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So how to get these words?First of all, when people choose characters, most of them are the parents and elders of the parties involved. Sometimes the boss can also choose characters from subordinates, which is a kind of behavior of "top to bottom".When choosing characters, they will place their blessings and expectations on the parties involved. Of course, some people choose characters by themselves in order to reflect their aspirations.

As for the particularity in choosing characters, we can use some famous figures in the Three Kingdoms period as examples.

The characters can be selected according to the ranking of the parties in the family. For example, the Sun family in Jiangdong was a prince at that time, with many children. Sun Ce was the eldest son, with the word "Bofu"; Sun Quan was the second son, with the word "Zhongmou"; Bi"; Sun Kuangxing four, "Ji Zuo".

Sometimes it is related to the name. Some names and characters have the same meaning. For example, the familiar Shu Han Prime Minister Zhuge Liang, the word "Kongming", "Liang" and "Ming" all have bright meanings; General Gan Ning, whose word is Xingba, has the opposite meaning of "Ning" and "Xing"; there are also names and characters that have the same meaning, and are derived from a sentence in classics, such as Cao Cao, whose word is Mengde, "Xunzi · There is a saying in "Encouraging Learning", "Life is based on the right, death is based on the right, and the husband is called virtue." Yan, the word is an extension of the name, such as Li Bai, the word Taibai.This is an extension of Taiyi. Du Mu, with the word Muzhi, extends Mu.

In addition, it is also very common to add words such as "zi, gong, wen, shi" in front of the characters to express respect for men.Of course, some people are uneasy about these routines. Some characters are very strange to us. For example, there is a stubborn black mountain thief. The reason why he is very impressed is because his character is "*".

In a sense, characters were also a symbol of a person's social status in ancient times. For example, most of the common people did not have characters. Women are more cautious in this respect than men. According to the generally accepted etiquette, only elders or husbands It is a serious faux pas if other people do this.

In "Dream of Red Mansions", once when Lin Daiyu first entered Jia's mansion, when she was talking with her grandmother Mrs. Shi and other relatives, she met Jia Baoyu, the "demon king" in Jia's mansion. Jia Baoyu chatted with Lin Daiyu, and asked Lin Daiyu if she had a show Lin Daiyu replied that there was no word, so Jia Baoyu took the word "twinkle" for Lin Daiyu.

Let’s not talk about whether this “twinkle” is appropriate, let’s say that at that time Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu could only be said to be pure cousins, they belonged to the same generation, and the two had no marriage contract made by their elders before. There was such a thing as an unmarried couple Therefore, Jia Baoyu's move, even if most readers like it, is actually a very frivolous move that disrespects Lin Daiyu.

Don't think this is a trivial matter. In ancient times, the reputation of unmarried women was very important. If this matter is spread, it can be said to be a very heavy blow to Lin Daiyu's reputation. In the future, whether it is friendship or marriage, it will have an impact of.

This kind of practice cannot be easily prevaricated by Jia Baoyu's youth and ignorance. After all, it is the consensus of the whole society that "men and women have different seats at seven years old". Baoyu "doesn't like reading", so he said he didn't understand these common sense of life.

However, for Jia Baoyu's rude behavior, no one in Jia's mansion, whether it was Mrs. Shi or other sisters and relatives, raised any objections to it, let alone reprimanded him. The matter is over.From this incident, it can also be seen that Mrs. Shi's love for Lin Daiyu is actually very limited.

Therefore, Lin Daiyu's life in Jia's mansion can be said to be "not daring to say a wrong word, not daring to take an extra step".

Of course, Li Yuanying does not have the distress of Lin Daiyu, and today's formal selection of characters is even more high-standard.

Princess Linchuan got up from the table, faced the east, and recited the congratulatory speech aloud according to the words determined for Li Yuanying by the elders of Li's parents: "The etiquette is ready, and the auspicious day of the moon is announced. The word Kong Jia, you are a good scholar. It is suitable for fakes, and it will be protected forever. It is called Ling'anfu."

Li Yuanying knelt down during the banquet, and replied: "Although Ling'an is not sensitive, I dare not wait until night to worship." After speaking, she got up and bowed to Princess Lin'an, and Princess Linchuan returned the salute before returning to her original position.

This also means that when others call Li Yuanying in the future, they can also call him Li Ling'an in addition to calling him by his first name.

Of course, women's names in ancient times can't be called indiscriminately. This range is limited to those relatives of the Li family and the royal family and close friends in the boudoir recognized by Li Yuanying.

Speaking of this, I have to mention some plots about Xue Baochai in "A Dream of Red Mansions". For Xue Baochai, everyone's impression is that he is polite, sensible, slick, and smooth, but in fact, some of Xue Baochai's practices are very intriguing.

For example, in terms of addressing Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, a woman who is so sophisticated and intelligent, often calls Lin Daiyu a "twinkle".It stands to reason that it is not a big deal for friends and sisters to call each other, but Jia Baoyu violated the etiquette and adopted this word for Lin Daiyu. If Xue Baochai's statement spreads to the outside world, it is equivalent to reminding others that Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu did not abide by the etiquette. , it can also be seen that Baochai and Daiyu get along well on the surface, but in fact the undercurrent is turbulent.

Li Yuanying took a few steps forward and knelt down in front of his parents. Li Sui and his wife looked at the daughter in front of them with complicated feelings, and even forgot what they wanted to say before. They just said a few words of instruction dryly. Li Yuanying finished listening Finally, he solemnly replied: "Although my son is not sensitive, I dare not only accept it!".Bow three times to Li Sui and his wife.

Then, Li Yuanying got up again, returned to the center of the hall in a few steps, turned around, and bowed in order to express his gratitude in the order of Princess Linchuan, guests, musicians, Yousi, and praisers. It's really over.

After the ceremony, the whole morning has basically passed, and it’s time to eat. When the servants bring the meals carefully prepared in the kitchen, no matter who they are, they will focus all their attention on the table. When the food was served, it was also a good experience of Duke Protector's mansion's efforts in food.

This has to be said, since Si Xiu was often in the limelight in the kitchen, he was asked to go to Miss Li Yuanying's small kitchen before he officially became an apprentice. Those who work in the kitchen are envious.

With Si Xiu as a living example, the people in the kitchen of Duke Huguo’s Mansion, whether they are ordinary workers or chefs in charge of cooking, have regained their enthusiasm for work, and the dishes are also refurbished, just thinking about it. Like Si Xiu, he was favored by the masters in the mansion, and since then he has also reached the pinnacle of his life.

Today is such an important day, the chefs of the Duke of Huguo’s Mansion can be said to have brought out all their skills, and they just wanted to show it well, so after the food was eaten, the guests were all amazed by the delicious taste on their tongues Arrived, raving about the meals.

Of course, Si Xiu and his current subordinates have no chance to enjoy such an experience, but now Si Xiu can't care about the delicacies he sees, and his brain is still filled with the scene of Li Yuanying's ceremony.