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Chapter 1599 Inform the Gold Mine
"Father, father...!" Nunnery leaped towards Zhao Chaogang, and when Zhao Chaogang saw her pounced towards him, she hurried forward and hugged her, for fear that she might fall.
"Ninny, be careful in the future, don't just jump over like this, if you fall down and get hurt, Dad will die of heartache." Zhao Chaogang warned her while patting the dust off her body.
"Well, Dad, I got it." She nodded obediently, and then she looked at Li Liping and Liu Jingjing with excitement, and showed them off loudly: "Mom, Mom Jingjing, I just talked with Dad Let’s go swimming with baby dolphins together, it’s really fun.”
Children are like this, they like to show off, they can't help showing off to others what good things they have, what praises they get, or what fun things they play, this is the nature of children.
"Oh, then mom is really envious of you, baby girl, why don't you call mom when you go to play?" Li Liping cooperated very much with an envious look, and stepped forward to help Zhao Chaogang straighten out The folds on the clothes on the girl's body.
"Look, baby, you are playing too crazy, your clothes are so wrinkled, baby, let's play so crazy in the future, ah?" Li Liping told her while helping her to straighten her clothes.
"Well, Mom, I got it!" Nannu replied very straightforwardly, it seemed that she was really obedient, but soon, she revealed her true nature.
"Dad, shall we still play with the baby dolphin? In the afternoon, we will go together again. Mom and mother Jingjing haven't played with the baby dolphin much yet. I have to accompany my mother and mother Jingjing to play with the baby dolphin. "
On Nannan's face, she looked like she was thinking about Li Liping and Liu Jingjing.It seems that going to play with the baby dolphin is not because her daughter likes it, but because Li Liping and Liu Jingjing like it.Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing couldn't help laughing at such a young adult appearance: "Hahahaha......!"
"Mom, Dad...?" Nannan was very puzzled by Zhao Chaogang's laughter.
"Naughty, didn't mom say that you are not allowed to lie, why are you lying now?" Li Liping ignored her doubts, and started talking about her.
"Mom, my daughter didn't say anything..." Under Li Liping's stern gaze.Nannan couldn't utter the last flustered word, she pouted aggrievedly, and then apologized: "Mom, Nannan was wrong, Nannan should not have lied!"
"Okay, okay, Pingping, Nannan has already apologized, so don't talk about her anymore." Zhao Chaogang, who was still on the side, couldn't stand it any longer.Therefore, before Li Liping spoke, she stood up and said good things to her.
"Come on, baby. Come to Dad." Zhao Chaogang stretched out his hands towards her, and without any hesitation, she ran into Zhao Chaogang's arms very quickly.Then he buried his head in Zhao Chaogang's arms and couldn't come out.
And the mouth kept muttering: "Mom is a bad mother. My daughter doesn't like her mother anymore, and she only likes her father from now on. Dad, my daughter will only like you from now on, okay?"
Nannan's words were full of childishness, after hearing Li Liping on the side, she patted her forehead speechlessly.
"Okay, okay, my daughter only likes my father, and my father only likes my daughter." Zhao Chaogang followed her words, which made her very happy. She couldn't help hugging Zhao Chaogang's neck tightly, and said to Zhao Chaogang She coquettishly said: "Father is the best, my daughter likes dad the most, um..., boo...!"
In joy, Nannan kissed Zhao Chaogang's face heavily, and then laughed with a 'giggle...'.
"Chao Gang, you really are. No matter how much you dote on your baby girl, it will be your responsibility if your baby girl learns badly in the future." Li Liping said to Zhao Chaogang angrily. Li Liping was very dissatisfied with how Zhao Chaogang spoiled her baby girl.
In fact, Li Liping is so dissatisfied. It's not that Li Liping is really dissatisfied in her heart. Li Liping is also very worried about her daughter. Li Liping will scold her, but she has never hit her. It can be seen that Li Liping is also very worried about her daughter. .
So why does Li Liping say that about Zhao Chaogang now?The reason is very simple, that is, Li Liping is jealous of Zhao Chaogang. Originally, Nannan has always been close to Li Liping, but now she is even closer to Zhao Chaogang, which makes Li Liping jealous in her heart.
Jealousy, what is jealousy, I believe everyone understands it, and everyone has experienced it personally. The sour feeling that comes from the heart is definitely something that will be unforgettable for a lifetime.
When a man and a woman fall in love, there is a third party involved, and jealousy often occurs.What exactly is "jealous"?
It turned out that Tang Taizong Li Shimin gave Fang Xuanling several beauties as concubines, but Fang didn't dare to accept them. Li Shimin thought that Fang's wife was a shrew, so he refused to agree.
So Tang Taizong sent an eunuch to hold a pot of "poisoned wine" to tell Mrs. Fang that if she did not accept these beautiful concubines, she would drink poisoned wine.
Without fear, the lady took the "poisoned wine" and drank it in one gulp. When Mrs. Fang drank it with tears in her eyes, she realized that it was not poisonous wine in the forest, and she did not die, but thick vinegar with a sweet and sour aroma.
The emperor used this to test her and made a joke.
So the story of "jealousy" has been passed down as an interesting story through the ages.
In modern life, some people feel jealous when they see others being praised or rewarded. They are also called "jealous".Since then, "jealousy" and "jealousy" have been fused together, and "jealousy" has become a metaphor for jealousy.
Originally, this allusion was just a legend, and there were not many written records, but Mr. Cao Xueqin, a famous Chinese writer, combined "jealousy" and "jealousy" again in No. 30 of "A Dream of Red Mansions".
The original text reads like this: "After Xiren heard this..., he had to hold back his temper and said: 'Sister, you went out for a stroll, so it was our fault.' When Qingfei heard her say 'we', it was naturally her and Baoyu is gone, and I feel jealous again..."
After Mr. Cao wrote this, the meaning of jealousy was added in "Ci Hai": "Feeling sad because of jealousy." "Jealous" was extended to "jealousy" from this.
There is also a record in the legendary "Swallows Notes" of the Ming Dynasty that "the two of them just twiddled sour and jealous, and they didn't look good".
well known.If there is jealousy in the sexual relationship between men and women, there may even be quarrels and fights.Commonly known as "jealous" or "twisted (twisted) sour jealous".So why associate jealousy with vinegar?There are three ways to trace the source.
The first is called "The Lion's Roar".Some modern classics hold this view.Its main basis is "Zai Ge Zhi Xin Lu" about "the world is jealous (same jealousy) women are more than lions. "Continued Documents Tong Kao" contains: 'A bottle of vinegar and cheese for a lion's solar eclipse', this is the story of jealousy. "
Li Rihua [1565~1635], a polymath in the Ming Dynasty, said in "Purple Taoxuan Youzhu" that "Zhengdezhong (1506~1521 AD). Lion Room No. [-] solar eclipse live sheep, four liang of sugar, two bottles of goat milk, vinegar Two bottles..." shows that lions do have the habit of eating vinegar, so what does lion eating vinegar have to do with jealous women?It turns out that there is also an allusion about the "Hedong Lion's Roar".
Buddhist scriptures say that "a lion's roar will bring down all beasts", so Buddhists use "lion's roar" to describe the majesty of the Buddha's preaching that shakes the world.
Su Dongpo, a great poet in the Song Dynasty, had a friend named Chen Jichang. His wife, Liu Shi, was a very jealous woman. Whenever Chen Jichang had a banquet with a singing girl to accompany the wine, Liu would beat the wall with a wooden stick to scold the guests away.
Usually Chen Jichang likes to talk about Buddhist affairs, but afterward Su Dongpo borrowed the roar of a lion to make a joke about his fierce wife's scolding.I wrote a long poem titled "Send Wu Deren and Jane Chen Jichang", in which there are a few lines: "Mr. Dongpo has no money...only two temples without reason. The layman Longqiu is also pitiful, talking about empty talk and sleepless nights." .Suddenly heard the roar of the lion in the east of the river, and fell on the stick, my palms were at a loss."
