Doctor: I picked up attributes in the hospital

Chapter 452
Seeing Ruan Liuzheng so sunny, he also looked a little worried, Zhao Heng couldn't help but said, "Shall I tell Director Zhou of the Obstetrics Department?"

With his current status, there is still some face in asking for a place in the hospital.

In fact, to be honest, among the competitors, there is almost no difference in ability in terms of abilities, so it is the same for the department as to who will stay, so it has become a more delicate matter to whom the quota will be given.

Of course, this kind of thing cannot be brought to the surface.

"Senior, I..."

Ruan Liuzheng, who wanted to reject it as soon as he heard it, suddenly hesitated.

Zhao Heng saw Ruan Liuzheng's hesitation, and then looked at today's Ruan Liuzheng. Today's Ruan Liuzheng was wearing a white shirt, denim shorts, and white shoes. He had fair and straight legs, delicate and smooth skin, and three-dimensional facial features. Beautiful, her eyes are bright and energetic, her lips are red and attractive, and her hair is thick, giving people a sense of joy and warmth. Although she is a little tired today, she still has a very special appeal.

Looking at it, Zhao Heng seemed to see himself in the past. This world is a big quagmire, and everyone is addicted to it, so it is more important to help each other and forgive each other.

Zhao Heng suddenly fell into a strange emotion. This emotion is not only pity, but also empathy.

However, Ruan Liuzheng's current situation is much better than when he was doing equipment matching.

Such a beautiful girl, why bother to struggle in the world?
Zhao Heng couldn't help thinking.

"Actually, it's nothing. Even if I really can't stay, I have learned a lot."

Ruan Liuzheng said with a sweet smile.

Originally, for a moment just now, she wanted to ask Zhao Heng to help her, but she hesitated, it was an inexplicable emotion.

"Besides, everyone is working hard and wanting to prove themselves, so I can't relax."

After a pause, Ruan Liuzheng said again.

Life is still long, maybe Zhao Heng can help her this time, but in the future, can she count on others to help her every time she encounters a problem?

You know, even if she can stay, there will be promotions in the future, and various problems will come one after another. Does she have to ask Zhao Heng to solve it?
Who is Zhao Heng to her who will help her solve so many problems?

On the contrary, if she can pass this level with her own ability, then she will have the confidence to face any problems that arise later.

"Okay, since you have an idea, stick to it. The road to being a doctor is too long, and now is indeed just the beginning."

Zhao Heng looked at Ruan Liuzheng appreciatively and nodded.

A famous medical doctor once said, [If you don’t want to be a doctor, don’t come to a doctor]

If it's not because of love, then why don't you step into the doctor's door. To become an excellent doctor, you need to pay a lot, but if you change to any other industry, after paying so much, you can get There are things that go far beyond being a doctor.

"Ah."

Ruan Liuzheng greatly benefited from Zhao Heng's words of encouragement. No matter whether the world is good or bad, he still has to bear it by himself. As for other people, they cannot bear a single cent on their behalf.

"Senior, thank you."

Ruan Liuzheng said to Zhao Heng warmly in his heart.

She could tell that Zhao Heng had the kind of personality that respected others very much. These days, especially in hospitals, respect is the rarest thing.

Even patients sometimes lack the minimum respect for doctors.

"How long have you been studying this time?"

Zhao Heng thought for a while and asked again.

"One year."

Ruan Liuzheng said.

"I don't know whether to say that you are lucky or not. You just happened to encounter a big salary cut this year when you came out to study."

Zhao Heng said again.

You know, if you want to study, you just come to a big hospital as a private worker, and the original hospital doesn't pay performance and bonuses.

But there is no way around this. In the medical industry, technology is being updated too fast. If you don't pay attention, the technology you master will become outdated and outdated.

"Who says no, who would have thought of that."

Ruan Liuzheng also complained.

After a while, the two chatted and ate. After eating, they looked at the time, and it was already 07:30.

Walking out of the snack bar, Ruan Liuzheng suddenly took Zhao Heng's arm and said softly, "Senior, watch a movie with me."

