The heroine of Kuai Chuan Zhi's family only farms

Chapter 1549 [1548] Three rooms grow

More than ten minutes later, the father and son came to the door with four gifts, drinks, snacks, fruits, and wheat milk.

Xiang Shengli has an extraordinary demeanor. Although he has the dignity of a superior, he doesn't have any grudges in his heart when facing this family who has taken care of his son for three Spring Festivals. After all, the eldest son has been gone for ten years. Injury and pain, also smoothed over time.

So he was very grateful to the Ding family for taking in his son and caring for him when he was homeless. If they weren't bad, how could he run here year after year?

So after Xiang Shengli handed over the gift, he pulled Xiang Feng and bowed deeply to the Ding family.

"Thank you for the care you gave to his family when the child needed warmth, me and him. My mother cared too little for him. Thanks to the big brothers and younger siblings for their hospitality. The child's mother has an extreme personality, so I didn't let her Come here, please forgive me."

Xiang Shengli is a few years older than Ding Zhenlong, so it is not wrong to call him a big brother, but he did not expect to make Ding Zhenlong extremely nervous.

How can I say that other people are also leaders, and I am a farmer, even if I think farmers are not ashamed and their prices are not lowered, but in terms of social class, they are still inferior, and Ding Zhenlong has never seen many people at the leadership level, so Rubbing hands before shaking hands, smiling nervously, these subtle movements and expressions are actually the image of honest and honest farmers.

Xiang Shengli is not a person suitable for chatting, he has no extra nonsense and goes straight to the point.

"This kid has a stubborn personality. To put it bluntly, he is worried that we will know that he is injured and feel uncomfortable. To put it bluntly, he is not afraid of my brother's jokes. The relationship between him and our family has been tense. Neither of them is convinced. , at one o'clock, come to your house to celebrate the New Year on the first day of the previous year, right? That is, he and his mother quarreled, how old do you think you are, and your temper is still like a child. "

"This time her mother brought her younger brother to see me. She knew that my son hadn't gone, so she was anxious. She hasn't been back for three years. After all, she is a real mother, so how could she not miss it? Trouble, I can't bear it, but we have already booked a place to live in L City, and we can drive there quickly. We will stay for one night and drive to the military area tomorrow. The time is tight, so I am sorry to bother you gone."

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He said a lot of polite words, but Xiang Feng didn't respond, and finally looked at his brothers and sisters reluctantly as he was about to leave.

As his good brother, Ding Jianshe also helped him pack his luggage and looked at the wind. His mood was always low, and he couldn't help but patted him on the shoulder.

"Look at you, it's New Year's Eve, be happy, your parents came to pick you up in person, you should be happy, when can't you come to our house? After the New Year, you want to come, just come again ?”

"It's nice to say, when you all start school, who am I looking for?"

"Are my parents not at home? They will definitely take care of you like their own son. If I don't have the confidence to go to your house, I should really go and see you. You know, your brother's business, If you, mother, know, I'm afraid I have to peel off the skin. Speaking of it, I'm sorry for her, otherwise, I, "

"No, please don't, it's fine like this, don't think too much, she will come out slowly after ten years, why our family let her like this, it's not because she's afraid of being stimulated, so you also Don't worry, I don't want you to be nice to me, it's because you want to repay my brother!"

With the help of Ding Jianshe and Ding Jianguo, Xiang Feng put on his military coat, buttoned it up, and put on his hat. Xiang Shengli picked up his luggage after leaving the house, and watched the father and son leave under the reddish eyes of the Ding family.

It's not that they don't want to go there to give it off, it's that they won't let them go, maybe it's because they are afraid of meeting Mrs. Xiang, and they may have to be courteous for a long time, so they leave so cleanly.

After Xiang Feng left, the door of the house was closed again, and the big guys walked into the main room, looking at the gifts on the table, no one was in a good mood.

"It's New Year's Eve, look what's going on here! Well, there's nothing wrong, let's go to bed too, and I hope nothing will happen this year!"

Ding Wei comforted everyone not to take these things to heart, but she didn't know that after seeing Xiang's family, her parents directly extinguished the beauty they once thought.

Because of Xiang Feng's departure, Ding Zhenlong simply went to sleep with his sons, while Zhao Qingqing and her two daughters slept in their own room.

The couple got up before dawn on the first day of the new year, Zhao Qingqing said to Ding Zhenlong while preparing the incense offering.