The Longqiu Jushi in the poem refers to Chen Jichang; Hedong borrowed from the Tang Dynasty poet Du Fu's poem about "Hedong's daughter's surname is Liu" as a metaphor for Chen's wife Liu, and the Liu family is also from Hedong County (now Shan===West===Province). Noble surname.
This poem vividly describes the author's embarrassment, Liu's fierceness and Ji Chang's helplessness.
Later, people used "Hedong Lion's Roar" as a synonym for jealous wives and shrews.
The second is called "bad vinegar theory".Some people in the Qing Dynasty believed that jealousy originated from a prejudice.
In some southern areas, people think that it is not advisable to brew two cylinders of vinegar at the same time in a family, otherwise one cylinder will be broken.Therefore, there should not be two cylinders of vinegar coexisting in a family.
It is used as a metaphor: only one husband and one wife should be kept in a family, otherwise jealousy will inevitably arise between wives and concubines.
As early as the Southern and Northern Dynasties, "Qi Min Yao Shu" has mentioned the phenomenon of "bad vinegar" many times.The difficulty of brewing can be seen.
However, it is far-fetched to say that if two vats are brewed at home, one vat must be destroyed, but it reflects the folks' expectations for monogamous marriage.
The third is called "sour theory".No. 20, Chapter [-] of the chapter novel "The Legend of Heroes and Heroes" in the Qing Dynasty, there is such a passage: "Don't let the sweet sauce and high vinegar take your money, you will suffer from a disease of jealousy. Bo A nickname of 'Vinegar Lady'."
It seems that the author of the novel, Wen Kang, said this passage from the experience of buying and eating vinegar.
Vinegar was the main sour seasoning in ancient my country. It can be extended to sour and sour; sour also has the meaning of pain, so people associate sour jealousy with jealousy as a metaphor for heartache.
Sometimes it is also called jealousy and jealousy.For example, "Dream of Red Mansions" No.30: "Qingwen heard him (referring to Xiren) say the word 'we'. Naturally, it was him and Baoyu, and I don't think it added jealousy..."
Synonyms of being jealous include splashing jealousy, twisting sour jealousy, and fighting for wind and jealousy.In the second chapter of the novel "Qing Ye Zhong" in the late Ming Dynasty, there is "Fan Ba the stonemason...afraid that the Chen family will be jealous...and afraid that the Chen family will blame him";
Chapter 40 of No. [-] of the Qing Dynasty novel "The Scholars" also has a related plot about "the two women of the Ling family are suspicious of each other... quarreling and jealous. They quarreled".
People also refer to people who love to show vinegar as vinegar jar, vinegar urn, vinegar bowl, vinegar jar, vinegar jar or vinegar bottle.
Sometimes unreasonable jealousy is called jealousy. For example, in the drama "Hundred Flower Pavilion", there is "I called him several times. It's all because he fell in love with me in his heart. What are you doing with such jealousy?"
Someone wrote a book saying that Tang Dynasty's "Chao Ye Qian Zai" recorded that Fang Xuanling's wife was very jealous, and Li Shimin once gave him a pot of vinegar. "That's how the 'jealousy' code came about."
After verification, it is found that "Chao Ye Qin Zai" records an anecdote about Ren Yu, Minister of the Ministry of War: Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty Li Shimin gave Ren Yu a palace lady, and when he heard that the palace lady was persecuted by Ren's wife, Li Shimin was so angry that he sent people to "Yinzhili". "Death" wine as a deterrent.Ren's wife drank it down, but there was no poison in the wine.
In the Tang Dynasty, Liu Wei recorded a similar story about Zhongshu Ling Fang Xuanling in the book "Sui and Tang Jiahua": In the early Tang Dynasty, Fang Xuanling had made great achievements in assisting, and Tang Taizong wanted to reward him with beautiful women several times.But they were all politely rejected.Later, it was heard that the Fang family had a jealous wife, and the queen went out to do work for Fang's wife, Lu Shi.It didn't work either.
Li Shimin got angry and said that if he insisted on being wrong, he would only die. Lu Shi still did not give in and expressed that he would rather die because of jealousy.
Tang Taizong asked someone to make a jug of wine and said, "If this is the case, drink this poisonous wine!" Mrs. Lu picked it up and drank it down.In fact, the jug of wine was not poisoned.
Later Li Shimin said: "I am still afraid of seeing her, let alone Fang Xuanling!"
According to "New Book of Tang? Biographies of Women", Fang Xuanling and his wife are very affectionate.
Fang suffered from a serious illness in his early years, and said, "I'm afraid it will never recover. You are still young, let's start another family in the future!"
Lu Shi cried and gritted his teeth and blinded one eye to express his determination to stick to the end.
Fang Xuanling recovered from his illness not long after, and the two eventually grew old together.It seems that these two allusions about jealous wives have nothing to do with jealousy.
With the popularization and development of the brewing industry, vinegar not only gradually entered the field of social life, but also further integrated into people's psychological activities and moral relations, so there should be relevant reflections in the literary works of the Tang Dynasty.
After a lot of hooking and sinking work, precious clues were finally found in the document treasure house of Dunhuang Mingshashan Grottoes.
In "Heaven and Earth Yin and Yang Interaction and Great Joy Fu", there is already a sentence about "when you hear jealousy, every time you read about a woman who is sloppy; you will not choose your licentiousness. How can you think of a princess on a pillow".
"Vinegar gas" in the text originally refers to the smell of vinegar; "dross chaff" originally refers to poor food, and later because Song Hong said in the Eastern Han Dynasty that "a wife of dross chaff will not go to court", people used dross chaff as a synonym for wife; "pillow mat "It's originally a bedding, but it can be borrowed for sleep.
Read through the entire sentence.The relationship between jealousy and jealousy is on the paper.
The author of this famous fu is Bai Xingjian, the younger brother of Bai Juyi, a poet of the Tang Dynasty. Therefore, it can be determined that the "marriage" of "jealousy" and "jealousy" should be traced back to the Tang Dynasty.
To sum up, the saying "twist sour and jealous" should have originated from the Tang Dynasty.The "Lion's Roar Theory" of the Song Dynasty was its tributary, while the "Bad Vinegar Theory" of the Qing Dynasty could only be an appendage.
actually.Jealousy is a normal psychological reaction and a different expression of love and concern.Subconsciously, it is a kind of protection for emotional exclusivity and fear of loss.
in love or marriage.If two people turn a blind eye to each other and don't eat any jealousy, love will be dull and tasteless.Once in a while, jealousy may give a vast world to the mediocre and trivial life, but if the jealousy is too strong, it is too much.
In relationships, jealousy is a common psychological feeling. Even if you love each other deeply, one of them will be jealous because of a certain event.
Rational jealousy will not lead people to take extreme measures, but will only make you respond with love when you encounter emotional problems, that is to say, make up for your own love, and use more perfect love to firmly tie the other party.
Jealousy seems to be a derogatory term, but in fact, jealousy has a very positive effect.
First of all, jealousy can deepen the relationship between the two parties.
When the love is deep and deep, one party deliberately eats the jealousy of an imaginary rival in front of the loved one in order to show the love. You belong."In this way, we can extinguish the indiscriminate thoughts of our loved ones and monopolize our loved ones' love.
This is the top grade for jealousy, but it is not suitable to eat it often. It is enough to eat it once. If you eat too much, it will hurt the relationship between both parties.
Secondly, jealousy can test whether the other party's feelings for you are true and deep?
After many times of expressing love, I learned that the person I like has a different heart, and the love has been dedicated to another person. Although it is not a taste to feel sour in my heart, I will never continue to pester the person I like or love, but sincerely wish her or him found true happiness.This is the middle grade of jealousy and deserves praise.
