Establish a long-lived family from the son-in-law

Chapter 254 Family System
"This family meeting will end here."

"If there is anything else, you can come to me directly."

Lu Changsheng looked at his wife, concubines and children and said loudly.

He also realized that in such a scene, wives, concubines and children were not able to speak freely.

If the concubine's question involves the family system and children, it seems that he, the head of the family, the father, and their aunts have not disciplined them well.

If children talk about certain issues, it may affect the relationship between brothers and sisters and the harmony of the family.

"Yes!"

When the others heard this, they all stood up and responded.

Then Lu Changsheng, Ling Zixiao, Lu Miaoge and others walked out of the meeting hall.

"Sister Miaoge, Zixiao, what problems do you think need to be improved in the family system?"

After returning to the Hall of Eternal Life, Lu Changsheng looked at Lu Miaoge and Ling Zixiao and asked.

He feels that in addition to the profit aspect of his family, the family atmosphere and system must be paid attention to.

In terms of current family rules, they are roughly similar to Qingzhu Mountain.

But Lu Changsheng has a very clear understanding that his family is completely different from the Lu family in Qingzhu Mountain.

The Lu family in Qingzhu Mountain has a history of hundreds of years, and the family relationship and blood relationship are relatively weak, so they pay more attention to rules and family rules.

And my family is now a family.

It's more like a big family than a family.

As the head of the family, he doesn't take care of much on weekdays and is relatively casual about most matters.

Lu Miaoyun, Qu Zhenzhen and others also watched their children grow up.

In this case, it will not be too strict with the children, and they will behave in a completely regular manner.

"Lang Jun, in terms of the family system, I think there are a few points that need to be paid attention to."

Ling Zixiao glanced at Lu Miaoge and said with a smile.

"Zixiao just say it."

Lu Changsheng said aloud.

He knew that he was average in family management, so he was very willing to follow advice.

"Lang Jun, I think that things like lingtian, fishing products, medicine gardens, and family shops, cooperation, etc., should all be handed over to the children."

"In this way, not only can all the children have something to do, but they can also be tempered and improve the family atmosphere."

"Otherwise, if Miaoyun and the others keep taking care of it, it's really not good for the family."

Ling Zixiao opened his mouth and said so.

"Why?"

Lu Changsheng frowned and asked.

"Lang Jun, if Miaoyun and the others make mistakes in some family affairs, will you punish them?"

Ling Zixiao asked with a half-smile.

"Um"

Lu Changsheng paused in his heart when he heard the words, and immediately realized what the problem was.

He shook his head and said honestly: "Probably not, say a few words at most."

"That's it. Miaoyun and the others are already in charge of many things at home, but now they are also in charge of these. They are very busy. Maybe they made a small mistake, or they didn't handle the family affairs properly."

"In this case, you won't say anything, sir, and naturally others won't say anything. If this happens for a long time, it will appear that the family's rewards and punishments are unclear."

Ling Zixiao came to the table and sat down, with a dignified and elegant demeanor, poured a cup of tea, and continued: "Now there are quite a few children in the family. When they are fourteen or fifteen years old, they can arrange things to do."

"Don't be afraid if you make mistakes at the beginning. The family will give them enough trial and error costs."

"Besides, if the child did something wrong and didn't do it well, we can teach it as elders, and with a few words, the child in the family will not have any resentment."

"If your children feel that something their elders are doing is biased or bad, and you don't say anything about it, how dare they say it?"

Ling Zixiao said with a smile while drinking tea.

"Changsheng, Sister Ling's words make sense."

Hearing this, Lu Miaoge also sat aside and said aloud.

"Indeed."

Lu Changsheng nodded.

Being so impressed by Ling Zixiao, he was clearly aware of the problem.

"Sooner or later, these affairs will be handed over to the children, so it is better to let them do it now."

"During this period, if someone does well, give more rewards. This will also encourage other children in the family to do more."

"Children with good spiritual roots or talents in skills should concentrate on cultivation, focus on skills, or do some easy things, and don't need to spend too much time on affairs."

"As for whether she really has no talent or talent, just let Miaoyun arrange to have a family as soon as possible. It won't be a problem to have some idle people at home."

"Besides, having a few more children is considered a contribution to the family."

Ling Zixiao smiled slightly and continued.

"Longevity, in fact, is like a fairy. Ruyi, Quanzhen does a good job, so you can let the children try to do all these things."

"If done well, it can also play an encouraging and leading role."

"As for Miaoyun, Huanhuan and the others can also focus on internal affairs and cultivation."

