Doctor: I picked up attributes in the hospital

Chapter 433 Free wedding dress?

"Hey, you read the news. It said that a girl wore a wedding dress to attend a male idol's concert, and her boyfriend broke up with her."

While eating, Xu Hongdou suddenly said while playing with his mobile phone.

Speaking of Zhao Heng and his sister Xu Manni's engagement, Xu Hongdou also expressed his feelings when he saw the news.

"Miss husband, what do you think of this matter?"

After a pause, Xu Hongdou suddenly asked Zhao Heng very curiously.

"be honest?"

Zhao Heng said.

"Of course, my sister and I are not in the fan circle, so we must be telling the truth."

Xu Hongdou nodded.

"If the wedding dress has no special meaning, these girls will not wear the wedding dress to the concert, and no one will say that they will wear the wedding dress to the concert because they know the wedding dress has a special meaning, and they will be raptured. separate."

"If it is necessary to admit that this is the freedom to dress, then if a boy wants to break up with you because of this matter, he must also admit it. If a girl really loves you, she will come to you in a wedding dress instead of I ask you for a bride price."

Zhao Heng thought for a while and said.

"I saw a comment below. There was a boy who prepared everything for the bride price in the wedding room. He was just waiting to get married. He had been in love for three years. Because his girlfriend wore a wedding dress to attend the idol's concert, the man proposed to break up."

Xu Hongdou continued.

"Didn't you say that wearing a wedding dress to meet idols is marrying youth?"

Xu Manni smiled and said that since she was a child, the boys who chased her can line up from the second ring road to the suburbs, so she is not interested in male stars or anything.

"Then is it considered a second marriage if you marry someone after you are young?"

Zhao Heng couldn't help saying.

"Haha! It should be considered a second marriage, after all, it is already married once."

Xu Hongdou said happily with a smile.

"About this matter, I thought of one thing. Emperors with great achievements in ancient times often liked to enshrine Zen in Mount Tai. From the first emperor who unified China, to Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty who ruled culture and martial arts, to Emperor Guangwu who restored the Han Dynasty, even Tang Gaozong They all contributed to destroying the country, only Song Zhenzong, and since then, no emperor has gone to enshrine Zen. Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, had this merit, but he didn't go either."

Zhao Heng said.

"Huh? What happened to Song Zhenzong? Why didn't other emperors go after he went to Mount Tai?"

Xu Hongdou asked very curiously.

"It's a shame that you are still a liberal arts student, because Song Zhenzong regarded the Tanyuan Alliance as the capital of Fengchan. To put it bluntly, this alliance is to use money to let blood in exchange for peace. He lowered the grade of Fengchan a lot, so later The emperor didn't want to be side by side with him, so he didn't go."

Xu Manni rolled her eyes at Xu Hongdou and said.

"So it's like this, sister, I didn't expect you to learn history very well. Then is this the same as the bachelor's uniform? The current bachelor's uniform is really bad. The bachelor wears it by himself, and he didn't get the bachelor's uniform." You can also wear them, even children who have graduated from kindergarten.”

"If this is the case, maybe wedding dresses will not be valued so much in the future, because our traditional wedding attire is a phoenix coronet and Xiapei, and it is not a wedding dress at all."

Xu Hongdou thought for a while and said.

"Now Xiuhe clothes are also very good-looking. Some brands have a good design, so you don't have to wear a wedding dress or something."

Xu Manni nodded and said.

"Miss husband, do you think from a boy's point of view, why did everyone react so strongly to this matter? Some boys even broke up because of this matter?"

Xu Hongdou asked again.

"Other people don't know why, if I encounter this kind of thing, I will think, you wear a wedding dress with special meaning to attend the idol's concert, and then call it marrying youth, which means Obviously, you want to marry Aidou, but you can’t, so your heart is given to Aidou, and I’m just the next best thing you ask for.”

"As long as any girl who pays more attention to her boyfriend, I don't think she will do such a thing."

Zhao Heng said slowly.

In a lifetime, people pay attention to a comfortable life. For things like falling in love and getting married, in the modern society, the effort is far greater than the gain.

Basically, if you really want to calculate it, getting married is a loss-making business.