Finally, a word of warning, excessive jealousy will worsen the relationship between the two parties.
Knowing that the person you like or love has other interests, the love is no longer your own, and the emotional gap between the two parties cannot be bridged.Unwilling to be reconciled, she still has to break the jar of vinegar. When the jealousy is rampant, the evil will grow to the gallbladder, until it leads to a tragedy of death, and even harms the innocent.This is the inferior grade of jealousy. When people sigh, they can't help but say: it's not worth it.
Jealousy is not only limited to us adults, but also to children.Even babies can show jealousy.
A study by Maple Leaf State York--G--University found that. 3-month-old babies have already shown obvious jealousy (jealousy), rather than the current theory that it will be revealed after 2 years old.
专家小组对50名3个月、6个月和9个月大的婴儿进行了4项实验。实验报告显示。当母亲将注意力转向其他人时(如聊天或其他形式的互动),3个月大的婴儿通常会蹬腿和发出叫声。这项研究得出的结论有别于现有的一些理论。
Existing theories hold that infants will not begin to show more complex psychology such as jealousy, shyness, and pride until they are 2 years old.
Leh-Hurst pointed out that "jealousy" shows a person's fear of losing a loved one.
Determining that newborns are "jealous" sooner rather than later is important because previous research on this has been limited.
The baby's "jealousy" psychology is related to the formation of interpersonal communication, and it is the reaction after feeling that the appearance of someone threatens the relationship between oneself and relatives.The study shows that newborns are aware of the people around them by the time they are 3 months old.This can prove that communication between people is influenced by certain motives and purposes.
Although a "jealous" baby can be troublesome, the "jealous" response is a normal behavior within certain limits, and mothers can watch carefully to consciously control the child's reaction.
Gu Long has a quip: "There may be a few women in the world who don't eat, but there is no woman who is not jealous." Jealousy is a manifestation of love and a weapon to defend sovereignty.Therefore, being jealous is like smoking, which is understandable. However, smoking too much will hurt the lungs, and being jealous too much will make you sad.
Therefore, experts put forward two suggestions:
One, when vinegar addiction occurs.You first figure out whether what you have mastered is vinegar, and don’t ignore the gurgling of Sanqi 21;
Second, if it is really worth drinking as vinegar, you might as well add some water to the vinegar.Dilute it before drinking it.
As for men, in good conscience.Just as women occasionally smoke, men occasionally get jealous.
but.As far as my personal experience is concerned, the vinegar that men eat is not the sour taste of old vinegar.It's the hot taste of sorghum wine.
"Women, be jealous more and suffer less." At least it is a kind of deterrent warning to men.
If this happens frequently, the standard of "five good men" will be deeply imprinted on the body and heart of the man.
In fact, love in captivity will never be as long-lasting, sweet, and unique as love in captivity.
If a person suffers from fatigue and damage to the feelings around him, if you treat a man like a kitten and puppy, tie a rope around his neck, lead him wherever he goes, and keep other kittens and puppies from approaching him for half a step. After a long time, cats and dogs do become docile, but they also lose their toughness and spirituality, and lose any desire to conquer the world. Men will lie in the gentle and dark home, and gradually become the little boy of monotonous love.
In this world, we need to support women to be jealous. Although it is sour, it is better than suffering after being sloppy.
Women must be encouraged and guided to learn how to be jealous and to develop an elegant temperament of being jealous.It is a realm to eat without letting yourself lose your temper.
A jealous woman may not be happy, but a jealous woman must be happy!So are you jealous today?Your vinegar is sour or just refreshing your mouth.
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"Pingping, are you jealous?" Zhao Chaogang asked Li Liping with a smile. Li Liping turned her head in embarrassment when she heard the words, and did not look at Zhao Chaogang. Obviously, Zhao Chaogang's words hit the mark.
"Naughty, mommy is jealous of daddy, what should I do?" Zhao Chaogang asked with a smile while holding her little girl up. Li Liping was jealous of her, but Zhao Chaogang was very happy because it showed that Pingping was indeed a good girl. Mother.
A good mother will be jealous because her child is close to others, but not herself. I believe that as mothers, you have all experienced such feelings.
"Vinegar? Dad, what is this food? Is it delicious? If Mom is jealous, my daughter will eat it too." Nannan's answer was very direct and clear, and asked Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping.Liu Jingjing couldn't help laughing after hearing this.
"Ha ha ha ha………!"
"Father..." Nannan looked at Zhao Chaogang and the others suspiciously, and suddenly laughed at Zhao Chaogang.The girl's face was full of doubts.
"Hehe, baby. Vinegar is not something delicious. We should stop eating it." Zhao Chaogang held back his laughter and began to explain it to her. Of course, this explanation is very simple, after all, she is still young. How could she understand the meaning of jealousy? At her age, even if Zhao Chaogang explained the meaning of jealousy to her in great detail, the result would be that she was completely confused.
Nannan is too young.Even now that Nannan is nourished by countless auras, her comprehension ability is much stronger than other children of the same age, but after all, Nannan is only six years old, no matter how strong her comprehension ability develops, she cannot comprehend many adults. knowledge.
To comprehend the knowledge in the adult world, not only requires a strong comprehension, but also countless accumulations, the accumulation of countless life journeys.And there is no accumulation of life in Nannan.
So, even if Zhao Chaogang explained to Nannan what jealousy is, Nannan seemed to understand it, but.Soon, Nannan will forget these things, because she doesn't have the accumulation of that life.
"Why? Dad and mom like to be jealous, why can't my daughter eat it?" Nannan quickly asked this question.Apparently Zhao Chaogang just explained that Nannan did not accept it.
Also, for little ones.Eating is the biggest thing, and when it comes to eating, children are very stubborn.It's like you take your own child to the street. When passing by the store, your child will usually be greedy. At this time, he will try his best to get you to buy him food.
Acting like a baby, refusing to leave, making noise, etc., these things happen one after another until you buy him something to eat. He, he will stop.
The appeal of food to children is not so strong.
"Ninny, shall we have fried dumplings today?" Zhao Chaogang didn't explain right away, but asked such a question.On the surface, this question seems to have nothing to do with the question of my daughter just now, but Li Liping on the side smiled after hearing Zhao Chaogang's question. Obviously Li Liping thinks that Zhao Chaogang's China question can solve her curiosity .
The result also proved that Li Liping's premonition was correct. After hearing Zhao Chaogang's words, she looked at Zhao Chaogang's daughter-in-law curiously, but immediately wrinkled her face, and then she began to act like a baby to Zhao Chaogang: "Dad, we don't eat fried dumplings. Mom is pregnant. Fried food is not good for my mother's health. So, we don't eat fried dumplings. Mom, don't you think so?"
Nannan's IQ is indeed very high. In order not to eat fried dumplings, she directly brought out Li Liping. Moreover, the reason is extremely sufficient, it is best for pregnant women not to eat fried things.Nannan is such a clever ghost!
"Hahahaha...!" Nannan's appearance made Zhao Chaogang and the others laugh.
"Father..." Nannan acted coquettishly in Zhao Chaogang's words, obviously she also knew that Zhao Chaogang and the others were laughing at herself.
"Okay, okay, Dad doesn't laugh at Nannan anymore, but why don't you like fried dumplings?" Zhao Chaogang stopped laughing and began to guide Nannan into the topic.
"Father, you have to drink the black sour water when you eat fried dumplings. My daughter doesn't like to drink that." She quickly explained the reason why she didn't like fried dumplings.
"Well, that's the way it is. Do you know that girl, that sour water is actually jealousy. Do you still want to be jealous now?" Zhao Chaogang finally brought the topic to the point after leaving the big circle. .
Although Zhao Chaogang's way of doing this seems very cumbersome, not as simple as Zhao Chaogang's direct explanation just now, but Zhao Chaogang's doing this is really good for the future of my daughter.