Lu Miaoge nodded slightly, agreeing with Ling Zixiao's opinion.

"Okay, I'll talk to Yun'er and Huanhuan about this later."

Lu Changsheng nodded when he heard this.

As Ling Zixiao said, the family can still afford it now, and there is enough trial and error costs.

In this way, it is also convenient for me to use my children's talents, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and make arrangements.

Otherwise, like now, if I give a simple arrangement, I will not pay much attention to it in the follow-up. Not only will it affect Lu Miaoyun's arrangement, but it will not be thorough enough to tap the talents of her children.

In addition, he himself realized a problem.

He and Lu Miaoyun appointed many things that his children did.

In this way, some concubines and children may have some opinions in their hearts.

According to what Ling Zixiao said, all affairs are subdivided and done according to ability.

If you do well, you will be rewarded. If you don’t do well, you will be replaced.

If you can't do anything well, then get basic benefits at home.

Let the family arrange marriages, start a family early, and have more children.

After the three chatted for a while, Lu Changsheng directly called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan, and Qu Zhenzhen.

Whether it was him, Ling Zixiao, or Lu Miaoge, in fact, they didn't intervene and paid too much attention to family affairs.

So the three of them ended their chat and called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan and others over to learn about the actual situation of the family.

After Lu Changsheng expressed his thoughts, Lu Miaoyun and Lu Miaohuan naturally would not have any opinions on this aspect.

As Ling Zixiao said, as the mistresses in charge of the family, they have a lot of chores.

Now he is in charge of a bunch of family affairs, he is really busy, and he has no time to practice on weekdays.

Fortunately, Lu Miaohuan broke through the seventh level of Qi Refining through the high-level Breaking Pill.

Lu Miaoyun has not yet broken through the seventh level of Qi Refining.

"Okay, Yun'er, Huanhuan, really, I still need you to pay more attention to the internal affairs of the family and personnel affairs."

"As for spiritual fields, fisheries, medicine gardens, shops, cooperative businesses, etc., don't worry. You can roughly divide them, and we will see how to arrange them when the time comes."

Lu Changsheng spoke up and said so.

"Yes, husband."

A few girls responded.

After discussing the situation, everyone talked about the personality of the children at home.

Lu Miaoyun said that people like Lu Ping'an and Lu Xianzhi at home are more realistic.

But nowadays some young children are indeed relatively naughty.

On the one hand, there are too many children in the family, and there is no way to discipline them in everything.

In addition, it is also related to the family growth environment.

When Lu Changsheng was the son-in-law of Qingzhushan, the life of the children in the family was somewhat restrained.

Now, with Lu Changsheng's rise in status, the status of these wives, concubines and children has also risen, causing the children's personality to be somewhat affected.

After chatting with his wife, Lu Changsheng walked out of the Hall of Eternal Life to talk to his children.

In his opinion, the main job of his old father in the family is to coordinate.

He first found his eldest son Lu Pingan.

Ask the son about the current situation of the family, sensory opinion.

Although Lu Ping'an's character is a bit boring and straightforward, he still sees many things clearly.

In his opinion, the biggest problem in the family is the problem of brotherhood.

There are so many brothers in the family, it is not so close and friendly.

"Ugh."

Hearing this, Lu Changsheng sighed slightly.

For this question, he is not clear.

Not to mention being close and friendly, brotherly harmony, in his opinion, there are probably some sons and daughters who will feel jealous and resentful because of their own partiality, selfishness, and unfairness.

It's just that in front of the family, big right and wrong, it won't be revealed.

After chatting with Lu Pingan for a while, he chatted with his son Lu Xianzhi and daughter Lu Ruyi for a while.

Lu Xianzhi's views are somewhat similar to Lu Pingan's.

He has some responsibilities as the eldest brother in the family.

He also set an example for his mediocre talents, but he was so favored by Lu Changsheng, he was really ashamed.

As for her daughter Lu Ruyi, she didn't feel too much about it. She felt that the current situation was not bad, and she was very happy.

When he found Lu Quanzhen, the other party was taking Lu Miaozhen in Hushan Town, looking for two other younger siblings to play.

"Father, the child has seen the father!"

"Daddy, why are you here?"

Seeing Lu Changsheng, the four of them immediately shouted.

Lu Quanzhen and his son Lu Huaizhen looked more mature and saluted respectfully.

The two daughters, Lu Miaozhen and Lu Yuzhen, were relatively close and approached with smiles.

"Hehe, today's family meeting, as a father, I think that the family has no scruples in many aspects, so I came here to chat with you and listen to your thoughts."