Zhao Heng was a little caught off guard by Ruan Liuzheng, but he still nodded. During this period of time, his mentality has actually changed a lot. He gradually discovered that some rules can be broken, as long as you have the ability to enough strength.

Soon, the two came to the cinema on the nearby commercial street. Ruan Liuzheng happily bought popcorn, coke, and some snacks, which can be said to be necessary for watching movies.

At least at this moment, the senior's time belongs to him.

Ruan Liuzheng looked at Zhao Heng and thought in his heart.

"Senior, what movie do you want to watch?"

Ruan Liuzheng asked Zhao Heng, watching movies is secondary, the main thing is to have a rare time together, and it was hard to meet today.

Zhao Heng heard that he looked at it, and there are quite a lot of movies in the lineup, including "She Who Disappeared", "In the Octagonal Cage", "Transformers: Rise of the Super Hero", "Spider-Man: Across the Universe", and several other movies have been released.

He would like to watch Transformers and Spiderman, but considering that Ruan Liuzheng might like romance movies more.

After thinking for a while, Zhao Heng pointed to the movie poster of "The Missing Her" and said, "Look at this, it looks like a romance movie."

Ruan Liuzheng looked at the movie poster and felt that it was indeed a romance movie, so he also nodded.

At the same time, there are many couples, in twos and threes, all planning to watch this.

After a while, I bought a ticket and entered the theater.

Originally watching a movie with Zhao Heng, Ruan Liuzheng was quite looking forward to it, but after watching "The Missing She", Ruan Liuzheng was directly shocked. Heart discomfort.

When I got out of the movie theater, I saw the couples around, and when I went in, it was completely different.

"Senior, this movie..."

Ruan Liuzheng couldn't help but said helplessly.

"The movie is not bad, but it feels a bit like treating the brain of love."

Zhao Heng said with a smile.

The topic of men and women will never go out of fashion.There are also many places worth exploring about the emotional topics presented in the movie.

First of all, can just watching a movie really save the love brain?

The author finds it difficult.

The so-called authorities are obsessed, people with love brains are deeply involved, and it is difficult to see clearly.

Just like in the movie, the origin of Li Muzi's tragedy is that he shouldn't marry He Fei, who has a huge gap.

Li Muzi is Bai Fumei who has a wealthy family, studied abroad, and loves art, while He Fei has a good-looking face, low education, low income, and is addicted to gambling.

Such a person is clearly here for the girl's money.

But you said, doesn't Li Muzi have no idea what He Fei is after her?

I think she knows, otherwise she wouldn't have ignored He Fei at first.

So, what is the nature of the love brain?
In fact, it is a sense of lack.

Just like a very hungry person, even if it is food thrown on the ground, he will pick it up and eat it.

Only those who can eat enough will consider whether the food is nutritious and healthy.

If a person is extremely lacking in caring and self, it is really easy to get up because of a little care from others.

After all, they are almost "starving to death", so how can we tell whether this person is "a bad visitor".

Li Muzi met He Fei when he was the most vulnerable and insecure.

He Fei took the opportunity to play to her liking and greeted her well, naturally he easily won her heart.

As long as Li Muzi's experience is more complicated and he has read more people, he will not be so easily fooled.

Therefore, if you want to reject the love brain, solving your own "sense of lack" is the key.

Only when you are no longer in a state of hunger all the time, can you have the ability to choose the food that suits you best and eat the best food for your body, instead of eating whatever you have.

So how to solve the "sense of scarcity"?

It is to learn self-respect and self-love, walk independently, and put your own feelings first.

When the little girl inside you has truly grown up, it becomes less of an addiction to love and affection from others.

Rather than craving love that others cannot control, it is better to give yourself certain love.

Another theme in the movie is money, after all, this is the root of all the stories.

But money is not the root of all evil, how to treat money is the key to the problem.

Except for extreme cases like those in movies, in ordinary people's marriages, talking about money between two people is basically daily life.

You said, which one of the daily food, drink, Lazard, daily necessities, rice, oil and salt does not require money?

A marriage relationship is like running a company. The biggest daily task of the two partners is to ensure that the company has enough money to operate.

Therefore, talking about money is basically a daily routine of marriage.

And how to talk about money is the biggest test for couples.