So why don't young people want to get married these days?

Here, the author advises everyone, especially young people, can you really bear the consequences of not getting married?
Think about it when you are alone after get off work, and you can only turn on the computer to play games, or ask your friends to drink, drink, skewer the king’s pesticides, and go crazy, aren’t you lonely?
No one is with you, you can only be alone or ask your good friends to travel, play disco or play swit, aren't you bored?

No one cooks for you, ah, no, this will not happen after marriage, so you can only cook what you want, or order takeaway, fried chicken, beer, crayfish, grilled fish, bowl chicken, spicy soup, Haidilao hot pot Tin foil barbecue, are you not tired of eating like this every day?
There is no pressure to buy a house, a car, marriage and childcare. If you want to quit your job, you can quit your job. If you have as much money as you want, you can spend as much as you want. On weekends, you just sleep until you wake up naturally. Are you not panicking about this kind of life?
Don't you think it's scary?
what? !

How can you fall asleep at your age?

"Miss husband, what you said sounds very sincere."

Xu Hongdou nodded. She found that Zhao Heng never talked about big principles, and usually talked about his true feelings. It is quite comfortable to get along with each other.

This also shows that Zhao Heng is a person with a strong heart and basically no internal friction, which gives people a very reassuring feeling.

Isn't it all popular now [find the reason on others first] [go crazy when something happens] and so on.

"That's why everyone doesn't want to get married now."

After a pause, Xu Hongdou sighed again.

This year, the number of marriages hit a new low. Last year, there were only more than 700 million couples. It sounds like a lot, but it hit a 36-year low.

Now the post-90s are no longer married, and the post-00s not only don’t get married, they don’t even talk about love. The marriage rate has been declining year by year since ten years ago, and the divorce rate is soaring like a rocket. The more the times develop, the younger Instead, people are not getting married, and more and more people are not having children.

Why is this so?
In the past few years, the fertility rate has been reduced to the point of creepiness. Last year, our fertility rate has fallen below 1. What does this mean?

This means that the vast majority of parents, with only one child, are less than half of the world average.

If this fertility rate is maintained, then when the three generations of the post-70s, post-80s, and post-90s grow old, for every one person born, five people will die.

"This matter is actually easy to understand. From an economic point of view, marriage is actually a contract. Then the family is a company, and marriage is the registration of a company. Both husband and wife are investors, and they must invest their own time and energy. And relationship, so what is the return on investment? Obviously the various services enjoyed in family life, such as emotional value, companionship and so on.”

"The operation of the company requires costs. When the society can provide me with more and more equivalent services, I don't need to start a family and get married. The value of marriage will be greatly reduced. If the input-output ratio is getting lower and lower, Everyone weighs the pros and cons, and they are more willing to spend their time and energy elsewhere.”

Xu Manni said unexpectedly, obviously, she had thought deeply about this matter.

Why did Xu Manni want to marry Zhao Heng after only two months together?

Doesn't it look like the old unmarriageism at all?
Because Zhao Heng could give Xu Manni whatever she wanted.

So, it's not that everyone doesn't want to get married, but for most people, the cost-effectiveness of getting married and having children is really too low.

If everyone has a house in the school district in the city center, a vacation villa in the suburbs, and an annual income of several million, then everyone is willing to enjoy the joy of getting married and having children.

"You think so deeply."

Zhao Heng couldn't help but smiled and said.

Xu Manni is not a young girl. Zhao Heng is very clear about this. If she hadn't already thought very clearly in her heart, Xu Manni would not even think about falling in love and getting married.

Looks, figure, temperament, family background, job, education, Xu Manni has everything, and she can live a very good life by herself.

If Zhao Heng didn't really satisfy her, why would she want to get married?
Maybe couples who have survived adversity will have more sincere emotions, but for a family and life like Xu Manni, where can they go to suffer and afflict?

"Aren't you men like this now?"

Xu Manni asked back.

In terms of weighing the pros and cons, men and women are the same, and the more outstanding a person is, the more powerful the trade-offs in this regard.

For a good man, there are only two kinds of women who can spend his life with him, one is to accompany him to grow up in adversity, and the other is to have very good conditions in all aspects and can help him.