"And I think Quanzhen should have something to say when he is at the conference today."

Lu Changsheng looked at his children and said with a smile.

As he said that, he looked at Lu Quanzhen and said gently: "Quanzhen, if you have something to say in the future, you can say it in private, or through voice transmission to your father, there is no need to say it in public, such words will affect the harmony between you brothers. "

"Daddy, brother, he also has good intentions, nothing else."

Lu Miaozhen thought her father was here to teach, she took Lu Changsheng's arm and said coquettishly.

"Father, I think this kind of thing can only be effective if it is said on this occasion."

When Lu Quanzhen heard this, his face showed seriousness, and he said in a deep voice.

"Aren't you worried that your words will offend others?"

Lu Changsheng smiled.

He knew that his son was precocious and very assertive.

A few years ago, he sent Lu Quanzhen to Ruyi County, where Hong Yi's subordinates worked, and Hong Yi also praised Lu Quanzhen very much.

It means that Lu Quanzhen works calmly and decisively.

But in fact, as this son grew older, he really didn't know much about this son.

"Don't worry, if they feel unhappy and resentful because I mentioned this matter, it means that these people and the family are not in the same mind, and they don't regard me as a younger brother or elder brother, so why should I care about them?"

With deep eyes, Lu Quanzhen said calmly.

When Lu Changsheng heard his son's words, he frowned, probably understanding his ideas.

Continue to ask: "Then what do you think about this?"

"Father, from the child's point of view."

Lu Quanzhen raised his eyebrows slightly, and slowly expressed his thoughts.

Lu Changsheng listened quietly.

His son Lu Quanzhen's ideas about the family are different from his.

Generally speaking, they value rules and despise family affection.

As Lu Quanzhen said, as a member of the family, one should share difficulties with the family and make contributions to the family.

If you lack this kind of thinking, it means that you lack a sense of belonging to the family, and you don't regard yourself as a member of the family. This should be severely punished and the atmosphere should be corrected.

This set of words even forms a closed loop. You contribute to the family and everyone is a family.

If you don't contribute to the family, you are not considered one of your own. You are not polite to such people.

"Brother, we are all a family, so there is no need to be so strict."

"Besides, everyone has different ambitions, and my father always said that it is good to be happy."

Lu Yuzhen next to him stuck out his tongue and said so.

"There is no requirement, just be happy."

When Lu Changsheng heard this, he looked at his daughter thoughtfully.

When I think about it carefully, I don’t seem to have any demands on my children, as long as they are happy.

Even if I can see the talents of my children through the system, many things will still follow the wishes of my children.

He thought about his son Lu Wuyu telling him about the Lu family in Ruyi County.

It means that the children of the Lu family will definitely produce domineering people, and they need to be strictly controlled.

In fact, I am now at the Lu family in Bihushan, and I also have some tendencies in this direction.

"As a father, I'm really too casual about this."

"It doesn't matter if it's a big family, but now to establish a Xiuxian family, you still have to have a family look."

"After all, my original intention in establishing a family is to provide a better environment for my children to grow up, so that they can continue to grow through the family."

"Rather than relying on me alone to support the family and everyone."

Lu Changsheng thought in his heart.

He looked at Lu Quanzhen and said, "Father generally understands your thoughts, but this kind of thing can't be done in one go."

"My father also discussed this aspect with your mother and several aunts today."

Lu Changsheng spoke slowly to Lu Quanzhen.

Since his son has ideas, he is also willing to talk more with the other party.

However, his thinking is still the same as Ling Zixiao said, and he can change it through guidance.

After all, the current situation of the family has not reached the point that Lu Quanzhen said, and it needs to act completely according to the family rules.

After chatting with his son Lu Quanzhen, the sky gradually darkened, and Lu Changsheng brought his children to the Lu family mansion for dinner.

Naturally, he does not need to eat or drink at this level of cultivation, but occasionally he will fill his appetite.

Moreover, monks eating spiritual rice and spiritual meals are also helpful for their spiritual practice.

In the next few days, Lu Changsheng chatted with the children in the family, concerned about the situation, and at the same time prepared for the changes in the family system in advance.

Half a month later, Lu Changsheng issued new family regulations, all family members who are 14 years old can apply for family affairs on their own initiative.

If you have not broken through the fourth level of Qi refining at the age of 16, it will be arranged by the family.

Every year, the family calculates the salary and benefits for the next year based on the progress of cultivation, family contribution, and moral outlook.

(End of this chapter)