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Speaking of her eldest brother and second sister-in-law, Lin Zhixi's tone revealed a trace of sadness.

Yue Wenxuan comforted him: "Every family has its own problems that are difficult to recite. If there are many family members, it's good to be able to maintain a semblance of harmony.

Everyone is an independent individual with his or her own personality and thoughts. When a family can't get along, some of it is a character issue, and some of it is a character issue. As long as there are no irreconcilable conflicts between family members, there is no need to pay too much attention. "

“You are quite open-minded and what you say makes sense.

My second sister-in-law is actually pretty good. Although her performance in all aspects is a bit worse than that of my elder sister-in-law, compared with other daughters-in-law, she is already considered good.

The second sister-in-law is very filial to my mother and treats me well, but she and my eldest brother have great conflicts. The two of them are always tit-for-tat and neither gives in to the other.

If it weren't for my mother's pressure, and my sister-in-law and my second brother's mediation, the two of them wouldn't even be able to maintain a superficial harmony, and I'm afraid they would have stopped interacting with each other long ago. "

Hearing this, Yue Wenxuan became interested.

In ordinary families, even if there is a family conflict, it is usually between sisters-in-law or two brothers. It is rare for a sister-in-law and an eldest brother to be incompatible like these two.

"The conflict in your family is really a bit strange." Yue Wenxuan commented casually.

Lin Zhixi never talked about her family conflicts in front of outsiders, but she had nothing to keep secret from Yue Wenxuan.

The conflict between the eldest brother and the second brother mainly stems from the disputes during the family separation. Sooner or later, these things will be known to Yue Wenxuan, so Lin Zhixi recounted all the past events.

The year Lin Zhixi graduated from high school, her father unfortunately passed away. After that, Lin's mother made the decision to divide the family between her two sons.

Originally, according to Lin's mother's idea, the head of the family had just passed away, so there was no rush to separate the family. It would take a year and a half to wait.

But her eldest son's behavior chilled her heart, and she decided to separate the family as soon as possible.

After burying Father Lin, Lin Zhixi was about to face the college entrance examination. Mother Lin was afraid that her husband's death would affect her daughter's study, so she gave her a lot of comfort and encouragement.

However, the eldest brother of the Lin family did not approve of his younger sister continuing to enter college. Instead, he hoped that she would find a job immediately after graduation. Although the reasons he gave were high-sounding, such a selfish approach was unanimously condemned by the whole family.

The saddest person was of course Lin Zhixi. Her father had just passed away, but her elder brother regarded her as a drag, which was hard for her to accept.

Mother Lin is a very strong-willed person, so she simply decided to separate the families for her two sons. After the separation, she would be the one to support her daughter in going to college, so that she would not be a drag on her eldest son.

Although the problem of the younger daughter going to college has been solved, there is another conflict over the separation of the family, and it is an even bigger conflict.

Although the Lin family is in decline, they still have two houses in the courtyard. These two houses are privately owned houses with real estate certificates. The Lin family's greatest wealth is these two houses.

Both sons want these two houses, so who should give them to them becomes the biggest problem.

In the end, it was Lin's mother who made the decision and gave the two houses to the eldest son, who had more urgent needs. The reason for this was because the eldest son's unit was not very good and the chances of being allocated a house were very small.

If the house is given to the eldest son, then financially speaking, the eldest son must compensate the second son. Then the amount of compensation becomes a conflict.

In short, due to the issue of family separation, the already bad relationship between the two brothers became even more tense.

After talking about the past, Lin Zhixi continued: "As you just said, family conflicts are nothing more than character issues or personality reasons, and the conflicts in our family are also related to these two points.

To be fair, the main reason for the conflicts lies with my eldest brother.

My eldest brother is a eloquent person and will leave a good impression on others without in-depth interactions. But it won't work if you have in-depth contact, because he is a selfish person, and it is difficult for such a person to gain the recognition of others.

My second brother has a straight temper and is not as eloquent as him, but he is broad-minded and generous. In matters between the two brothers, he is often the one who suffers in the end.

My second brother can tolerate my eldest brother, but my second sister-in-law can't. She never gives in. The two of them are at odds with each other, and they are both very talkative. Once a conflict breaks out, it is difficult to calm it down.

