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Chapter 1091 Self-esteem, a self-improving mother and the beauty of human nature

Although "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles" is focused on making a promotional video for "Entrepreneurship".

However, most of the people watching are ordinary people, so the directions and angles of interpretation are naturally very different.

For example, Liao Yan, a famous female writer, focuses on women's self-esteem and self-improvement.

"The whole short film, the most admirable thing is the mother's self-esteem and self-improvement!
Let me talk about my mother's self-esteem first.

We saw that when she ordered noodles at the noodle shop for the first time, as a mother, she even asked timidly at the door: "Can I have a bowl of Yangchun noodles?"

The same is true the second time, and it is still the same for the third time.

She was always worried, why was she worried?
I believe that anyone can see it. From the language we have met these few times, we can see that this woman is timid and shy, and her hesitation in speaking is a reflection of her poverty and embarrassment. People, the uneasy mentality of being afraid of being looked down upon by the noodle shop owner.Only one bowl of noodles for three people made this woman feel ashamed to say it, but there was nothing she could do. The shy wallet made her feel a kind of inner embarrassment and shame.This is the concentrated expression of a woman's self-esteem.

What is even more rare is her courage. I believe, including me, we ask ourselves, if we think about it, do we have such courage?

We go to a restaurant to eat, and the family orders a bowl of the cheapest noodles. Do we have the courage to speak up?
I personally don't really have that kind of courage.

But the mother inside, despite her apprehension, hesitation, and timidity, she still spoke up bravely.

Even if it's just this, she deserves everyone's respect.

Of course, self-esteem alone is not enough. If you want to change your destiny, you need to continue to improve yourself.

Let's take a look at the current situation and situation of this woman.

As a woman, her husband has no support after her death, and there are two children who have not grown up. Her husband owed a huge amount of debt during his lifetime. For a woman, this is simply unimaginable. The sudden death of her husband, She did not knock down this strong woman. She survived the misfortune tenaciously, and still took on the responsibility of raising and educating her two sons, and also took on the arduous task of repaying the huge debt for her husband. After working so hard, the debt was completely paid off on the third year's New Year's Eve.

She didn't sigh, didn't complain, and didn't rely on others. She relied on her own hard work and finally paid off her debts. Her self-improvement spirit is really touching.

No, it's not just moving, but many people in our era lack this kind of perseverance and self-improvement in the face of adversity.

Finally, the brightest point is her honesty and trustworthiness!

Although she was very unfortunate, she did not play a rogue, but still paid off her husband's debts, and was very particular about credit. This is also an image worth learning for many rogues.

We often see rumors circulating on the Internet that the one who owes the debt is the uncle.

Many people are even proud of not repaying their debts. Why should I pay back the money I borrowed with my ability?

This is really a very sad thing.

Failure to repay debts is a manifestation of breaking promises. When will breaking promises become the object of people's praise?
As a mother, she still has to raise two children and educate them. I believe that she must also consider the two children in doing so.

Follow the example and teach by precepts and deeds.

From the woman, we can also see that she is hard-working and hard-working. She has endured years of debt and has not bought a piece of clothing for many years, but she works very hard and diligently in the company. bonus.

Even so, she still abides by her responsibility as a mother and educates her two children well.

The two children are obviously well educated by her, and they are both very sensible. The younger one does the housework while the older one sells newspapers to support the family. The two brothers are very friendly, very united, very sensible, very hardworking and honest, very capable and full of filial piety, Very strong, full of ideals, self-motivated, very brave, and grateful.

The first time they ate noodles, the two brothers ate head to head, but they did not forget their mother, and at the same time, they did not complain because they could only eat a bowl of Yangchun noodles that was not enough for them on New Year’s Eve. On the contrary, they had Only contentment.

In their third noodle conversation, we can see how friendly and united the two brothers are.They all love their mother very much, so in their mother's words, "the boss sends newspapers every day to make money to support me, and the little treasure buys vegetables and cooks for me every day, so I can work with peace of mind... so now I can pay off all the debts After the two brothers heard what their mother said, the younger brother said, "Okay! Mom, brother, from now on, I will do the cooking for you every day." Then the elder brother said, "I will continue to deliver the newspaper. Brother, let's work hard together. Bar!"

These are really sensible two brothers. Although they have their own qualities, I am more willing to believe that this is the education taught by a great mother's words and deeds, which makes them so sensible. "

Some people also interpret the beauty of human nature from "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles".

One film critic wrote:
"I re-watched "A Bowl of Yangchun Noodles" several times. Every time I watched it, I was moved differently. I was touched by the truth, kindness and beauty of people. It is not easy to be cared about by strangers. thing.

In fact, in the whole short film, there are three pictures that impressed me the most: the first picture, when the mother and two sons went to the noodle shop to place an order three years ago, they were timid and embarrassed; the second picture, the proprietress wanted to serve them three bowls However, the boss refused. The reason was that they were afraid of embarrassing them, and it showed the boss's thoughtfulness and kindness. In the third picture, 14 years later, the noodle shop still reserved the seats where their family sat in the previous years. This is a simple A warm heart from a stranger.

I have developed the habit of walking fast since I was a child. I think this habit will make me more vigorous and resolute, and my self-confidence will also rise a few levels.

Once in the past, I walked for half a day in high heels, the heels were already worn out, and I still painfully maintained the same speed.On the subway, I was reminded by a gray-haired aunt that my heel was worn out and offered to give me the seat.At that moment, I clearly felt that I was touched by something in my heart. Is it kindness?Is it warm?Or is it the beauty of human nature?

Later, I slowly learned to slow down my walking speed, and I also knew that self-confidence is not determined by walking speed, but by inner determination and calmness.

Later, when I saw people of the same age as that aunt, I would subconsciously think of that kind and beautiful aunt. When I saw other people wearing high heels, I would habitually check to see if the heels were worn out.

So every time I see others giving way, I will naturally think of the warmth of a bowl of Yangchun noodles, letting a seat warm my heart.Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, so you should have more love and warm your heart. Even a small thing can sweep away the cold corner of your heart. "

(End of this chapter)