.

The martial arts cheats in the jade pagoda are all recorded on the memory jade slips. Zhao Chaogang did this to make people who entered the secret world of martial arts maintain awe of the secret world of martial arts.

The more mysterious the forces behind the secret martial arts realm are, the more reverent the people who enter the secret martial arts realm will be. As long as these people have awe in their hearts, no major incidents will happen in the secret martial arts realm.

The second is to deter those who are interested.The caring people here are talking about people from government departments on earth, especially those from the military.A miraculous place like Wulin Mijing, with such rich resources, is not so attractive to those countries on the earth.

Although the colonialism on the earth has disappeared for a while, but after seeing such a resource-rich alien world, the colonialism of those countries on the earth will definitely appear again, and once these countries have their hearts With the idea of ​​​​colonizing another world in front of him, the martial arts secret environment will not be quiet.

Therefore, in order to completely dispel the colonialism of those countries on the earth, Zhao Chaogang directly recorded the martial arts secrets in memory jade slips.For people on earth, things like memory jade slips are definitely something in mythology. Facing such mythical things, countries on earth will hide them deeply even if they have a colonial heart in their hearts. .

Where did these mythical things come from?What kind of background do you have behind you?No country on earth will come out to make trouble.

Also, Zhao Chaogang did this to increase his attractiveness.

Things like memory jade slips are definitely things in mythology, and Chinese people have always had a strong pursuit of gods. Now that there are such mythical things in jade pagodas, it will definitely attract a lot of people to the secret world of martial arts. In order to find the legendary god.

In addition to the powerful martial arts cheats, there are even more miraculous pills in the Jade Pagoda, such as Zhuyan Pill, Breaking Barrier Pill, Longevity Pill... Wait, these are extremely miraculous pills, and warriors want to buy these Powerful martial arts cheats and miraculous elixir require an unusually small number of contribution points.

This requires the warrior to keep motivated, otherwise, the warrior will not be able to earn enough contribution points to buy these magical things......
In this way, not only the threat of powerful wild beasts, but also the attraction of elixir, rare mineral deposits, and martial arts cheats, the motivation of martial artists in the martial arts secret environment will always be maintained.Keeping self-motivated all the time, the future of the warriors in the secret world of martial arts will be even brighter.

In fact, not only warriors need to maintain self-motivation, even ordinary people like us must maintain self-motivation. Only in this way can our life be successful, our life will be wonderful, and our life will be attractive... ……….
Self-motivated, what is self-motivated?Self-motivated, that is, aggressive.The spirit of striving to make progress and be proactive is actually the need for human development.As long as you always maintain a willingness and effort to develop, you are self-motivated.

Self-motivation is people's desire to make progress and not to be left behind.It is the internal motivation for people to be brave in pioneering and constantly advancing, it is the ideological belief for people to persist in ideals and pursue achievements, and it is the spiritual direction and source of motivation for people to continuously seek development.How to guide your self-motivation? Set a goal and move forward bravely.

Self-motivation is the lighthouse and beacon on the road of life. With it, life will have direction and goals; self-motivation is the driving force of life. With it, talents can overcome difficulties and move forward bravely.As Gorky said: "The higher the goal a person pursues, the faster his talent develops. The more beneficial it is to society.

self-motivated traits
([-]) Clear goals

Self-motivation must be linked with clear goals, self-motivation without clear goals is illusory and unrealistic.

([-]) Strive for the top

Self-motivation is a mental state that is not satisfied with the status quo and is always aggressive.This mentality requires people to constantly surpass themselves and move towards higher standards.

([-]) Tenacity

Self-motivation should be accompanied by tenacious will.To achieve success in business, it is not enough to be self-motivated, you must also have a tenacious will.Because in the process of surpassing oneself and achieving goals, many difficulties are often encountered, so it is necessary to have an indomitable will and the courage to despise difficulties.

Speaking of self-motivation, some people will definitely think of negative mentality.So what is a negative attitude?

Negative mentality refers to the long-term psychological experience of extreme disappointment and depression when people's desires are not satisfied.The emergence of negative emotions is related to people's inner expectations and expectations.When a person's expectation realization value exceeds the inner expectation value, because the inner desire is satisfied, the person's emotions will show an excited state; vice versa.When the expected realization value is smaller than the inner expectation value, because the inner desire is not satisfied, people will experience negative emotions such as disappointment and depression.