I tell you this not because I am worried that the two of them will make things difficult for you. This should not be possible.

Both of them are smart people in the eyes of ordinary people, and they are used to looking at other people's food. If you are a poor person in their eyes, they may step on you. But you are not, so they will only flatter you and make you very happy.

I want to remind you that when it comes to matters involving the eldest brother and the second brother, you'd better be fair and impartial and don't have any obvious bias. Otherwise, it will be easy to create conflicts between them and make the two families quarrel again. "

Lin Zhixi spoke in such detail. Although Yue Wenxuan had not yet had contact with her family, he already had a general impression of her family members and knew how to get along with them.

He said deliberately: "You told me so much, I thought you were worried about me, but it turns out that what you really care about is your two brothers.

Don't worry, I have very few opportunities to deal with them. I will definitely keep things even and not give them any chance of conflict. "

Lin Zhixi said angrily: "What do you have to worry about? Your face is thicker than the city wall, and you are a great professor. How can our family still look down upon you?"

Ever since I graduated from college, my whole family has been urging me to find a partner, fearing that I would become an old girl who cannot get married.

Now someone finally wants me, and the conditions are far beyond their imagination. If you come to our home as a guest, you are a real honored guest. No one will show your face, they will only talk up to you. "

"That's not the case. Although I am a bit thick-skinned, I still have self-awareness.

Your relatives are willing to look up to me, not because they think I am a good person. The ultimate goal is for you. I hope that after you marry me, I can treat you better. "

During this period, when the son-in-law arrived at his father-in-law's house, his status was indeed much higher than that of later generations.

In most families, when the uncle comes to visit, he will be entertained grandly, and no one will show his face.

The reason behind this is that women's family status is low, and the heads of families are almost all men. Whether it is for the daughter's status in her husband's family or for the future interactions between the two families, she must maintain the most basic respect for her son-in-law.

"It's good that you understand this, but don't get it wrong just because my mother has a good attitude towards you. It's not that I really can't get married, they just hope that I can marry better."

After lunch, the two of them were not in a hurry to leave. They continued to sit there drinking tea and talking until it was time to go to work, and then they had to separate.

When they learned that their son was going to visit his mother-in-law's house soon, the old lady and Huang Yijun were very happy. Yue Wenxuan didn't have to worry about it. The two of them started preparing gifts for him a few days in advance. On Sunday, Huang Yijun made breakfast early. After dinner, she urged Yue Wenxuan to get a haircut first. After the haircut, she also urged him to change into new clothes.

Yue Wenxuan had several lifetimes of life experience and was not nervous at all, but his family treated this matter as a top priority and could not tolerate any mistakes.

Just after eight o'clock, Yue Wenxuan's hands were full of things and he went out under the urging of his whole family.

He had already asked for Lin Zhixi's home address. When he got off the bus, Yue Wenxuan saw his girlfriend wandering not far away.

He walked quickly to his girlfriend and said, "Your home address is not difficult to find, so why are you waiting for me at the stop sign? Are you still worried that I will get lost?"

"I haven't seen you for a few days, and I miss you a little bit. I just want to see you sooner, even a little earlier." Lin Zhixi held Yue Wenxuan's hand and said dreamily.

During this period of contact, Lin Zhixi had been very shy. Yue Wenxuan never expected that she would say such a thing, and he was very moved.

"I miss you too."

The two held hands and looked at each other silently for a moment. Although there was no further intimacy, sweetness and satisfaction filled each other's hearts.

The two of them didn't speak, and just walked forward in tacit understanding. Although there was no verbal communication, just holding hands like this made people feel very beautiful.

When he reached the door of the unit, Yue Wenxuan felt Lin Zhixi's struggle and reluctantly let go.

Lin Zhixi whispered: "You must be mentally prepared. The door of our house is now crowded with people. People in the whole building are ready to see what you, a great professor, look like."

"Just watch. I have to face so many students every day, and my face has long been developed to be thicker than the city wall. I am not afraid of people looking at me."

Seeing Yue Wenxuan's indifferent expression, Lin Zhixi was very envious.

