All Heavens Pension started from the fiery era

Chapter 361. 361. The Choice Between Love and Reality
Hearing this, Yue Wenxuan immediately frowned.

He no longer needed to know more about Shen Qianyun. Based on her family situation alone, Yue Wenxuan was destined to oppose this marriage.

Now that she has just been liberated, a family like Shen Qianyun will have endless troubles in the future. No matter how deep the family members' feelings for her are, Yue Wenxuan will never agree.

This marriage is fundamentally different from the marriage of the second sister in the previous life.

In his last life, he could support the second sister's choice, but he would never agree with Yue Jiamin to make the same choice.

In the last life, the second sister developed feelings for Fan Qingping. The Fan family has already passed through the most difficult years, which is very important.

Those first few years are the worst, and many people can't even make it through.

After getting through the initial stage, the later days are difficult, but almost life-threatening.

The most important thing is that the second sister can use this marriage to change her destiny. As long as she spends a few years with Fan Qingping, she can enjoy the honor and wealth for a lifetime.

Apart from being beautiful, the second sister is very ordinary. This is her chance to change her destiny. Since Yue Wenxuan can foresee it, of course she will not object.

If Yue Jiamin marries Shen Qianyun, there will inevitably be two results.

He originally had a bright future, but at that time, how would he choose, whether to share weal and woe, or choose to divorce?

No matter what kind of choice it is, it must be painful.

This is just the ordeal that his small family will inevitably endure. Although other relatives will not be implicated too much, it will have a profound and huge impact on the children.

At that time, Yue Jiamin's own children, Yue Wenxuan's children, Yue Fangqing's and others' children will all face choices after graduation.

If you choose to go to the countryside, it will have no impact, but if you choose to join the army, go to college, or enter a factory, you may not pass the audit.

Knowing that there would be such serious consequences, of course Yue Wenxuan clearly opposed it.

Yue Jiamin continued to talk about Shen Qianyun's own situation, and Yue Wenxuan was in no mood to listen.

Before he could finish speaking, Yue Wenxuan interrupted his narration, "No more, I can tell you clearly that I am firmly opposed to this marriage.

Now it is not before liberation. The country advocates freedom of marriage. Let alone your fourth uncle, even your father can only give you advice and cannot force you to make a choice.

You may or may not accept my suggestion.

But if you don’t accept it, you must cut off from our whole family, and you must declare in the newspaper that you will sever ties, and you will never have any contact in the future.

You'd better change your name too, don't use this name anymore, and don't call yourself a Yue family in the future. "

In Yue Jiaming's mind, Fourth Uncle is a very open-minded person. He originally thought that Fourth Uncle would support his decision.

Even if he doesn't support it, in his idea, he should express his opposition tactfully.

He never expected that his fourth uncle would refuse so simply, and even say such heartless words, which made him a little unacceptable, let alone understand.

He pursed his lips tightly to calm down, and asked after a while:

"Fourth Uncle, I know your attitude. Can you tell me why you are so resolute in your opposition?"

"because……"

After listening to Yue Wenxuan's analysis and judgment on the future situation, Yue Jiamin was speechless for a long time.

Although Yue Wenxuan's analysis and judgment of the future situation are a bit ahead of schedule, what Yue Wenxuan said is well-founded, and Yue Jiamin must admit that even if Yue Wenxuan's analysis cannot be 100% realized, at least there is a high possibility that it will come true.

"I can't influence your decision, but I have to think about the future of the children.

Your wrong decision is likely to affect the future of the children, and the political review will inevitably become more and more strict in the future. In the future, children's military service and college entrance examination are important events in life and cannot be ruined by you. "Yue Wenxuan said it very straightforwardly.

If the reason given by Yue Wenxuan only involved Yue Jiamin alone, he might still argue. After all, this was his own decision, and he was willing to bear the corresponding result.

But when he knew that his decision would have a huge negative impact on the future of other members of the family, he had to think carefully.

Love is beautiful. In front of love, everything else is not important, but the premise is that this love will not harm other relatives.

If he insists on doing so knowingly that marrying Shen Qianyun will affect the future of other relatives, then he is too selfish.

