So lazy, how can you become a fairy

Chapter 429 This month should be roughly estimated, maybe it will definitely be finished, right?

Facing Yao Qingkong's soul-questioning, Hongli jumped over the topic of names with a laugh.

There is no way, she and Heiyang couple, the name is only at this level, understand it.

Besides, isn't Xiao Huo's name nice?

Hongli sounds great!

Sure enough, it's Yao Qingkong who doesn't understand how to appreciate it, obviously the whole family thinks this name is very nice!

"But it finally fulfilled the wishes of you and your husband."

Hongli turned her head to look at Yao Qingkong, happy for him too.

"In the future, there will be a new member in the family, and at the same time, there will be another person who needs to be cared for."

After a pause, Hong Li turned her head to look at Xiao Huo, gently rubbed the other's little head with a gentle face, and said with emotion: "This is a gift from God, but also a heavy responsibility on our shoulders.

When children come to us, we must take good care of them and guide them.

And there will be a lot of endless worries, always thinking wildly in her heart whether she will have accidents like this or that.

Well, for example, Xiaohuo in our family, in order to allow her to enter the society safely, Hei Yang and I tried hard to take all unstable factors into consideration, and wanted to teach her everything we could teach him.

Even so, when I think that Xiaohuo will step into the society by himself in the future, I still feel very worried and worried! "

"certainly……"

Hongli paused, and explained to Xiaohuo with some embarrassment: "Mom's words don't mean to treat you as a burden.

Not to mention that this is our responsibility in the first place, in fact, when we are with our family, we can spend more time with you and teach you more knowledge while Xiaohuo is still young, we also enjoy it!

So Xiao Huo shouldn't think too much about it, and don't need to feel embarrassed or guilty. "

"Oh, hey."

Xiao Huo smiled embarrassedly and said: "I know, I know, Xiao Huo didn't think much about it at all!"

"Hmm, that's good if you don't think too much about it."

After a pause, Hongli joked: "But having said that, the tacit understanding between our mother and daughter is still not enough!

If it was your father, I don't have to worry about him thinking too much, knowing that he will definitely understand what I mean. "

"Ah this..."

Xiao Huo clenched his fists and said with determination: "Xiao Huo will definitely work hard to improve the tacit understanding between himself and his mother, and try to be like Dad!"

"Haha, that's unnecessary."

Hongli laughed and said with a chuckle: "Parents have always guessed their children's thoughts, how can it be reasonable for children to see their parents' faces?
Talking to my parents, do I still have to speculate on the holy will, that would be too tiring!
As long as I know that I really respect my parents and have that filial piety in my heart, that's enough.

Well, it's just like I talk to your father, grandparents, grandparents, isn't that what I just said? "

"Oh shit."

Xiaohuo showed a thoughtful expression.

"Listen to what you said one after another, I really understand it very well!"

Yao Qingkong looked at Hongli with a smile, nodded happily, and expressed emotion: "Yes, from now on, the life of Zisheng and I will enter a new stage.

To nurture the offspring, teach them to become talented, and watch them grow up and become excellent step by step, we must be very careful so as not to lead the children in the wrong direction.

Thinking about it, there is still a lot of pressure. I feel that I have not learned how to be a human being, and I have to teach a little life like a blank sheet of paper how to do it. "

Yao Qingkong sighed softly, shook his head and said with a smile: "But that's okay, it's pressure as well as motivation, and the next life is full of purpose again!"

"Then come on."

Hongli gave her own blessing, but she also has her own ideas about the cultivation of children.

"Actually, in my opinion, children don't have to be so good.

As long as they can make themselves happy, healthy and safe, and don't cause trouble to others, that's fine.

In this regard, Heiyang and I actually have the same opinion, after all, the two of us were not good children who met the expectations of our parents, hehe.

Don't do to others what you don't want to be done to others. Parents understood us at the beginning, and when we become parents, we naturally have to understand our children. "

"Besides, if you push the child so hard that even the smile disappears, wouldn't the gain outweigh the loss?"

Speaking of this, Hongli suddenly showed a somewhat dazed expression, she naturally thought of Heiyang's past, those days that made her feel very distressed by the sound of it, and she suddenly had a new feeling in her heart.