In the past, Zhao Chaogang could explain what vinegar is very simply, but that kind of explanation is very empty. Such an empty explanation Zhao Chaogang's explanation is extravagant, and Nannan's understanding of vinegar is only on the literal meaning. What kind of thing vinegar is, what kind of taste it is, Nannan actually doesn't know at all.
So, in order to let my daughter clearly understand what vinegar is, what does vinegar taste like?Zhao Chaogang made such a big circle, because Zhao Chaogang's plan triggered the memory of jealousy in the girl's mind.
Speaking of her memory of jealousy, there is a very funny little story in it.
What are fried dumplings.I believe everyone is very clear in their hearts.Fried dumplings are one of the traditional snacks of the Han nationality in northern China. The main ingredients are flour and meat.It is made into dumplings and then fried in oil.The surface is crispy yellow and the taste is fragrant.
According to legend, dumplings were first invented by Zhang Zhongjing, a Chinese medical sage.It has a history of more than 800 years.Dumplings are New Year's food.There is a folk song called "Da Han and Xiao Han, eat dumplings for the New Year.
I believe everyone has tasted the delicacy of fried dumplings. Many people are attracted by the delicacy of fried dumplings. The same is true for Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping's family.
In fact, for Zhao Chaogang, he had never eaten fried dumplings before he went to university. Zhao Chaogang's hometown is in the south, where dumplings are not particular, but rice cakes are more important there.Therefore, Zhao Chaogang usually has rice cakes for breakfast in the morning.
Besides, even if there are fried dumplings for breakfast in Zhao Chaogang's hometown, Zhao Chaogang can't eat them, why?The reason is simple, and that is money.
Zhao Chaogang was born in the countryside. He grew up in the countryside since childhood, and the economic conditions in the countryside are limited.Once Zhao Chaogang wanted to eat fried dumplings, he needed money to buy them. Given Zhao Chaogang's financial conditions when he was a child, how could their family have any spare money for Zhao Chaogang to buy fried dumplings for breakfast.Therefore, Zhao Chaogang ate fried dumplings after college.
At that time, the conditions in Zhao Chaogang's family had improved a lot, and Zhao Chaogang was still working and studying in the university.Therefore, he has spare money to eat fried dumplings.
Fried dumplings are worthy of its reputation.Zhao Chaogang was quickly captured by the delicacy of fried dumplings, and since then.Zhao Chaogang went to eat some fried dumplings from time to time.Of course, the price of fried dumplings at this time is not very high, you can buy five for one yuan, so Zhao Chaogang can afford fried dumplings.
Similarly, Li Liping also likes to eat fried dumplings, so after Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping are together again, Zhao Chaogang will make some fried dumplings for breakfast in their family from time to time.
Before Zhao Chaogang was with Li Liping, he hesitated that Li Liping would be busy with work and sending her daughter to kindergarten early in the morning, so she didn't have much time to make fried dumplings, so she never had fried dumplings .
Now that Zhao Chaogang is here, he has enough time to make fried dumplings, so Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping made fried dumplings at home.
Anyone who has eaten fried dumplings knows that after the fried dumplings are fried in the pan for a few seconds, the smell is really needless to say, the smell of fried dumplings is all over the room. The fragrance wakes up the fragrance.
Everyone knows that children are the most greedy. After smelling such delicious fried dumplings, she couldn't hold back in her mouth. She ran away in fright and came to the kitchen with her little finger in her mouth. Looking at Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping, they looked so cute.
Soon, Li Liping drove her to the dining table, and she stayed in the kitchen, which was too in the way.
Just as Li Liping and Zhao Chaogang were filling up the fried dumplings in the pot, there was a cry from outside, so sad, Li Liping ran out after hearing this.
When everyone came to the dining table and saw Nannan, everyone laughed. What do you mean, it turns out that Nannan directly drank the vinegar on the table.
When eating fried dumplings, some people like to put some vinegar, Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping's family are the same, so there are several dishes of vinegar on the dining table.
After being driven to the dining table by Li Liping, Nannan was greedy, so after seeing the vinegar on the dining table, she picked it up and drank it without even thinking about it. .
Things like vinegar, even if we adults drink it directly, it is a bit hard to swallow. The sour feeling is not something ordinary people can bear. It's conceivable what kind of feeling it will feel in the girl's mouth.
That is to say, from this day on, my daughter will absolutely run away when she hears about jealousy and fried dumplings. As long as Zhao Chaogang talks about eating fried dumplings, she will immediately pester Zhao Chaogang to prevent him from eating fried dumplings. Eat fried dumplings.
A child's memory for some things is extremely deep, especially the memory of those things that made him suffer a lot.
Just like children weaning off milk, mothers smear some irritating things on their nipples-tips, so that their children can feel the lesson and then wean themselves.
Zhao Chaogang is very clear about this matter of Nannan, so he knows that he wants to let Nannan know what vinegar is and what it tastes like, so this matter of Nannan is the best explanation.
"Well... Dad, my daughter doesn't like jealousy anymore. Vinegar is the most annoying thing, and it's the worst. Dad, mother, don't like vinegar either." My daughter soon understood what jealousy is, and once she knew what it was After being jealous, she told Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping not to like jealousy very childishly, she was really childish.
"Okay, okay, dad doesn't like jealousy anymore, dad listens to my daughter." Zhao Chaogang followed her words, and Zhao Chaogang didn't mean to deceive her, after she felt extremely disgusted with jealousy , Zhao Chaogang's family is no longer jealous.
Compared with the delicious taste of vinegar, the happiness of this daughter is more important. Zhao Chaogang still values this daughter very much.
"Pingping, Jingjing, we...!"
"Huh...!" Just as Zhao Chaogang was about to say something, a calling sound came from his sea of consciousness. Zhao Chaogang saw that it was Liu Guoqing calling him.
"Pingping, Jingjing, let's start cooking, nannie, help daddy get the apron." Zhao Chaogang didn't have the stomach to ask Liu Guoqing what to do, but started to prepare for lunch.
This place is in the secret environment of martial arts, and it is Zhao Chaogang's territory. If Zhao Chaogang wants to contact Liu Guoqing while cooking, it is a breeze.
"Oh, it's time to cook. My daughter is going to cook with my dad." She jumped and ran towards the tent. She was going to give Zhao Chaogang the apron......
"Liu Guoqing, what's the matter?" A part of Zhao Chaogang's consciousness came to Liu Guoqing.
"My lord, Liu Guoqing has something important to report." At the headquarters of the Five Elements Sect, Liu Guoqing knelt on the ground respectfully and answered Zhao Chaogang.
"What's the matter, you said."
"My lord, there is a gold mine in Yushi District." Without any hesitation, Liu Guoqing directly stated the reason why he was looking for Zhao Chaogang.
"Gold mine?!" Zhao Chaogang was stunned, and the movements of his hands couldn't help but stop.
"Chao Gang, what's the matter? Did something happen?" Liu Jingjing on the side asked very concerned. Because Li Liping was pregnant, Li Liping must stay away from things like cooking, so now Liu Jingjing and Zhao Chaogang is making lunch together.
"It's okay, I just figured out some things about self-cultivation." Liu Guoqing's matter still needs to be kept secret from Liu Jingjing. is a burden.
"Oh..." Hearing that Zhao Chaogang thought of something about cultivation, Liu Jingjing stopped paying attention.What Liu Jingjing understands about self-cultivation is the fur under the surface, so Liu Jingjing doesn't want to know about those deeper knowledge of self-cultivation.The basic knowledge of cultivation she needs to know now is enough, Liu Jingjing doesn't want to make trouble for herself.
"Liu Guoqing, what happened to the gold mine?" After comforting Liu Jingjing, Zhao Chaogang focused on Liu Guoqing. Zhao Chaogang had to figure out the matter of the gold mine.