Although Yue Jiamin admires love, he is not selfish.

Seeing Yue Jiamin remained silent, Yue Wenxuan patted him on the shoulder, "You should think about what I said, and tell me your decision after you have the result.

I'm not joking with you, if you insist on marrying Shen Qianyun, you must do what I said, and you can't discount it at all. "

At this moment, Yue Jiamin actually had a choice in his heart, but this choice made him very painful, and he didn't want to say it right away.

First love is beautiful, but for anyone, giving up on first love is an extremely painful thing.

Yue Wenxuan understood Yue Jiamin's pain, so naturally he would not force him to make a quick decision.

If Yue Jiamin can think about this matter clearly, Yue Wenxuan believes that he will grow and mature faster from now on.

Yue Jiamin will soon enter the government department, so he must have a mature mentality.People who are too idealistic will find it difficult to even protect themselves in the next few decades.

Without making Yue Wenxuan wait too long, after three days, Yue Jiamin gave Yue Wenxuan a clear answer.

"Fourth Uncle, I've made it clear to Shen Qianyun, we won't be in touch again in the future."

Yue Jiamin's tone was very calm, which made Yue Wenxuan very satisfied.

"It's good to be clear. You are people from two worlds. When you are in love, everything is beautiful, but if you live together, whether it's your thoughts or your living habits, you will inevitably have many contradictions and it will be difficult to reconcile them together.

You have just started working, and you will focus more on your work in the future. I believe you will find a like-minded revolutionary partner. "

Although he knew it was useless to say this, Yue Wenxuan still said a few words of comfort.

Yue Wenxuan originally thought that after this emotional setback, in the last one or two years, Yue Jiamin might not be willing to mention the matter of finding a partner.

But this time he was wrong. Just half a year later, Yue Jiamin had a new partner.

Du Xiuju's eldest daughter was the first to break the news.

Because of Xiao Ping'an's relationship, the two families have always been relatively close, and even Du Xiuju's daughter and adopted son would occasionally visit the Yue family.

On Sunday, Xiao Ping'an cried and wanted to visit his fourth uncle and aunt. Du Xiuju couldn't spare time, and the eldest daughter Xie Shuangyu happened to be resting at home, so she brought Xiao Ping'an to Yue's house.

After lunch, Xie Shuangyu talked about the busy work at the unit during this period, and the sister-in-law couldn't help complaining:
"You cadres, working in the political and political departments are never day and night. You are always so busy, and your salary is not much higher than that of factory workers. I think you might as well go to work in factories.

I finally looked forward to Jiamin graduating from university and working smoothly. I thought he would go home and eat with me every day, but I didn’t expect that it would be even more difficult to meet him now.

Since he applied for the single dormitory, I haven't seen him for more than half a month.

I finally looked forward to Sunday. I thought he would go home today, but I still didn't see him.

He is 23 this year, if he doesn't hurry up to find a partner, he will be single soon.

He is so busy every day, I want to introduce someone to him, but I can't find a suitable opportunity. "

What the sister-in-law is thinking about now is to quickly find a partner for her son. People of the same age as her son have children running all over the floor, but her son doesn't even have a partner. How can she not be anxious?
A smile appeared on Xie Shuangyu's face, "Auntie, don't worry about it. Brother Jiamin is a dignified college student. Are you still worried about not being able to find a good partner?"

"How can I not worry, even if he is a college student, if he doesn't hurry up for a blind date, his partner won't fall from the sky, can I not be in a hurry?"

"What age is it now? You can't find a partner by going on a blind date. You can also find a like-minded revolutionary partner at work." Xie Shuangyu said with deep meaning.

The sister-in-law's eyes lit up immediately, "You mean the family has a girlfriend? Shuangyu, don't lie to me!"

"Auntie, I just heard about it, but I dare not give you a guarantee. After all, we are not in the same department, and I don't know much about it."

"Where there is no wind, there is no wave, since the news has reached your ears, it seems that this matter should be inseparable.

Tell your aunt quickly, what's going on? "Sister-in-law suddenly became full of energy.