For example, Xiao Li and Xiao Wang take the college entrance examination at the same time.Xiao Li hopes to be admitted to a prestigious university.Xiao Wang thinks that as long as there is education, it will be fine.They have all been admitted to key universities.Xiao Li was unhappy and depressed because of this.A strong sense of loss arose, while Xiao Wang was overjoyed, elated, and full of the joy of victory.

Why do the same thing produce two completely different psychological experiences?The reason is that the inner expectations of the two are different.

What Xiao Li expects is not only a key university, but a famous university, but what Xiao Wang expects is just to study.It shows that Xiao Li's expectation realization value is lower than his inner expectation value, so he is not satisfied.

And Xiao Wang's expected realization value exceeded his inner expectation, so he was overjoyed.

Teenagers are at the age of intellectual development, full of energy, full of fantasies, and daring to think and do. They often have high expectations of themselves and are full of longing for the future. This may cause deviations between ideals and reality, making their ideals If it is not realized, desires cannot be satisfied, resulting in negative emotional experience.

Especially middle school students who are in adolescence often have strong emotions, poor emotional regulation and self-control ability, so their mood fluctuates greatly. , Health brings many adverse effects, and even affects the healthy growth of young people.

Manifestations of negativity:

Self-motivation plays a big role in the road of life.

An English proverb says: "A life without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder". "Youth without ideals is a morning without the sun." Self-motivated people generally have lofty ideals and clear life goals, and they understand the importance of ideals and life goals for youth and life.Therefore, under the guidance of the ideal sail, they realize their goals step by step.

Some people say: ideals are beautiful, but without will, ideals are just a fleeting rainbow.Others say: ideals, if not put into action, are illusory fog.

Indeed, on the road of realizing our ideals and striving to become talents, it will never be smooth sailing, and we will encounter many difficulties and resistances, even difficulties and dangers. This requires us to have a tenacious will and an indomitable spirit.Otherwise, no matter how good the ideal is, it will be difficult to realize it.

And self-motivation will inject strong spiritual power into young friends and support them to overcome all difficulties on the road to success.Finally reach the ideal shore.

The story of "the tortoise and the hare" is well known to the students. The tortoise is a representative of strong enterprising spirit, motivation to win and tenacious will but poor ability.Rabbit Betty is strong in ability, but lacks enterprising spirit and motivation to win, and is a representative of poor willpower.The result of the game is that the tortoise wins.This shows that enterprising spirit and tenacious will are more important than ability.

Today's society is an increasingly progressive society, a competitive society, and an increasingly complex society.Therefore, people must be self-motivated and enterprising day by day; don't be inactive, but work hard; don't idle around; think about what you don't have, and don't always think about what you have.

A person, a nation, and a country all need to make progress.

Have a progressive heart.Achieve the dream of the emperor.Liu Bang was originally a small pavilion head in Peixian County. His family was poor and his status was low. However, Liu Bang had the world in mind and was self-motivated. During the battle against Qin, he gradually strengthened his power.

After the death of Qin Dynasty, he was unwilling to be just the king of Hanzhong, and wanted to seize the world.The king of the world at that time, in the next battle, Xiang Yu committed suicide and Liu Bang stood at the peak of victory.Founded the Han Dynasty, known as "Han Gaozu".

The all-powerful Na-Po-Lun? Bo-Na-Horse has great ambitions.Day thinking progress. At the age of 25, he became a major general and brigade commander, and his status improved day by day.

Napoleon was young and promising.Has a strong military talent, self-motivated.

Seize the historic opportunity.Launched the "Coup d'état" to seize state power and established the French Republic. Later, in order to consolidate state power, eliminate anti-French forces, and relieve internal troubles, Napoleon was crowned emperor and established Na----- Lun Empire.

Not self-motivated, leading to the decline of the country.

Liu Chan was not self-motivated and ignored the government all day long. The country was still fighting cocks in the face of crisis, which eventually led to the destruction of the Shu Han.Liu Chan, who was named "Marquis of Anle" by the King of Wei, was ashamed to be "unhappy to think about Shu" when faced with the question of the King of Wei.