(To be continued..)
ps: Note: Thank you Zhixiu for your support of the two monthly tickets, thank you!
Thank you Zhixiu for your great reward and support, thank you!
"Ninny, be careful in the future, don't just jump over like this, if you fall down and get hurt, Dad will die of heartache." Zhao Chaogang warned her while patting the dust off her body.
"Well, Dad, I got it." She nodded obediently, and then she looked at Li Liping and Liu Jingjing with excitement, and showed them off loudly: "Mom, Mom Jingjing, I just talked with Dad Let’s go swimming with baby dolphins together, it’s really fun.”
Children are like this, they like to show off, they can't help showing off to others what good things they have, what praises they get, or what fun things they play, this is the nature of children.
"Oh, then mom is really envious of you, baby girl, why don't you call mom when you go to play?" Li Liping cooperated very much with an envious look, and stepped forward to help Zhao Chaogang straighten out The folds on the clothes on the girl's body.
"Look, baby, you are playing too crazy, your clothes are so wrinkled, baby, let's play so crazy in the future, ah?" Li Liping told her while helping her to straighten her clothes.
"Well, Mom, I got it!" Nannu replied very straightforwardly, it seemed that she was really obedient, but soon, she revealed her true nature.
"Dad, shall we still play with the baby dolphin? In the afternoon, we will go together again. Mom and mother Jingjing haven't played with the baby dolphin much yet. I have to accompany my mother and mother Jingjing to play with the baby dolphin. "
On Nannan's face, she looked like she was thinking about Li Liping and Liu Jingjing.It seems that going to play with the baby dolphin is not because her daughter likes it, but because Li Liping and Liu Jingjing like it.Zhao Chaogang, Li Liping, and Liu Jingjing couldn't help laughing at such a young adult appearance: "Hahahaha......!"
"Mom, Dad...?" Nannan was very puzzled by Zhao Chaogang's laughter.
"Naughty, didn't mom say that you are not allowed to lie, why are you lying now?" Li Liping ignored her doubts, and started talking about her.
"Mom, my daughter didn't say anything..." Under Li Liping's stern gaze.Nannan couldn't utter the last flustered word, she pouted aggrievedly, and then apologized: "Mom, Nannan was wrong, Nannan should not have lied!"
"Okay, okay, Pingping, Nannan has already apologized, so don't talk about her anymore." Zhao Chaogang, who was still on the side, couldn't stand it any longer.Therefore, before Li Liping spoke, she stood up and said good things to her.
"Come on, baby. Come to Dad." Zhao Chaogang stretched out his hands towards her, and without any hesitation, she ran into Zhao Chaogang's arms very quickly.Then he buried his head in Zhao Chaogang's arms and couldn't come out.
And the mouth kept muttering: "Mom is a bad mother. My daughter doesn't like her mother anymore, and she only likes her father from now on. Dad, my daughter will only like you from now on, okay?"
Nannan's words were full of childishness, after hearing Li Liping on the side, she patted her forehead speechlessly.
"Okay, okay, my daughter only likes my father, and my father only likes my daughter." Zhao Chaogang followed her words, which made her very happy. She couldn't help hugging Zhao Chaogang's neck tightly, and said to Zhao Chaogang She coquettishly said: "Father is the best, my daughter likes dad the most, um..., boo...!"
In joy, Nannan kissed Zhao Chaogang's face heavily, and then laughed with a 'giggle...'.
"Chao Gang, you really are. No matter how much you dote on your baby girl, it will be your responsibility if your baby girl learns badly in the future." Li Liping said to Zhao Chaogang angrily. Li Liping was very dissatisfied with how Zhao Chaogang spoiled her baby girl.
In fact, Li Liping is so dissatisfied. It's not that Li Liping is really dissatisfied in her heart. Li Liping is also very worried about her daughter. Li Liping will scold her, but she has never hit her. It can be seen that Li Liping is also very worried about her daughter. .
So why does Li Liping say that about Zhao Chaogang now?The reason is very simple, that is, Li Liping is jealous of Zhao Chaogang. Originally, Nannan has always been close to Li Liping, but now she is even closer to Zhao Chaogang, which makes Li Liping jealous in her heart.
Jealousy, what is jealousy, I believe everyone understands it, and everyone has experienced it personally. The sour feeling that comes from the heart is definitely something that will be unforgettable for a lifetime.
When a man and a woman fall in love, there is a third party involved, and jealousy often occurs.What exactly is "jealous"?
It turned out that Tang Taizong Li Shimin gave Fang Xuanling several beauties as concubines, but Fang didn't dare to accept them. Li Shimin thought that Fang's wife was a shrew, so he refused to agree.
So Tang Taizong sent an eunuch to hold a pot of "poisoned wine" to tell Mrs. Fang that if she did not accept these beautiful concubines, she would drink poisoned wine.
Without fear, the lady took the "poisoned wine" and drank it in one gulp. When Mrs. Fang drank it with tears in her eyes, she realized that it was not poisonous wine in the forest, and she did not die, but thick vinegar with a sweet and sour aroma.
The emperor used this to test her and made a joke.
So the story of "jealousy" has been passed down as an interesting story through the ages.
In modern life, some people feel jealous when they see others being praised or rewarded. They are also called "jealous".Since then, "jealousy" and "jealousy" have been fused together, and "jealousy" has become a metaphor for jealousy.
Originally, this allusion was just a legend, and there were not many written records, but Mr. Cao Xueqin, a famous Chinese writer, combined "jealousy" and "jealousy" again in No. 30 of "A Dream of Red Mansions".
The original text reads like this: "After Xiren heard this..., he had to hold back his temper and said: 'Sister, you went out for a stroll, so it was our fault.' When Qingfei heard her say 'we', it was naturally her and Baoyu is gone, and I feel jealous again..."
After Mr. Cao wrote this, the meaning of jealousy was added in "Ci Hai": "Feeling sad because of jealousy." "Jealous" was extended to "jealousy" from this.
There is also a record in the legendary "Swallows Notes" of the Ming Dynasty that "the two of them just twiddled sour and jealous, and they didn't look good".
well known.If there is jealousy in the sexual relationship between men and women, there may even be quarrels and fights.Commonly known as "jealous" or "twisted (twisted) sour jealous".So why associate jealousy with vinegar?There are three ways to trace the source.
The first is called "The Lion's Roar".Some modern classics hold this view.Its main basis is "Zai Ge Zhi Xin Lu" about "the world is jealous (same jealousy) women are more than lions. "Continued Documents Tong Kao" contains: 'A bottle of vinegar and cheese for a lion's solar eclipse', this is the story of jealousy. "
Li Rihua [1565~1635], a polymath in the Ming Dynasty, said in "Purple Taoxuan Youzhu" that "Zhengdezhong (1506~1521 AD). Lion Room No. [-] solar eclipse live sheep, four liang of sugar, two bottles of goat milk, vinegar Two bottles..." shows that lions do have the habit of eating vinegar, so what does lion eating vinegar have to do with jealous women?It turns out that there is also an allusion about the "Hedong Lion's Roar".
Buddhist scriptures say that "a lion's roar will bring down all beasts", so Buddhists use "lion's roar" to describe the majesty of the Buddha's preaching that shakes the world.
Su Dongpo, a great poet in the Song Dynasty, had a friend named Chen Jichang. His wife, Liu Shi, was a very jealous woman. Whenever Chen Jichang had a banquet with a singing girl to accompany the wine, Liu would beat the wall with a wooden stick to scold the guests away.
Usually Chen Jichang likes to talk about Buddhist affairs, but afterward Su Dongpo borrowed the roar of a lion to make a joke about his fierce wife's scolding.I wrote a long poem titled "Send Wu Deren and Jane Chen Jichang", in which there are a few lines: "Mr. Dongpo has no money...only two temples without reason. The layman Longqiu is also pitiful, talking about empty talk and sleepless nights." .Suddenly heard the roar of the lion in the east of the river, and fell on the stick, my palms were at a loss."
