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Chapter 1218 It's not just Ah Lang who is sad, but also that Girl Over Flowers Bobo

"A Lang's Story" is a literary film, but this literary film has caused a lot of enthusiasm.

All controversies are topics.

"A Lang's Story" is of course controversial.

In fact, the controversy is not small.

In this regard, although many poisonous points have been avoided in the plot, and although Chen Weijie's personal charm has added a lot of color to the character, it is irrefutable that the male protagonist A Lang is indeed a scumbag.

Moreover, the era when "A Lang's Story" appeared in this world is different from the era when this film appeared.

For many male film critics in "A Lang's Story", the focus is on the role of A Lang.

Some say that he is a model of a man, some say that he is a representative of a prodigal son who cannot turn back, his growth, etc., and so on.

But for female film critics, their focus is obviously different.

The famous female film critic Liu Fang specially prepared a film review to interpret this film from a female perspective.

In this year, the status of women can be said to be completely different from the early 90s and [-]s.

No matter how much "A Lang's Story" talks about, it seems that Bo Bo is the heroine, but it is still a man's play, otherwise the title of the movie would not be "A Lang's Story" but "A Lang and Bo Bo "Story".

Closer to home.

This female film critic has always been famous for her unique perspective. In this world where male films are the mainstream, she can always observe and evaluate films from a female perspective.

This time is no exception.

"There are a lot of film reviews on the Internet about "A Lang's Story" and they are all about the growth history of a boy, or the heroic plot of a man, or the 360° showmanship of the prodigal son. Sorry, as a woman, I am really impatient to listen to it. What is the story of the prodigal son, what to do in order to fulfill the legend of the prodigal son, willing to become an infatuated goddess living torii, or what kind of blood, there will always be bad boys cutting through our youth like a blade!

I don't understand, why so many people only pay attention to the male lead, A Lang, but ignore the female lead, Bo Bo?
It's true that Alang's ending as a prodigal son is tragic, but shouldn't it be Bobo who is even more tragic?

To be honest, I have always been against the mainstream when it comes to heterosexual aesthetics, and I don’t love mainstream good men—such as Chen Weijie, because Chen Tianwang has a fake smile on his face, but he is full of bitterness when he sees the bottom at a glance. He is a phoenix male idol, so, whenever there is someone of the opposite sex who idolizes him, I will simply and roughly classify him as a boring man.

I have never been able to get his handsomeness, and I feel that in front of such machismo, no matter what kind of girl she is, she will become a sad symbol—the woman my brother loved, tsk tsk tsk, she was crying and crying from the beginning to the end of her appearance .

However, as I got older, I began to get all kinds of benefits from these mainstream handsome men.

"A Lang's Story", when it is difficult to hide the small belly, half of the white hair after shaved short, the middle-aged fatigue is difficult to hide, and even crying is so cowardly that he only dares to cover his face and cry softly, the old handsome guy is full of helplessness and compromise in life Chen Weijie, when he was joking and embarrassingly handsome, I suddenly understood why Chen Weijie was once the dream male god of thousands of girls.

Many male compatriots think that the one who really impresses girls is their own special man, and it is best to be like a spiritual father, who will always be strong, like a big tree with strong roots, so that he can seduce countless girls. To be honest, that kind of aesthetics can only be It's just the kind of beautiful skin that hopes to find a man to raise her and be a rice worm for a lifetime.The girl who is really impressed and has an equal soul with men is a little timid outside of the perfect lover. For example, when we were in our 20s, we would accidentally see cool and handsome schoolgirls who would also be childish. Playing handsome secretly or bursting into tears, a really strong girl will fall in love with the opposite sex because of her potential motherhood. Unfortunately, there are too many stupid straight men who can't see it. Fortunately, on this planet, the number of human beings Huge, there are always all kinds of stupid and cute soft girls to match them.

In fact, a movie like "A Lang's Story" is not my taste, but after watching it carefully, I understand that this is indeed a very different movie, but it is still difficult to understand that the focus of everyone's attention seems to be It's always on Alang's body, but Bobo has never been seriously mentioned.