"What I said earlier about letting Xiang Feng be my son-in-law will be invalid from now on. It's not right for me to be in the wrong family. I'm to blame for being so whimsical."

Ding Zhenlong was not surprised that Zhao Qingqing had this idea, in fact he also thought of it last night.

"Is it because of her mother?"

Zhao Qingqing shook her head, "Not exactly, and he is a soldier. I don't want my daughter to find a soldier as her husband. Now the three of them, father and son, give way. If they get married in the future, if there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, will it be okay? Will my daughter be wronged? Thinking about it again, they are actually not suitable at all. He is eight years older than our daughter. Eight years old, even if he can join the army, even if he doesn't live with his in-laws, what about Xiangyang? Sooner or later, I will know? This is a bomb, and it may detonate this family at any time. I will not let my daughter be wronged in their house for the rest of her life because of this. Therefore, my thoughts were too naive before, and I only thought that this child is good. But neglected his whole family."

Ding Zhenlong breathed a sigh of relief when he heard the words, "Actually, I didn't agree with it from the very beginning. It's not that our daughter is not worthy, but that we can't let our daughter marry him with this kindness on his back. We owe Xiang's family a debt. Let's pay back slowly." That is, it can be regarded as a relative, but you can't marry your daughter to him. Our daughter can do it since she was a child. It is not easy to find a man who can suppress her. Since it is not easy, then find a man who can suppress her. It’s okay to be a little cowardly, at least you can control it, and you won’t be wronged.”

Zhao Qingqing also nodded in agreement, "Yes, that's how it should be, but I'm afraid you don't know it yet, your daughter has never planned to get married,"

"Nonsense, she's only 15 years old, you can't let her get married if you want!"

"No, that's not what I meant. What I mean is that my daughter told me more than once that if she doesn't get married in the future, she says that getting married is too tiring, and that she can live longer if she doesn't get married. If she gets married, her life will be bad." I can control it, but it is controlled by my in-laws. How could she come to such a conclusion at such a young age? Is it something that happened in our village that made her afraid of marriage, especially for women? She said that it would be like going through the gate of hell!"

Perhaps it was because this girl had been upright since she was a child, and the couple never felt that Ding Wei's words were beyond the maturity and calmness of her age.

It is precisely because it is easy for the couple to raise a daughter, and the daughter is capable, so they are convinced that what the daughter said is correct. If Ding Wei knows that her parents have been successfully brainwashed by her, she does not know whether to cry or to be happy.

When you get up in the morning on the first day of the new year, you have to worship the Stove Lord, God, and ancestors, so offering incense is indispensable. Generally, four dishes are enough, which can be fried food or fruit. Ding’s house has eight dishes. Firecrackers were set off, incense tables and ingots were lit, and even eyes were closed to make a wish to God and ancestors.

The couple didn't want their children to see this scene, so it was done every time they didn't get up.

Ding Wei didn't want to get up to eat in the morning, and her mother couldn't cry. She didn't like dumplings, and she didn't have any vanity for children to wear new clothes outside to show off, so even Ding Xiang got out of bed excitedly and told her that it was snowing outside. , She also pretended not to hear, pulled the quilt and continued to sleep.

Fortunately, whoever eats the dumplings will eat them, and there will be no leftovers because she didn't get up. There are so many boys in the family, and they can eat as many as they like.

Now that they are all grown up, they don’t need any New Year’s money, but their uncles and aunts insist on giving it to them. Naturally, their parents also give it to other unmarried children in the second and third bedrooms. What the aunt said is right. This is a custom. It was waived.

Even though Ding Wei didn't go to the New Year, Ding Xiang still brought her a red envelope of [-] cents. This is the custom of their family. Whoever gives the New Year's money is always this amount. Their family has many children and they are not married yet. Brothers are sorry If they wanted, the uncle and aunt would give it to them. In the end, of course all the money was given to Ding Xiang, even Ding Wei was no exception.

Ding Xiang was very happy to get a total of [-] cents for the new year's money plus her own. She grinned happily when she thought that she would go to grandma's house on the second day of the second day tomorrow and get the new year's money again.

"Really, I want to sleep a little longer. You come here later, come later, well, I won't sleep anymore, and the snow won't fall anymore?"

"Bai was happy, and it snowed for a while, but it stopped. No wonder our mother said that the bigger the snowflakes, the less it will fall. It's true, but if it doesn't snow, you won't be able to eat ice skates."