In our cognition, evenly matched feelings are of course the best,

However, there are also many people who achieve class transition through marriage, which does not mean that they will definitely fail.

How much you earn is not the key, the key is to face the gap, whether the weaker party can self-examine and strengthen themselves, and whether they can work hard to catch up in terms of earning capacity.

It is often not money that hinders two people from continuing to go on, but the gap behind the money.

For example, in the movie, He Fei owed a huge gambling debt that he would never be able to repay in his lifetime, but Muzi Li could settle it with just a bank card.

If the problem is solved in an instant, it will cause path dependence, and people always want to use this way of getting something for nothing to solve the problem in one step.

He Fei in the movie, although he took over the business of his wife Li Muzi's family after marriage, he didn't cherish it and didn't settle down to learn how to make money.
Instead, they repeat the same mistakes, always thinking about gambling to make back the lost money.

Because he has seen that relying on his wife's huge wealth can solve the problem in an instant, and he already has path dependence, so he always thinks about taking chances and doing the same.

It didn't work out, and tragedy ensued.

Therefore, the feelings of economic imbalance are like a bet against your judgment and vision.

You must be able to enjoy the good brought by the gap, but also be able to bear the bad it brings.

This is the mature attitude towards feelings.If you can't bear it, you must learn to stop the loss in time.

You need to be aware of what is a tolerable disagreement and what is a principled disagreement that cannot be compromised.

If it is just a small matter of disagreement and separation, it is not only reluctance, but more "uneconomical".

Smart people always know where their bottom line is.

In fact, every step in our life, we will face a choice.

Every different choice can be regarded as a game.

"Bo" and "play" are different.

Bo, representing gambling, requires risk taking;
Chess, which means playing chess, requires strategies.

No matter entering a higher school, getting a job, changing jobs, starting a business, including marriage, they are all part of this game world.

If you want to make the right decision at each step, you must do it like an investment:
Plan ahead and develop a strategy.

The less risk you have, the greater the chance of success.

"Yeah, the love brain is really scary. This movie can be said to be a walking marriage education movie, and it is completely a guide to avoid pitfalls in marriage and love."

Ruan Liuzheng also said with great emotion.

For women, marriage is simply a gamble. If it is not done well, it will end in ruins.

So, what this movie tells us most directly is, don't be with any partner with seriously bad habits!
Don't give anyone with a serious bad habit any chance, the probability of you getting hurt in the end must be 100%.

Whether it's alcoholism, violence, gambling, or even drug use. As long as this person is exposed once in your relationship, break up immediately and stay away from this person as much as possible.

One thing that many love brains in the heart of the Holy Mother like to do is to forgive each other again and again, and then tell themselves comfortingly: It doesn't matter what happened before, as long as you know how to change later, it will be fine.

No, this person cannot be changed.

Any behavior that will cause extreme harm to the other half is a red line in the relationship. Once this person finds out that you have crossed the red line, you will forgive yourself. Then guess if this person does similar things in the future, there will be even one A little bit of psychological pressure?

"This movie is a guide to avoiding scumbags, so you are the searchlight for avoiding scumbags."

Zhao Heng smiled and said to Ruan Liuzheng.

Ruan Liuzheng's mind is transparent and delicate, he is one of the few girls he has ever seen who can have such determination, such a person knows exactly what he wants, will not be coerced by anyone, and has a very strong heart. It's so powerful that a person can live a good life.

This is why Zhao Heng would tell Zhou Hong, director of obstetrics, as long as Ruan Liuzheng spoke up, but Ruan Liuzheng still didn't speak up. Women in the new era of independence and self-improvement are not just talking.

"The scary thing about this world is that you have to refresh your understanding of something again and again. Originally, I thought that couples or husbands and wives would be cold, violent, and quarreling with different views. It was already very uncomfortable, but compared to In the movie, that’s really nothing.”

"The most important thing is that this movie is based on real events."

Ruan Liuzheng said with a sigh.

Ruan Liuzheng felt shuddering when he thought of the disappearing "wife" in the movie, who cut off his limbs and turned into a "human pig" and appeared on the big stage of the freak show.

Never overestimate human nature!
(End of this chapter)