In "A Lang's Story", what made me break down and cry was that the daughter of the rich family was kicked out, she cried at the door of the house, and the little lover A Lang said, don't cry, Bobo, let's go.At this moment, as A Lang, he doesn’t really care about it. He thinks it’s even better. It’s very sad that he can stay and fly with Bobo in an open and dignified manner. For men, they will always think of themselves first, and it is difficult for them to see the sadness of a woman who gave up her family for love, because, if the identity is reversed, how many men will fight against the family for a woman?
Looking at the current conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, one can see that one or two things are not worth it in the human world, especially shallow creatures like men are not worth it.Even in such a scene, if the hero is kicked out of the house because of the woman, the perfect heroine would kneel immediately, doing all kinds of things to herself, hoping to help the person in her heart return to the family. Unfortunately, too many film and television works, the director They're all stupid straight men, they've never really seen a woman, a woman's true soul and mind.

The second thing that bothers me is that the pregnant Bobo went to find Alang. When he went to deliver the meal, he saw that the child’s father was making out with a girl, so he threw away the lunch box, went home and made a fuss to leave, and then the boy came back lazily After coaxing a few words, we started. Please pay attention to A Lang's words at that time, "I make money to support my family, but you still dare to beat me."

See, this is the truth of the love a man can give. Although domestic violence is only a small probability incident, no matter how gentlemanly and perfect a man is, there is almost no one who is not proud of making money to support his family. They have never seen a woman What kind of life was given up in order to have a child, and how much labor a woman put in to maintain a warm home, so I always advise my female colleagues in the real world to go out to make money, because, no matter how difficult it is, at least When the man you love and the father of your child say something like "I make money", you can straighten your back and say "I can support myself", when he no longer cherishes your love and cares about your family, You can leave in style, take our beloved apple-faced angel, and live a decent life together.

Then Alang reunited with his ex-wife Bobo who had been betrayed by her fickle domestic violence after a long separation.Therefore, he didn't have the heart of self-blame to directly tell in front of Bobo's decent gentleman fiancé that he had a marriage history with Bobo, and that Bozai was Bobo's biological son.See, this is the love of men. First of all, consider the nature of possessing more females left over from primitive society. Few men will think that their spouse is first and foremost an independent person. Behind the pampering is actually his own possessiveness that he can't bear to think about carefully - women are his own private property.

So, I was wondering what kind of deep-rooted silly girl with little feet is in love with a prodigal son and only loves bad boys. If it’s just a pure enjoyment of beauty like a man’s love for sex, that’s all. If this is love, I I would rather castrate myself mentally and be an unintentional scumbag.

Therefore, although the ending of "A Lang's Story" is tear-jerking, there is no doubt that it will die.Because the sad thing is that the director of this movie is a male director, so I hope to achieve the tragic back of a strange hero (silly) hero (fork), and the awakened female audience can't accept the grown-up calm Bobo, and reconsider Going back to the old way, for the apple-faced angel, to give up the fiancé who has the same three views as me, and to find the rough man A Lang who thinks beating his wife is nothing, and I am middle-aged, I am terrified, Alang's prodigal son turned his head back because life was too hard. He was alone with the child and had no money or time to mess around. If he had Bobo's financial support, this man would sleep with all kinds of passers-by and women all the way.So, it doesn't matter if you are dead, at least the old man in tears will never be disillusioned, isn't it? "

Liu Fang's film review has been highly recognized by female audiences. After all, this is the most controversial part of this film.

A Lang is always not a good man, and Bobo is always the one who gets hurt.

From the beginning, to the middle, and to the end, Alang chose to use his life to prove his repentance. In fact, is it not another injury to Bobo?
Of course, there are also many people who don't like Liu Fang's extreme.

Soon some film critics refuted Liu Fang's point of view with film reviews.

"I came across this review by accident, and I couldn't vomit.

From a female point of view, it is understandable to criticize Alang's domestic violence and derailment, but it can be said that Alang regards Bobo as his own private property, but I disagree.