One is that the emotional value is very high, and the other is that the material help is great. People live a lifetime, especially if they want to be tied to another person, they always have to figure out something.

"Survival is hard enough for most young people these days, who wants to think about that."

Zhao Heng shook his head slightly and said, if he is still a low-level equipment supplier, earning a meager salary of several thousand yuan, and living in a village in the city, let alone marriage, he would not even dare to think about falling in love.

That is to say, now that his status, status and wealth have reached a certain level, it is basically no burden for him to get married and have children, so he can consider marriage without any pressure.

"That's right, there are really not many people at your age who can be as successful as you, young lady."

Xu Hongdou nodded in agreement.

"Okay, none of you are engaged in sociology research. If you want to do so much, just do your own thing well."

Xu Manni thought for a while and said.

"On the contrary, if the two sides meet, we should make good arrangements."

After a pause, Xu Manni said again.

It is a big event for both parents to meet. The first impression is very important, so it must be well arranged.

"It's nothing, just get to know each other over a meal."

Zhao Heng thought very simply.

After going to Xu Manni's house to meet Xu Manni's parents, Zhao Heng felt quite at ease. Xu's father and Xu's mother were satisfied with Zhao Heng, so there was nothing to say.

On Zhao Heng's side, Zhao's father and Zhao's mother were quite satisfied with Xu Manni's daughter-in-law in all aspects.

Since both parties are satisfied, there will be no major problems.

"By the way, what is the custom of meeting over there? I'm going to prepare."

Xu Manni asked Zhao Heng.

"It seems that there is nothing special. The first meeting is to bring something and chat."

Zhao Heng usually doesn't pay much attention to these things. As a young man in the new era, everything is kept simple.

"Otherwise next weekend, I'll find a place."

Xu Manni nodded and said that she didn't think there would be any problems, after all, both parties were quite satisfied.

"Sister, what's the matter with being a little envious of you all of a sudden."

Xu Hongdou said with a smile.

Zhao Heng and Xu Manni, in her opinion, although they are not the kind of sweet love that is tired of being together all the time, they understand and respect each other, try to minimize trouble for each other, and think about each other. Let it ring.

This kind of feeling is the real life together.

Speaking of which, since Zhao Heng and Xu Manni were together, they haven't had a fight yet.

On the one hand, it was because they were too busy, and on the other hand, it was also because both parties were too transparent to quarrel at all.

"It's not always like this."

Xu Manni said with a smile.

The feelings that can withstand life are true gold that is not afraid of fire.

After she and Zhao Heng got together, she basically got positive feedback. In this era and world where negative energy is always overwhelming, she can find such a positive sunshine, who can provide positive energy at all times, and has the ability to have a bright future. My partner is simply a blessing from heaven, and I have accumulated virtue and done good deeds in ten lifetimes.

After supper, the three of them went shopping and returned home.

Back in the bedroom, Zhao Heng changed his mind and swiped his phone while lying down.

Xu Manni also leaned on the pillow to change her phone.

"You said, if we get engaged, will we call each other husband and wife?"

Xu Manni suddenly asked Zhao Heng.

"Husband wife is too formal."

Zhao Heng felt a little unaccustomed to calling his wife directly.

Speaking of which, Zhao Heng still doesn't have a fixed address for Xu Manni. When they were not together before, they called her sister. After they got together, they called her sister less and there is no fixed address.

"If it's not called that, what is it called?"

Xu Manni said with a smile.

"Otherwise I will call you Dr. Zhao at home?"

After a pause, Xu Manni said.

"That's not bad, I always feel like my husband is calling me 20 years old all of a sudden."

Zhao Heng nodded.

"Did you miss me while you were away for a few days?"

Xu Manni put down her phone suddenly, straightened up, looked at Zhao Heng and said.

"what?"

Seeing Xu Manni like this, Zhao Heng knew that this was Xu Manni's code word.

"Whatever you think, come directly!"

Zhao Heng put down his phone.

"Why is it gone?"

Zhao Heng opened the bedside table, looked at the empty drawer of the bedside table and said.

"Oops, I forgot to buy it."

Xu Manni said suddenly.

(End of this chapter)