Children in this era like to look for ice skates everywhere, because it has not been polluted by industrialization, and there are vegetation everywhere, so the snow in the 80s is still quite clean, and the ice skates formed after melting are also beautiful and clear, becoming children's favorites. Playthings, but there are also many incidents of ice skates hitting people. As a childhood memory, Ding Wei naturally ate it too. It is ice cold and sweet, even if it is enjoyable in the mouth, it is actually not delicious. good to eat.

After getting up, Ding Wei folded the quilts, put the pillows on the quilts, piled the three quilts to the position near the window, and put a layer of sheets on top to cover them. Plastic sheets have been nailed outside the windows. There is no air leakage in winter, so once the kang in the house is heated, the temperature is around [-] degrees, which is very warm.

The kang has been burning continuously since winter. There are firewood piled up in the front yard, the backyard and the corners outside the house. These are all gathered by parents before the winter. There are corn stalks, sesame stalks, big branches and small branches, corn There are many, many leaves. In this day and age, cooking and fire depend on firewood. There are trees everywhere, and there are not as many people as later generations, so there is never enough firewood to burn. As long as you work hard, you will not starve or suffer from cold.

According to the time point, the land reform in the 80s will be experienced at the beginning of this year, and the production team will gradually withdraw from the stage of history between 81 and 94.

According to the household registration number of their family, mother, third brother, fourth brother, she and younger sister, at least five acres of land can be allocated.

For her, five acres of land is enough, and too many parents can't grow it. After all, they still have to go to school and work, and there are too few opportunities to help in the future, especially since her father still has a job, and she basically depends on her own Planting, five acres of land is really a lot. The era of mechanization has not yet come, and the era of pure manual planting is not easy.

The second uncle’s house. The eldest son Ding Jianli, his daughter-in-law has been more than eight months old and is about to give birth, so he couldn’t come back for the Chinese New Year. In fact, he didn’t come back for the Chinese New Year a few years ago. It seems that there is not much affection in the family. When the daughter-in-law is pregnant, the natal mother will take care of her more. Even if the son-in-law is not a door-to-door son-in-law, she will be taken care of by the old man's family.

Besides, the younger brothers are all working now, no matter how much the salary is, at least they have a job. He doesn't fight for the family house, so the brothers naturally live their own lives. Without parents, there is no need to notify the separation.

The second son, Ding Jianxin, works in a winery, and the third son, Ding Jianxin, works in a bearing factory. Although they are both temporary workers, their salary is only 18 yuan a month. They still have rural household registrations, but they are very satisfied with their current jobs. I also found Ding Zhenlong’s relationship, and found someone to assemble a second-hand bicycle. At least [-]% of it is new. I can ride it for a few years. It’s not too late to buy a new one when I turn to a regular job, because I’m not a regular worker, and I don’t have an urban hukou. , not even qualified to live in staff dormitories.

Ding Caisang is now four or five months pregnant, and I don't know if she will come back in the next few days, but my aunt said that she will come every year and holiday, and also on the anniversary of her father's death. She is sensible, at least better than Ding Cailian a lot of.

Of course, Ding Cailian also has a good reason. She used to go to school, but now she is working. Maybe she is used to her being away from home all the time. The Ding family's two households have no expectations or demands on her.

On the contrary, Caisang, who is close to her, is well married and has a decent job, and is even more praised by the elders in the family.

The two sons of Sanfang, the eldest, Ding Jiandang, works as a cook in the health center, and now he has become a full-time chef. The first year from an apprentice to the official is 27.5 yuan, and the fifth year of work can only be transferred to 32.5 yuan. The second son, Ding Jianjun, works in Ding Zhenlong’s factory. Here, it is now the third year of apprenticeship, and it will become a full-time job next year.

Not to mention Ding Lan, after being admitted to the Capital University, he might be assigned to a high school or junior high school in the province after graduation. If he performed particularly well, he might stay in the school to teach.

Just because Wang Yuhuan gave birth to an up-and-coming daughter, the threshold of their family was almost broken, but they were all matchmakers for Ding Lan. The two elder brothers also had them, but very few. Wang Yuhuan directly blocked the daughter's marriage. Waiting for my daughter to get a job in the future before discussing marriage, finding a partner for her now would be tantamount to causing trouble. She knew this very well, so she was smart enough not to take the matchmaker's word for it.

(End of this chapter)