There's a long-standing story about two people meeting, and it's about people and time, and what it is to meet the right person at the wrong time or the wrong person at the right time, and so on.It sounds like the situation is complicated and changeable, but it is also very simple in the end. The so-called time is nothing but whether you are married or not; the so-called person is just whether you love or not.

First of all, let's look at the pair of Alang and Bobo, the encounter between Alang and Bobo, both of them are unmarried, and they should be attracted and admiring each other.So there's nothing wrong with that, right?
You say that Alang doesn't care, and the same is just a fantasy!

If he doesn't love, how can he feel guilty?
If he didn't love, how could he make such a choice in the end?

It is said that if there is support from Bobo's economic conditions, this would not exist, because Alang was not that kind of person from the beginning to the end.

He is with Bobo, you can say that he is a prodigal, you can say a thousand words and ten thousand, but please remember, it has nothing to do with how much money Bobo has in his family, or whether Bobo has money!

Even if they meet again ten years later, A Lang never thinks about this.

So don't insult it all with money.

Let's talk about Alang's death. The so-called stranger hero is also untenable. Can Alang not die?
I don't think even the director can imagine a poor rascal reunited with a rich and beautiful lady from a famous family, able to start a family and have fun...

So the so-called right or wrong is not only related to time and love, the power of the world is always stronger.

A Lang's death was right, perhaps it was the only right thing he could do.

Of course, it is precisely because of this that breaking through the so-called secular forces and being together for love is always moving.What moved me was not that they were able to break through the power of the world, but that they were able to be together - coordinating the differences and gaps between the two is by no means an easy task, and it may require some compromises between the two, or at least one of them People need to change.Only at this time, is she/he still the original her/him?

In "A Lang's Story", A Lang is a prodigal son, and the prodigal son will not change his money when he returns, but Bobo does not return when the prodigal son returns.

When young, it is easy for a woman to fall in love with a prodigal son.Because the prodigal son is not afraid of the world, not bound by the world, daring to love and hate, handsome and humorous, free and easy and cute.

Compared with the prodigal son, most of us are just mediocre ones in the world. We are submissive, we are easy to compromise, we are selfish, and finally our lives are the same, repeating the same thing every day, and only living one day a year.

The sad thing is that such a life is actually defined as a happy life by the world.

If you make a mistake in a computer game, you can rewind it, but if you make a mistake, can you rewind it?

Alang works as a worker on the construction site, and sees Bobo ten years later, and his love for her is still there. At this time, he has lost his way, but Bobo doesn't hate him, and he will never love him again.

The return of the prodigal son is not necessarily in exchange for gold, and the broken mirror cannot be reunited in the end.

Going back to the hero and heroine, the so-called right and wrong, as both parties involved, it seems that we should completely shift the responsibility to A Lang. In fact, everyone is the same, because everything is caused by him.

However, after careful analysis, we should see that both of them acted improperly.

Just like ten years later, when both of them realized the mistakes they made when they were young, they each confessed to their mistakes.

Bobo said, "I was young and ignorant at that time."

A Lang said, "People really can't do wrong things, and if they do wrong, they can't stand up for a lifetime."

Bobo's confession is to regret his blind love impulse when he was young, because of a momentary impulse, he ruined his beautiful youth and future happiness.Girls are always full of fantasies about love, imagining love as a dream, and immersing themselves in the phantoms created by themselves all day long. It is precisely because of this fantasies about love that they don't have to think about problems with their brains, but follow their feelings. But sadly, practice often confirms that perception is mostly inaccurate.

Alang's confession is more about self-blame for his current desolate situation, because he lost his beloved woman when he was young, and he was imprisoned for two years. Therefore, his youth was wasted day by day in this trivial daily life.

Alang and Bobo could have enjoyed their youth beautifully, but because of their ignorance and wildness in their youth, they ruined their respective youths, and their youths went away from them.Men should bear more responsibilities in love, because love tragedies often hurt women more, and women are not without responsibilities at all, at least they should learn to protect and cherish themselves.We always say that a mature man must know self-discipline, and a mature woman must know self-love, but people have to experience it before they can become mature. Men are like this, and women are like this. Of course, it is because of immaturity that they have such Many stories happened. "

(End of this chapter)