The Longqiu Jushi in the poem refers to Chen Jichang; Hedong borrowed from the Tang Dynasty poet Du Fu's poem about "Hedong's daughter's surname is Liu" as a metaphor for Chen's wife Liu, and the Liu family is also from Hedong County (now Shan===West===Province). Noble surname.
This poem vividly describes the author's embarrassment, Liu's fierceness and Ji Chang's helplessness.
Later, people used "Hedong Lion's Roar" as a synonym for jealous wives and shrews.
The second is called "bad vinegar theory".Some people in the Qing Dynasty believed that jealousy originated from a prejudice.
In some southern areas, people think that it is not advisable to brew two cylinders of vinegar at the same time in a family, otherwise one cylinder will be broken.Therefore, there should not be two cylinders of vinegar coexisting in a family.
It is used as a metaphor: only one husband and one wife should be kept in a family, otherwise jealousy will inevitably arise between wives and concubines.
As early as the Southern and Northern Dynasties, "Qi Min Yao Shu" has mentioned the phenomenon of "bad vinegar" many times.The difficulty of brewing can be seen.
However, it is far-fetched to say that if two vats are brewed at home, one vat must be destroyed, but it reflects the folks' expectations for monogamous marriage.
The third is called "sour theory".No. 20, Chapter [-] of the chapter novel "The Legend of Heroes and Heroes" in the Qing Dynasty, there is such a passage: "Don't let the sweet sauce and high vinegar take your money, you will suffer from a disease of jealousy. Bo A nickname of 'Vinegar Lady'."
It seems that the author of the novel, Wen Kang, said this passage from the experience of buying and eating vinegar.
Vinegar was the main sour seasoning in ancient my country. It can be extended to sour and sour; sour also has the meaning of pain, so people associate sour jealousy with jealousy as a metaphor for heartache.
Sometimes it is also called jealousy and jealousy.For example, "Dream of Red Mansions" No.30: "Qingwen heard him (referring to Xiren) say the word 'we'. Naturally, it was him and Baoyu, and I don't think it added jealousy..."
Synonyms of being jealous include splashing jealousy, twisting sour jealousy, and fighting for wind and jealousy.In the second chapter of the novel "Qing Ye Zhong" in the late Ming Dynasty, there is "Fan Ba the stonemason...afraid that the Chen family will be jealous...and afraid that the Chen family will blame him";
Chapter 40 of No. [-] of the Qing Dynasty novel "The Scholars" also has a related plot about "the two women of the Ling family are suspicious of each other... quarreling and jealous. They quarreled".
People also refer to people who love to show vinegar as vinegar jar, vinegar urn, vinegar bowl, vinegar jar, vinegar jar or vinegar bottle.
Sometimes unreasonable jealousy is called jealousy. For example, in the drama "Hundred Flower Pavilion", there is "I called him several times. It's all because he fell in love with me in his heart. What are you doing with such jealousy?"
Someone wrote a book saying that Tang Dynasty's "Chao Ye Qian Zai" recorded that Fang Xuanling's wife was very jealous, and Li Shimin once gave him a pot of vinegar. "That's how the 'jealousy' code came about."
After verification, it is found that "Chao Ye Qin Zai" records an anecdote about Ren Yu, Minister of the Ministry of War: Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty Li Shimin gave Ren Yu a palace lady, and when he heard that the palace lady was persecuted by Ren's wife, Li Shimin was so angry that he sent people to "Yinzhili". "Death" wine as a deterrent.Ren's wife drank it down, but there was no poison in the wine.
In the Tang Dynasty, Liu Wei recorded a similar story about Zhongshu Ling Fang Xuanling in the book "Sui and Tang Jiahua": In the early Tang Dynasty, Fang Xuanling had made great achievements in assisting, and Tang Taizong wanted to reward him with beautiful women several times.But they were all politely rejected.Later, it was heard that the Fang family had a jealous wife, and the queen went out to do work for Fang's wife, Lu Shi.It didn't work either.
Li Shimin got angry and said that if he insisted on being wrong, he would only die. Lu Shi still did not give in and expressed that he would rather die because of jealousy.
Tang Taizong asked someone to make a jug of wine and said, "If this is the case, drink this poisonous wine!" Mrs. Lu picked it up and drank it down.In fact, the jug of wine was not poisoned.
Later Li Shimin said: "I am still afraid of seeing her, let alone Fang Xuanling!"
According to "New Book of Tang? Biographies of Women", Fang Xuanling and his wife are very affectionate.
Fang suffered from a serious illness in his early years, and said, "I'm afraid it will never recover. You are still young, let's start another family in the future!"
Lu Shi cried and gritted his teeth and blinded one eye to express his determination to stick to the end.
Fang Xuanling recovered from his illness not long after, and the two eventually grew old together.It seems that these two allusions about jealous wives have nothing to do with jealousy.
With the popularization and development of the brewing industry, vinegar not only gradually entered the field of social life, but also further integrated into people's psychological activities and moral relations, so there should be relevant reflections in the literary works of the Tang Dynasty.
After a lot of hooking and sinking work, precious clues were finally found in the document treasure house of Dunhuang Mingshashan Grottoes.
In "Heaven and Earth Yin and Yang Interaction and Great Joy Fu", there is already a sentence about "when you hear jealousy, every time you read about a woman who is sloppy; you will not choose your licentiousness. How can you think of a princess on a pillow".
"Vinegar gas" in the text originally refers to the smell of vinegar; "dross chaff" originally refers to poor food, and later because Song Hong said in the Eastern Han Dynasty that "a wife of dross chaff will not go to court", people used dross chaff as a synonym for wife; "pillow mat "It's originally a bedding, but it can be borrowed for sleep.
Read through the entire sentence.The relationship between jealousy and jealousy is on the paper.
The author of this famous fu is Bai Xingjian, the younger brother of Bai Juyi, a poet of the Tang Dynasty. Therefore, it can be determined that the "marriage" of "jealousy" and "jealousy" should be traced back to the Tang Dynasty.
To sum up, the saying "twist sour and jealous" should have originated from the Tang Dynasty.The "Lion's Roar Theory" of the Song Dynasty was its tributary, while the "Bad Vinegar Theory" of the Qing Dynasty could only be an appendage.
actually.Jealousy is a normal psychological reaction and a different expression of love and concern.Subconsciously, it is a kind of protection for emotional exclusivity and fear of loss.
in love or marriage.If two people turn a blind eye to each other and don't eat any jealousy, love will be dull and tasteless.Once in a while, jealousy may give a vast world to the mediocre and trivial life, but if the jealousy is too strong, it is too much.
In relationships, jealousy is a common psychological feeling. Even if you love each other deeply, one of them will be jealous because of a certain event.
Rational jealousy will not lead people to take extreme measures, but will only make you respond with love when you encounter emotional problems, that is to say, make up for your own love, and use more perfect love to firmly tie the other party.
Jealousy seems to be a derogatory term, but in fact, jealousy has a very positive effect.
First of all, jealousy can deepen the relationship between the two parties.
When the love is deep and deep, one party deliberately eats the jealousy of an imaginary rival in front of the loved one in order to show the love. You belong."In this way, we can extinguish the indiscriminate thoughts of our loved ones and monopolize our loved ones' love.
This is the top grade for jealousy, but it is not suitable to eat it often. It is enough to eat it once. If you eat too much, it will hurt the relationship between both parties.
Secondly, jealousy can test whether the other party's feelings for you are true and deep?
After many times of expressing love, I learned that the person I like has a different heart, and the love has been dedicated to another person. Although it is not a taste to feel sour in my heart, I will never continue to pester the person I like or love, but sincerely wish her or him found true happiness.This is the middle grade of jealousy and deserves praise.