Li Longji, who created the prosperity of Kaiyuan, took credit for his pride and no longer wanted to make progress. He sang and danced all day long, accompanied Yang Guifei, and ignored the government. Finally, An Lushan and Shi Siming rebelled, and the rebels once killed the capital Chang'an.Reluctantly, Li Longji fled to Maweipo with Concubine Yang, but Maweipo became the place where his concubine died. Under the intimidation of the soldiers, Li Longji had no choice but to save Concubine Yang by dying.

During the turmoil, the people were displaced, suffering unspeakably, the national power declined, and it lost its former prosperity.If Li Longji is self-motivated, Aifei may not die, and history will be rewritten.

Streams have the spirit of self-improvement, so they can flow into the sea, and they can see the boundless sea; trees have the spirit of self-motivation, so they can grow into towering trees, overlooking everything.People must be self-motivated, restless about the status quo, and strive hard for their dreams.

An unmotivated person will never get a chance to succeed
If a person spends all his time chatting and complaining, he will never want to use actions to change the reality. For them, it is not that there is no opportunity, but a lack of self-motivation. I just wasted my time in a daze, never thought of jumping out of the misunderstanding, and ended up wandering in frustration.
Self-motivated and enterprising originally include the following two contents: one is to strive to improve the quality of work (including reducing work deviations and paying more attention to timeliness) to enable oneself to complete challenging work goals in this position (including setting higher than The goals assigned by the company, or the challenging goals assigned by the company can be successfully completed); the second is to be able to set career plans, be able to clearly understand the responsibilities or ability requirements of different positions, and actively strive to improve themselves.
Self-motivated people are always full of hope for the future. Lanxi writer Maupassant has a famous saying that people live in hope and their life is full of hope. Only then do you feel motivated to struggle. A hopeful life requires a positive attitude To dream, to find a dream, to realize a dream, we weave a beautiful dream, to work hard, to realize the dream, to seek the dream, to fight for it, when the dream is shattered, we make another dream to realize the dream, and when it is realized, we continue to make a dream, make a dream, Disillusioned, making dreams come true, life is like this, full of hope.
Life requires constant adjustment and improvement, and every job contains opportunities for personal growth. You must know what knowledge and qualities you need for your position, and constantly improve yourself to adapt yourself to the requirements of the position.
A person's self-motivation at work depends on his career goals.Self-motivated people will strongly pursue to improve their own value and constantly enrich themselves.Absorb new knowledge and constantly improve yourself. Self-motivation is the internal energy that enables individuals to have goal-direction and moderate vitality.Serious and persistent work is the prerequisite for individual career success, and self-motivated individuals have the psychological cornerstone of career success.
Determining new personal goals, people are constantly formulating and revising their own life goals throughout their lives. Facing difficulties and new developments, we need to update our goals along with the trend, no matter whether it is a big goal or a small goal, so that we can recognize the shortcomings and constantly Work hard, so when we encounter difficulties.We must update our goals at any time, maintain a positive attitude, and strive to achieve the goals we set.
Do some jobs that you don’t understand well. The reason why people can improve is to keep learning and try jobs that have never been done. There is a saying in human resource management: People always enter from one suitable position to another unsuitable position. , Self-motivated employees may wish to add some pressure to themselves, that is, consciously and compulsively arrange some jobs for themselves that they have not touched or are not familiar with.
Self hint.People at work and in life are like sailing against the current. If we do not advance, we will retreat. If we are a person who always wants to make progress.We must attach great importance to the current boredom, distress, frustration, etc.Being dissatisfied with the current situation means that one's ability is better than before.I can see my own shortcomings. From another perspective, I have been standing still.We need to see the crisis, adjust our thoughts, and silently suggest in our hearts, pay attention, sailing against the current is either going forward or going backward, so we must constantly remind ourselves to make progress every day. You might as well try to say loudly to the mirror three times every morning: "Today I will work harder"

If your current career is not going well; if you still have bigger dreams; if you want to make your family happier, if you want to be a winner, then you have to keep self-motivated. will succeed.

People always learn less from flatness, but more from tribulations; the lessons from flatness are shallow, and the lessons from tribulations are deep.A person who goes through hardships when he is young, if he can see it correctly and break out of the darkness, then he is a person worthy of admiration.