She is not as thick-skinned as Yue Wenxuan. Not to mention being watched by so many people, even if she is just being scrutinized by Yue Wenxuan's family, she will probably blush with embarrassment.

She felt extremely uneasy when she thought about visiting Yue Wenxuan's home in the near future.

Yue Wenxuan followed Lin Zhixi into the corridor side by side. Sure enough, as Lin Zhixi said, the corridor was full of people.

Lin Zhixi greeted the neighbors she knew from time to time. Yue Wenxuan took out the toffee and cigarettes that he had prepared and distributed them to the greeting people with a smile on his face.

If he was an adult man, he would be given a cigarette, and everyone else would be given two toffees. Yue Wenxuan dealt with it calmly.

Yue Wenxuan acted very calmly, but Lin Zhixi smiled nervously. Although the people around her were neighbors who usually looked down without looking up, she still felt shy when her aunt and sister-in-law teased her from time to time.

The corridor was filled with people, and the reception was grand. Lin Zhixi was like a soldier being reviewed by leaders, while Yue Wenxuan was like a leader reviewing soldiers. The two people had completely opposite mentality. After passing through many human walls, they finally entered the home.

Lin Zhixi's home was also full of people. In addition to family members, there were also several neighbors present.

After Lin Zhixi's introduction, Yue Wenxuan greeted everyone one by one.

The basic information about Yue Wenxuan had been publicized by Mother Lin a long time ago. The people present had high expectations for Yue Wenxuan. Now that they saw the real person and saw him so heroic and handsome, their impressions of him were even higher. Exceeded expectations.

The neighbors just came to watch the fun, and after saying hello, they were ready to say goodbye and leave.

The people living in Tongzilou include cadres and workers. Some are of high quality and some of low quality.

In addition, some people were very curious, especially wanting to know what Professor Yue Wenxuan brought to the house for the first time.

If there were only one or two people, they might not express their curiosity, but when there are more people in the room, everyone becomes bolder.

Someone asked directly: "The gifts brought by the great professor for the first time must be good things. Can Lao Lin open our eyes?"

Some time ago, Mother Lin had been worried about her daughter's marriage. Now she finally had an ideal son-in-law. Of course she wanted to show off, so she said happily:

“You can watch it if you want, there’s nothing wrong with it.

If you feel that just eating a few pieces of wedding candy is not enough, you can also divide the gifts brought by Xiaoyue, and everyone can get one. I am not that stingy, so just go ahead and do it. "

"This is something Professor Yue specially brought to you, my mother-in-law. We are not so shameless to share your things. As long as it can open our eyes, we will be very happy."

Everyone was just a little more curious and had absolutely no intention of taking advantage.

Mother Lin did not take action immediately, but first asked for Yue Wenxuan's opinion: "Xiao Yue, everyone wants to see the gift you brought. Can you open it and show it to everyone?"

"Of course it's no problem, but the gift I brought is a bit ordinary, so don't laugh at me." Yue Wenxuan naturally would not refuse.

With Yue Wenxuan's permission, Mother Lin took action and took out the items in the bag one by one to show everyone.

Every time Mrs. Lin takes out something, no matter whether everyone is really surprised or not, they will all cheer in exclamation.

The gifts that Yue Wenxuan brought were specially and carefully prepared by the two hostesses of the family. Each of them was a rare and good thing, which was indeed very enviable.

He brought a total of six gifts, namely: two Chinese cigarettes, four bottles of Maotai liquor, a pack of scallops, a pack of abalone, a pack of red sausage and a piece of Jinhua ham.

The value of each one is not low, and the most rare thing is that it is difficult to buy on the market.

After seeing these gifts, the neighbors were envious, but not surprised. They felt that the gifts brought by a great professor like Yue Wenxuan should be unusual, which was in line with their expectations.

The neighbors satisfied their curiosity and after a brief chat, they all left knowingly and left. Only Lin Zhixi's relatives were left in the house.

Mother Lin is already in her fifties, but she doesn’t have many wrinkles on her face and looks a few years younger than her actual age.

She is a very kind person, her voice is also very soft, and the smile on her face makes Yue Wenxuan feel very friendly.