Finally, a word of warning, excessive jealousy will worsen the relationship between the two parties.
Knowing that the person you like or love has other interests, the love is no longer your own, and the emotional gap between the two parties cannot be bridged.Unwilling to be reconciled, she still has to break the jar of vinegar. When the jealousy is rampant, the evil will grow to the gallbladder, until it leads to a tragedy of death, and even harms the innocent.This is the inferior grade of jealousy. When people sigh, they can't help but say: it's not worth it.
Jealousy is not only limited to us adults, but also to children.Even babies can show jealousy.
A study by Maple Leaf State York--G--University found that. 3-month-old babies have already shown obvious jealousy (jealousy), rather than the current theory that it will be revealed after 2 years old.
专家小组对50名3个月、6个月和9个月大的婴儿进行了4项实验。实验报告显示。当母亲将注意力转向其他人时(如聊天或其他形式的互动),3个月大的婴儿通常会蹬腿和发出叫声。这项研究得出的结论有别于现有的一些理论。
Existing theories hold that infants will not begin to show more complex psychology such as jealousy, shyness, and pride until they are 2 years old.
Leh-Hurst pointed out that "jealousy" shows a person's fear of losing a loved one.
Determining that newborns are "jealous" sooner rather than later is important because previous research on this has been limited.
The baby's "jealousy" psychology is related to the formation of interpersonal communication, and it is the reaction after feeling that the appearance of someone threatens the relationship between oneself and relatives.The study shows that newborns are aware of the people around them by the time they are 3 months old.This can prove that communication between people is influenced by certain motives and purposes.
Although a "jealous" baby can be troublesome, the "jealous" response is a normal behavior within certain limits, and mothers can watch carefully to consciously control the child's reaction.
Gu Long has a quip: "There may be a few women in the world who don't eat, but there is no woman who is not jealous." Jealousy is a manifestation of love and a weapon to defend sovereignty.Therefore, being jealous is like smoking, which is understandable. However, smoking too much will hurt the lungs, and being jealous too much will make you sad.
Therefore, experts put forward two suggestions:
One, when vinegar addiction occurs.You first figure out whether what you have mastered is vinegar, and don’t ignore the gurgling of Sanqi 21;
Second, if it is really worth drinking as vinegar, you might as well add some water to the vinegar.Dilute it before drinking it.
As for men, in good conscience.Just as women occasionally smoke, men occasionally get jealous.
but.As far as my personal experience is concerned, the vinegar that men eat is not the sour taste of old vinegar.It's the hot taste of sorghum wine.
"Women, be jealous more and suffer less." At least it is a kind of deterrent warning to men.
If this happens frequently, the standard of "five good men" will be deeply imprinted on the body and heart of the man.
In fact, love in captivity will never be as long-lasting, sweet, and unique as love in captivity.
If a person suffers from fatigue and damage to the feelings around him, if you treat a man like a kitten and puppy, tie a rope around his neck, lead him wherever he goes, and keep other kittens and puppies from approaching him for half a step. After a long time, cats and dogs do become docile, but they also lose their toughness and spirituality, and lose any desire to conquer the world. Men will lie in the gentle and dark home, and gradually become the little boy of monotonous love.
In this world, we need to support women to be jealous. Although it is sour, it is better than suffering after being sloppy.
Women must be encouraged and guided to learn how to be jealous and to develop an elegant temperament of being jealous.It is a realm to eat without letting yourself lose your temper.
A jealous woman may not be happy, but a jealous woman must be happy!So are you jealous today?Your vinegar is sour or just refreshing your mouth.
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"Pingping, are you jealous?" Zhao Chaogang asked Li Liping with a smile. Li Liping turned her head in embarrassment when she heard the words, and did not look at Zhao Chaogang. Obviously, Zhao Chaogang's words hit the mark.
"Naughty, mommy is jealous of daddy, what should I do?" Zhao Chaogang asked with a smile while holding her little girl up. Li Liping was jealous of her, but Zhao Chaogang was very happy because it showed that Pingping was indeed a good girl. Mother.
A good mother will be jealous because her child is close to others, but not herself. I believe that as mothers, you have all experienced such feelings.
"Vinegar? Dad, what is this food? Is it delicious? If Mom is jealous, my daughter will eat it too." Nannan's answer was very direct and clear, and asked Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping.Liu Jingjing couldn't help laughing after hearing this.
"Ha ha ha ha………!"
"Father..." Nannan looked at Zhao Chaogang and the others suspiciously, and suddenly laughed at Zhao Chaogang.The girl's face was full of doubts.
"Hehe, baby. Vinegar is not something delicious. We should stop eating it." Zhao Chaogang held back his laughter and began to explain it to her. Of course, this explanation is very simple, after all, she is still young. How could she understand the meaning of jealousy? At her age, even if Zhao Chaogang explained the meaning of jealousy to her in great detail, the result would be that she was completely confused.
Nannan is too young.Even now that Nannan is nourished by countless auras, her comprehension ability is much stronger than other children of the same age, but after all, Nannan is only six years old, no matter how strong her comprehension ability develops, she cannot comprehend many adults. knowledge.
To comprehend the knowledge in the adult world, not only requires a strong comprehension, but also countless accumulations, the accumulation of countless life journeys.And there is no accumulation of life in Nannan.
So, even if Zhao Chaogang explained to Nannan what jealousy is, Nannan seemed to understand it, but.Soon, Nannan will forget these things, because she doesn't have the accumulation of that life.
"Why? Dad and mom like to be jealous, why can't my daughter eat it?" Nannan quickly asked this question.Apparently Zhao Chaogang just explained that Nannan did not accept it.
Also, for little ones.Eating is the biggest thing, and when it comes to eating, children are very stubborn.It's like you take your own child to the street. When passing by the store, your child will usually be greedy. At this time, he will try his best to get you to buy him food.
Acting like a baby, refusing to leave, making noise, etc., these things happen one after another until you buy him something to eat. He, he will stop.
The appeal of food to children is not so strong.
"Ninny, shall we have fried dumplings today?" Zhao Chaogang didn't explain right away, but asked such a question.On the surface, this question seems to have nothing to do with the question of my daughter just now, but Li Liping on the side smiled after hearing Zhao Chaogang's question. Obviously Li Liping thinks that Zhao Chaogang's China question can solve her curiosity .
The result also proved that Li Liping's premonition was correct. After hearing Zhao Chaogang's words, she looked at Zhao Chaogang's daughter-in-law curiously, but immediately wrinkled her face, and then she began to act like a baby to Zhao Chaogang: "Dad, we don't eat fried dumplings. Mom is pregnant. Fried food is not good for my mother's health. So, we don't eat fried dumplings. Mom, don't you think so?"
Nannan's IQ is indeed very high. In order not to eat fried dumplings, she directly brought out Li Liping. Moreover, the reason is extremely sufficient, it is best for pregnant women not to eat fried things.Nannan is such a clever ghost!
"Hahahaha...!" Nannan's appearance made Zhao Chaogang and the others laugh.
"Father..." Nannan acted coquettishly in Zhao Chaogang's words, obviously she also knew that Zhao Chaogang and the others were laughing at herself.
"Okay, okay, Dad doesn't laugh at Nannan anymore, but why don't you like fried dumplings?" Zhao Chaogang stopped laughing and began to guide Nannan into the topic.
"Father, you have to drink the black sour water when you eat fried dumplings. My daughter doesn't like to drink that." She quickly explained the reason why she didn't like fried dumplings.
"Well, that's the way it is. Do you know that girl, that sour water is actually jealousy. Do you still want to be jealous now?" Zhao Chaogang finally brought the topic to the point after leaving the big circle. .
Although Zhao Chaogang's way of doing this seems very cumbersome, not as simple as Zhao Chaogang's direct explanation just now, but Zhao Chaogang's doing this is really good for the future of my daughter.