"What do you want your child to become a dragon or your daughter to become a phoenix? Parents are so busy, they will find that what they want most is the safety of their children.

Isn't the original intention of wanting them to be excellent at the beginning just to make them live better?

Of course you can have anticipation, which will become a motivation to push children forward, but when anticipation becomes an overwhelming burden for children, and if they do not do well a little bit, they will be afraid of being punished, then I think it is already Get out of the essence. "

"But then again..."

Hongli showed dead fish eyes, and helpless struggle flashed in her eyes, thinking of some not so good memories.

"It's not for the sake of happiness, you have to indulge the child blindly.

For example, the days when Heiyang and I were pulled out of bed every morning to exercise..."

Hong Li's face showed sadness, it was the past that she was grateful but never wanted to go back to.

Not only must he exercise on time every morning and night, rain or shine, but his parents will conduct spot checks every once in a while to compare him with Heiyang.

It is said that if anyone lags behind the opponent continuously, they will be punished horribly.

So far, Hongli still doesn't know what the so-called horrible punishment is.

For this, she still wants to thank his current husband, that is, Hei Yang, for not being the hateful Juan Wang.

The two have a tacit understanding and maintain almost the same level. Today you win a round and tomorrow I win a round. The day after tomorrow you wrestle better than me, and the day after tomorrow I run faster than you.

The competition between the two directors was really fierce and intense. Sometimes they were evenly matched, so that their parents could hardly tell the difference. This is why no one of them has been subjected to the legendary film for more than ten years. horrific punishment.

Speaking of that kind of situation, as long as one person can't trust the other party, and thinks that the other party might try hard secretly while he is lazy.

In the end, it will definitely evolve into a situation where both of them suffer!
So the unbreakable trust relationship between her and Heiyang seems to have been cultivated since then?
Thinking about it this way, my parents were really far-sighted at the time!

However, because there is a minimum standard, it is impossible for the black sun red glass to be too obvious.

If you really want to treat your parents as fools, your parents will definitely beat the two of them as fools!

Thinking of her parents' "cruel" methods, Hongli shrank her neck subconsciously.

Yao Qingkong, on the other hand, was a little stunned by what Hongli said, and couldn't help but fall into deep thought.

"Xiao Li, you are right, thank you for your reminder."

Yao Qingkong breathed a sigh of relief, looked at her newborn child with emotion, and said softly, "As long as the ability is sufficient, we should be a little tighter in terms of virtue.

Make one or two true bosom friends, grow up happily, meet someone you like and have your own home..."

"Xiao Li..."

Yao Qingkong looked up at Hongli again, and praised: "As expected, she is a senior mother with nearly two years of experience, and she knows much more about this than me."

"Ah this..."

Hongli scratched her head in embarrassment, and laughed loudly: "Do you really think so?
Haha, in fact, I am also talking nonsense, it may not be correct, and you should not take it all seriously hehe. "

"You don't have to be humble, your words really taught me a lot."

Yao Qingkong showed a relieved expression.

"To be honest, ever since I found out I was pregnant, I've been worried that if I can't teach her well with my ability, or if I don't have enough experience, I'm afraid that something unexpected will happen to her growing up, and I'm extremely nervous.

But now that I have Hongli and your words, I have a solid foundation in my heart, and I feel a lot more at ease. I slightly lowered my requirements for her, but in fact, I also gave up some requirements for my parents..."

"It doesn't mean lowering your requirements."

Hongli couldn't help but corrected: "It's about figuring out what the child really wants!
If the child also wants to become a very good person in the future and needs the supervision of his parents, then he should not be pampered, let alone perfunctory in education.

Just like Xiaohuo, we hope that she will live a peaceful life like us, but she also yearns for an excellent self.

So when you usually play, you should play. We also have strict requirements in terms of education. "

"Well, Xiaoli, you are right!"

Yao Qingkong nodded in admiration, and stretched out his hand to gently caress the child's face.

"In this way, there will be a lot less unnecessary worry, but at the same time, I am still afraid that the child will be influenced by others, such as making some bad friends, being followed as bad and so on.