"Brother Jiamin has a colleague named Chen Yunzhu, who is 20 years old this year and looks pretty, and the two of them cooperate very well at work.

Chen Yunzhu graduated from high school. One of her classmates and I are colleagues. She knew about my relationship with Brother Jiamin and told me about it.

I don't know if Brother Jiamin has any thoughts about this Chen Yunzhu, but I can be sure that Chen Yunzhu likes Brother Jiamin. "

Xie Shuangyu told the truth, telling the truth, and did not make any speculations of her own.

"That's great, that's great! It turned out that I was going to let him go on a blind date. There are several girls who are pretty good, whether they look good or have a good job. It's not bad to pick any one.

Looks like I'm all fussy.

I have to ask him later, if he is really sure about the girl Chen Yunzhu, I can call those girls back quickly, so I don't make people wait any longer. "

Xie Shuangqing said: "I don't think you should wait to ask Brother Jiamin, so as not to delay the good girl.

This matter should be pretty close, even if it doesn't work out, you won't have to worry about finding a partner on Brother Jiamin's terms, so don't worry about it. "

"Okay, I'll listen to you. I'll give those girls an answer later, but I dare not delay them."

The sister-in-law was anxious to know the exact news. Fortunately, Yue Jiamin finally found time and finally went home on Saturday night.

When Yue Jiamin arrived home, the elder sister-in-law was cooking. When she saw her son coming back, she didn't even cook, and dragged him into the house.

Yue Jiamin was dragged by his mother to sit down by the bed, and asked suspiciously: "Mother, what's wrong with you? It's scary."

"I heard from Shuangyu that you have a date. That girl's name is Chen Yunzhu. Is this the case?" the sister-in-law went straight to the point.

"Your information is really well-informed, Yunzhu and I have just established a relationship, you will know.

That's right, I have a partner now, and that girl's name is indeed Chen Yunzhu. "Yue Jiamin said cheerfully.

"Okay, that's great! You silly boy finally got the hang of it. If you don't hurry up and find someone, I'll have to drag you on a blind date." The sister-in-law was overjoyed.

"We only know that the girl is pretty, graduated from high school, and is your colleague, and we don't know anything else about it.

How is her family situation?Who are the people in the family?You also tell us about these things. "The old lady also interjected.

"She came from a family of cadres, and her parents are both grassroots cadres. Although their positions are not high, they are also old revolutionaries.

She is the youngest in the family, with two older brothers and one older sister. "

Yue Jiamin told everything he knew in detail.

After listening to his story, the whole family was very satisfied, and the old lady continued: "Well, the family is also very good, let me tell you, since the two of you have established a relationship, it's better to get married as soon as possible.

It doesn't matter to you if you keep procrastinating like this, the woman will definitely be anxious, so you have to take the initiative in this matter. "

Yue Jiamin and Chen Yunzhu have just confirmed their relationship. If the families of both parties don't know, they will definitely keep it secret for a while, and they won't talk about marriage for the time being.

But after the family knew about it, the follow-up process went directly to the fast lane, and everything went in an orderly manner to the wedding day.

Yue Wenxuan promised that when his children got married, he would buy a small yard for them.

But that was before liberation, as long as you have money, you can easily buy a yard.

If you want to buy a yard in this time period, it is not something you can do with money.

In this period, housing is very tight, and it is much more difficult to buy a suitable yard than before.

Knowing about Fourth Uncle's plan, Yue Jiamin did not intend to accept it.

In front of his family, he said sincerely:
"Fourth Uncle, at this time and at that time, if I got married before liberation and you wanted to buy me a small courtyard, I would happily accept it.

But in this period, it is too difficult to buy a small courtyard, and it is not necessary.

Our unit is building a new dormitory building, and the new building will be completed in four or five months at most.

Yunzhu and I are in the same unit, and there is a high possibility of living in the new building. Even if we don't have the qualifications for the new building, we can always live in the old house vacated by those people.

If you buy me a private house, the two of us will naturally lose the qualification to share the house.

Buying a small courtyard before liberation, no one would say anything. Buying a small courtyard now is too eye-catching, so forget it. I think we should still strive for the qualification for housing allocation. "

(End of this chapter)