In the past, Zhao Chaogang could explain what vinegar is very simply, but that kind of explanation is very empty. Such an empty explanation Zhao Chaogang's explanation is extravagant, and Nannan's understanding of vinegar is only on the literal meaning. What kind of thing vinegar is, what kind of taste it is, Nannan actually doesn't know at all.
So, in order to let my daughter clearly understand what vinegar is, what does vinegar taste like?Zhao Chaogang made such a big circle, because Zhao Chaogang's plan triggered the memory of jealousy in the girl's mind.
Speaking of her memory of jealousy, there is a very funny little story in it.
What are fried dumplings.I believe everyone is very clear in their hearts.Fried dumplings are one of the traditional snacks of the Han nationality in northern China. The main ingredients are flour and meat.It is made into dumplings and then fried in oil.The surface is crispy yellow and the taste is fragrant.
According to legend, dumplings were first invented by Zhang Zhongjing, a Chinese medical sage.It has a history of more than 800 years.Dumplings are New Year's food.There is a folk song called "Da Han and Xiao Han, eat dumplings for the New Year.
I believe everyone has tasted the delicacy of fried dumplings. Many people are attracted by the delicacy of fried dumplings. The same is true for Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping's family.
In fact, for Zhao Chaogang, he had never eaten fried dumplings before he went to university. Zhao Chaogang's hometown is in the south, where dumplings are not particular, but rice cakes are more important there.Therefore, Zhao Chaogang usually has rice cakes for breakfast in the morning.
Besides, even if there are fried dumplings for breakfast in Zhao Chaogang's hometown, Zhao Chaogang can't eat them, why?The reason is simple, and that is money.
Zhao Chaogang was born in the countryside. He grew up in the countryside since childhood, and the economic conditions in the countryside are limited.Once Zhao Chaogang wanted to eat fried dumplings, he needed money to buy them. Given Zhao Chaogang's financial conditions when he was a child, how could their family have any spare money for Zhao Chaogang to buy fried dumplings for breakfast.Therefore, Zhao Chaogang ate fried dumplings after college.
At that time, the conditions in Zhao Chaogang's family had improved a lot, and Zhao Chaogang was still working and studying in the university.Therefore, he has spare money to eat fried dumplings.
Fried dumplings are worthy of its reputation.Zhao Chaogang was quickly captured by the delicacy of fried dumplings, and since then.Zhao Chaogang went to eat some fried dumplings from time to time.Of course, the price of fried dumplings at this time is not very high, you can buy five for one yuan, so Zhao Chaogang can afford fried dumplings.
Similarly, Li Liping also likes to eat fried dumplings, so after Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping are together again, Zhao Chaogang will make some fried dumplings for breakfast in their family from time to time.
Before Zhao Chaogang was with Li Liping, he hesitated that Li Liping would be busy with work and sending her daughter to kindergarten early in the morning, so she didn't have much time to make fried dumplings, so she never had fried dumplings .
Now that Zhao Chaogang is here, he has enough time to make fried dumplings, so Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping made fried dumplings at home.
Anyone who has eaten fried dumplings knows that after the fried dumplings are fried in the pan for a few seconds, the smell is really needless to say, the smell of fried dumplings is all over the room. The fragrance wakes up the fragrance.
Everyone knows that children are the most greedy. After smelling such delicious fried dumplings, she couldn't hold back in her mouth. She ran away in fright and came to the kitchen with her little finger in her mouth. Looking at Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping, they looked so cute.
Soon, Li Liping drove her to the dining table, and she stayed in the kitchen, which was too in the way.
Just as Li Liping and Zhao Chaogang were filling up the fried dumplings in the pot, there was a cry from outside, so sad, Li Liping ran out after hearing this.
When everyone came to the dining table and saw Nannan, everyone laughed. What do you mean, it turns out that Nannan directly drank the vinegar on the table.
When eating fried dumplings, some people like to put some vinegar, Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping's family are the same, so there are several dishes of vinegar on the dining table.
After being driven to the dining table by Li Liping, Nannan was greedy, so after seeing the vinegar on the dining table, she picked it up and drank it without even thinking about it. .
Things like vinegar, even if we adults drink it directly, it is a bit hard to swallow. The sour feeling is not something ordinary people can bear. It's conceivable what kind of feeling it will feel in the girl's mouth.
That is to say, from this day on, my daughter will absolutely run away when she hears about jealousy and fried dumplings. As long as Zhao Chaogang talks about eating fried dumplings, she will immediately pester Zhao Chaogang to prevent him from eating fried dumplings. Eat fried dumplings.
A child's memory for some things is extremely deep, especially the memory of those things that made him suffer a lot.
Just like children weaning off milk, mothers smear some irritating things on their nipples-tips, so that their children can feel the lesson and then wean themselves.
Zhao Chaogang is very clear about this matter of Nannan, so he knows that he wants to let Nannan know what vinegar is and what it tastes like, so this matter of Nannan is the best explanation.
"Well... Dad, my daughter doesn't like jealousy anymore. Vinegar is the most annoying thing, and it's the worst. Dad, mother, don't like vinegar either." My daughter soon understood what jealousy is, and once she knew what it was After being jealous, she told Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping not to like jealousy very childishly, she was really childish.
"Okay, okay, dad doesn't like jealousy anymore, dad listens to my daughter." Zhao Chaogang followed her words, and Zhao Chaogang didn't mean to deceive her, after she felt extremely disgusted with jealousy , Zhao Chaogang's family is no longer jealous.
Compared with the delicious taste of vinegar, the happiness of this daughter is more important. Zhao Chaogang still values this daughter very much.
"Pingping, Jingjing, we...!"
"Huh...!" Just as Zhao Chaogang was about to say something, a calling sound came from his sea of consciousness. Zhao Chaogang saw that it was Liu Guoqing calling him.
"Pingping, Jingjing, let's start cooking, nannie, help daddy get the apron." Zhao Chaogang didn't have the stomach to ask Liu Guoqing what to do, but started to prepare for lunch.
This place is in the secret environment of martial arts, and it is Zhao Chaogang's territory. If Zhao Chaogang wants to contact Liu Guoqing while cooking, it is a breeze.
"Oh, it's time to cook. My daughter is going to cook with my dad." She jumped and ran towards the tent. She was going to give Zhao Chaogang the apron......
"Liu Guoqing, what's the matter?" A part of Zhao Chaogang's consciousness came to Liu Guoqing.
"My lord, Liu Guoqing has something important to report." At the headquarters of the Five Elements Sect, Liu Guoqing knelt on the ground respectfully and answered Zhao Chaogang.
"What's the matter, you said."
"My lord, there is a gold mine in Yushi District." Without any hesitation, Liu Guoqing directly stated the reason why he was looking for Zhao Chaogang.
"Gold mine?!" Zhao Chaogang was stunned, and the movements of his hands couldn't help but stop.
"Chao Gang, what's the matter? Did something happen?" Liu Jingjing on the side asked very concerned. Because Li Liping was pregnant, Li Liping must stay away from things like cooking, so now Liu Jingjing and Zhao Chaogang is making lunch together.
"It's okay, I just figured out some things about self-cultivation." Liu Guoqing's matter still needs to be kept secret from Liu Jingjing. is a burden.
"Oh..." Hearing that Zhao Chaogang thought of something about cultivation, Liu Jingjing stopped paying attention.What Liu Jingjing understands about self-cultivation is the fur under the surface, so Liu Jingjing doesn't want to know about those deeper knowledge of self-cultivation.The basic knowledge of cultivation she needs to know now is enough, Liu Jingjing doesn't want to make trouble for herself.
"Liu Guoqing, what happened to the gold mine?" After comforting Liu Jingjing, Zhao Chaogang focused on Liu Guoqing. Zhao Chaogang had to figure out the matter of the gold mine.
(To be continued..)
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