No money, no experience, no experience, no social connections, these are not terrible.If you don’t have money, you can earn it through hard work; if you don’t have experience, you can sum it up through practical operations; if you don’t have experience, you can accumulate it step by step;However, having no dreams and no thoughts is the most terrifying thing, which makes people feel scared and want to escape! So, no matter what, don’t lose the self-motivated heart in your heart, otherwise, your life will really fall into hell in.

One must be self-motivated.No matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you have spent, if you are not self-motivated, you will live in a daze, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dream, and take a detour or even fail Going back, I wasted my ingenuity and my youth.

Everyone will experience confusion and confusion, and everyone has experienced fear and escape, but don't use confusion and confusion as an excuse to give up on yourself and be willing to be mediocre, let alone a bitter drink for self-pity and mourning frustration.Life needs to be undertaken by oneself, and destiny needs to be grasped by oneself.

The sooner you find your way in the predicament and get out of the confusion, the easier it is to achieve achievements and create wonderful things on the road of life.A headless fly can't find a direction, so it hits a wall everywhere; a person can't find a way out, so he becomes confused and fearful.

In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel hopeless.Don't be discouraged, keep going, and believe that there is no dead end in young life, difficulties lie ahead, and hope is around the corner.As long as we have the right thinking, we will be able to avoid detours and find a way out!
Self-motivation is a response to the needs of human development. Only by being self-motivated can one surpass oneself and realize one's own ideals.Don't just narrowly understand progress. In fact, as long as you always maintain a willingness and effort to develop forward and upward, that is progress.

Different people have different understandings of self-motivation.In order to better develop yourself, you must learn to:
1 Coordinate the body and mind, and coordinate the relationship between yourself and the environment (especially society), so that you can get more support and help, and you can be more relaxed, harmonious and happy.Only in this way can it be possible to establish the correct direction of development and achieve the maximum use of potential.A motivated person should be amiable, warm, sincere, enthusiastic, and always full of self-confidence.

2 Continuously learn, experience and comprehend various methods and techniques.Efficiency is quite important.Efficiency can become an efficiency center.Gather resources and call resources.Wisdom is the premise of direction and efficiency.Wisdom is the ability to correctly understand things (including oneself) and properly handle the relationship with things.

3 Motivation exists in every detail of study, work and life.No matter what you have to think about how to do better, what is the best.

Progress is reflected in a kind of dissatisfaction.But this dissatisfaction with the status quo is not achieved through confrontation, whining, evasion, or numbness.It is reflected in striving for, creating and win-win.

When you curse at the lights on the stairs for not working, do you wait until you have time to fix them?When you see other people's success, are you jealous or are you working hard secretly?When you see rich and powerful people, do you blend in or avoid them? When you encounter difficulties, do you face them directly or shrink back? When you face competition, are you full of confidence or ruthless? In the future, you can figure out the answer yourself!
There is no absolute 'right and wrong' in this world, and there is no absolute 'good and bad', because it depends on who sets the standards, thinking what others dare not think, doing what others dare not do, and breaking through yourself is also a kind of self-improvement .

Surpassing oneself and breaking through oneself require continuous practice, accumulation and improvement in doing things in a down-to-earth manner.Merely dreaming/fantasizing is of no use.While proposing your own direction, you must set goals.It is best to have a quantifiable goal and make a feasible plan for it.

You must be able to muster the mental strength to complete the plan.

It is human instinct to make progress.There is an upward force in everyone's heart, but when this force is blinded or distorted, people will show depression, overprotection, and fear of change.

Motivation is an inner desire to pursue constructive change.

Self-motivation should be accompanied by tenacious will.To achieve success in business, it is not enough to be self-motivated, you must also have a tenacious will.Because in the process of surpassing oneself and achieving goals, many difficulties are often encountered, so it is necessary to have an indomitable will and the courage to despise difficulties.

So, how to systematically and effectively cultivate your self-confidence?
First.Always focus on your strengths and accomplishments.You always think about your own shortcomings and failures, and of course you will lose confidence more and more.Isn't this destroying one's prestige?You have to grow your ambition.You will always have many advantages and achievements, list them and write them on paper.Write at least five strengths and five achievements.Facing this note.Look and think often.As you engage in various activities, think about your strengths and tell yourself what you have accomplished.This is called the "confidence creep effect."This effect is good for boosting your self-confidence.It is beneficial to improve the success rate of engaging in this activity.