In fact, when I was a child, because I followed some senior brothers and sisters secretly playing tricks, I always passed the alchemy assessment of the sect indiscriminately and fooled around.

After nearly half a year wasted, my abilities failed to improve but I still felt that the results obtained by cheating belonged to me, and I was complacent and blindly arrogant.

Until one day, I heard that the senior brothers and sisters had another extremely strict assessment in their class, and in that assessment, their small tricks were seen through, and while they were recorded as major demerits, they were also punished by many fellow seniors. feel ashamed.

And not long after, I heard that our class also needs to conduct an assessment of that scale, and I finally panicked.

"Even if I don't cheat, my own strength shouldn't be too bad."

That's what I thought at the time, because I didn't dare to play small tricks anymore. In the examination room, I looked at the past and my eyes were dumbfounded, and one head was as big as two heads. "

Speaking of this, Yao Qingkong couldn't help laughing, and shook his head with a helpless smile: "The final result can be imagined. When the score came out, I was stupid. I have no self-knowledge all this time. I finally tasted the bitter fruit ...

Fortunately, Master pointed out my mistakes and brought me back to the right path, so I didn't make mistakes again and again. "

"Ha, you can't do it now."

Hongli frowned, showing a proud expression.

"When I was in school, I was always No.1.

The teacher praised me, saying that among the students he taught, there was only one student who did better than me. "

After a pause, Hongli looked at the curious faces of Xiaohuo and Yao Qingkong, and smiled embarrassedly.

"You said it was a coincidence, isn't it! The one who is better than me is called Heiyang, hehe."

"Wow!"

Xiao Huo looked shocked: "What a coincidence, that person has exactly the same name as Dad, there is such a coincidence!"

Yao Qingkong: "???"

Hong Li: "What you catch is fish, what you don't catch is cough, cough, pee, pee..."

In the middle of speaking, Hongli quickly covered her mouth to avoid the tragedy of hunting herself.

Hongli is different from Yao Qingkong, Yao Qingkong's brain was directly froze by Xiaohuo's words.

Hongli glanced at Xiaohuo with dead fish eyes.

"Damn girl, I'm pretending to be confused with your mother here, right?"

"Hey hey hey."

Xiao Huo couldn't help laughing out loud, and said embarrassedly: "Because when Mom mentions Dad's eyes and expressions will always be different, so I can't help but think, hehehe..."

"He he he."

Hongli showed half-moon eyes, imitating Xiaohuo's laughter without emotion, and threatened half jokingly and half seriously: "Little girl, you should cherish the present time!

I'm still young, and your mother is still not willing to beat you. When you get older, see if your mother will hit you with a bunch of big bumps on your head. "

"Ah this!"

Xiaohuo's expression froze, and he quickly revealed a pitiful and cute look.

"Oh, no, no, Xiao Huo is so obedient and cute, mom will definitely not be willing to do it!"

"Hmph, that's not necessarily true."

Hongli curled her lips: "Your mother and I are so cute, why don't we still get coughed by that guy Heiyang..."

Yao Qingkong, who glanced at Yao Qingkong, whose eyes suddenly lit up, shut his mouth vigilantly as he said half of what he said, the good guy actually eavesdropped on their family affairs, right?
"Ah this..."

Yao Qingkong looked at Hongli's vigilant eyes, knowing that he had been discovered, smiled awkwardly, and quickly changed the subject.

"Haha, Xiaoli and Xiaoyang, you two were really outstanding when you were young, hahaha."

"Hmm, that must have been excellent when we were young, isn't it like you!"

Hongli looked at Yao Qingkong with a sullen face.

Yao Qingkong: "..."

It's not like this can also lead to a group attack on her, right?

"Hey, what are you so proud of! We were practicing knowledge at that time, so it was naturally profound and mysterious, and you were just ordinary knowledge in the mortal world at that time!"

Yao Qingkong retorted unhappily: "There is no comparison at all!"

"Ah, are you serious, is it more important than practice?"

Hong Li was stunned, and looked at Yao Qingkong with strange eyes: "That's me from practicing Qi to Yuanying for more than a year, how many years have you been to Yuanying?"

Yao Qingkong: "..."

"Ah, well, let's talk about the child, hahahaha..."

(End of this chapter)