Second, contact and communicate with confident people more. "Closer to vermilion is red. Near to ink is black." If you are often with pessimistic and disappointed people, you will also be depressed.If you often come into contact with people who are broad-minded and confident.You too must become such a person.Make friends with ambitious and confident people.

Third, self-psychological suggestion, constantly strengthen oneself positive psychology, avoid negative strengthening oneself.When you encounter difficulties, don't give up.Keep saying to yourself, "I can do it!", "I'm great!", "I can do better!" and so on.You repeat words that you have confidence in yourself, which is a very important self-positive psychological suggestion, which is conducive to continuously improving your self-confidence.This has been confirmed by research in psychology.

Fourth, establish a confident external image.A person, maintaining a neat and decent appearance is conducive to enhancing one's self-confidence.Be free and easy, behave well, help others, and keep your eyes open, and you will have self-confidence from the bottom of your heart.At the same time, strengthening exercise and maintaining a fit body shape are also very helpful for enhancing self-confidence.

Fifth, maintain a certain sense of pride.A person, modesty is necessary, but not excessive.Too much self-deprecation is extremely detrimental to the cultivation of self-confidence.One cannot be arrogant, but one cannot be without pride.Believe in yourself and be full of pride in yourself.

Sixth, learn to smile.Smiling increases happiness, which in turn boosts self-confidence.You might as well give it a try.A smile, and confidence comes from it, almost immediately.

Seventh, know how to maximize strengths and avoid weaknesses.In study, life and work, we should always seize the opportunity to show our own strengths and specialties, and at the same time pay attention to make up for our own deficiencies, so as to make continuous progress.In this way, you will increase your success rate, and you will also get more praise, which will definitely increase your self-confidence.

Eighth, read more biographies of celebrities.Because many famous people, their own qualifications and external environment before becoming famous are not better than you.Some even at your age were far worse than you are now.Reading more materials in this area will let you know that you actually have the conditions for success, and success is completely within time, which will help improve your self-confidence.

Ninth, be fully prepared.If one can make adequate preparations before engaging in an activity, then one must be more confident when engaging in this activity, which is conducive to the smooth completion of the activity.Once this activity is done successfully, it will in turn increase overall self-confidence.

Tenth, determine the appropriate goals for yourself.Goals are too low and too easy to achieve to boost self-confidence.But the goal should not be too high.Goals are too high, not easy to achieve, but will damage self-confidence.The proper goal is: jump hard enough to just touch it.

As long as you do this, you will be able to cultivate your self-motivation very well.

For men, self-motivation is even more important!
Men must be self-motivated, whether it is work or life.If a man is not self-motivated, he will also have no sense of responsibility, no sense of responsibility, and no heart to take responsibility.
A man can have no money, but he can't be self-motivated.With self-motivation, even if he has no money, he can still stand upright and live an upright life.If a man is not self-motivated, he will always fall down like a drug-addicted person.
If a man is not self-motivated, he will not be able to give his woman a sense of security. If a man does not make his beloved woman feel safe, she will feel that she will suffer at any time and great changes will happen at any time. Therefore, women will leave this place sooner or later. Men, so for a woman, she needs a safe and comfortable environment, don't say this is reality, because this is what you must do as a man.

Also, a man must keep climbing to live in this world, he must have a strong desire to go up, and he must have the pursuit of getting ahead, and a smart man usually has a relatively clear timetable, knowing how many years he will have in the next few years. How to take the road, despite the interference of various external factors, there are many uncertain factors, but we must have a rough plan.

A man who has no direction and no goal is often lost and confused, and the result is bound to follow the crowd, no matter where he goes, if a woman marries such a man, you are finished.

A man who is not self-motivated and enterprising cannot be motivated. He will not fight for women, he will not fight for women, because such a man is easy to muddle through and do everything, and in turn will demand women to be content and happy , don't compare yourself with others.
For a young man, he can’t be satisfied at the stage of his career. He must reach a certain height before he can be satisfied. Therefore, a man can be unhappy and fail, but he must work hard and lose his ambition.

(To be continued..)
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