Entertainment: A lovelorn song, singing and crying for everyone

Back at the residence, Lin Yu was heartbroken for the unlucky male lead while reading the script.

I went to work in a southern city, worked countless night shifts, and worked as a screwdriver for many years.They ate unnutritious meals and lived in shabby rental houses.

After working hard for many years, I finally got enough money for the bride price and got a wife.I thought I would live a happy married life from now on and reach the pinnacle of life.

Who knew that the three children his wife gave birth to him were not his own, so he had to raise them by himself.

It's poor that he has swallowed his anger for so many years, and he has come and gone in exchange for nothing, and even endless humiliation.

What did this man do wrong?To be treated so unfairly.

Trying to move bricks with both hands to make money, but can't embrace women; put down the bricks in your hands to embrace women, but have no money to support women.

And what about women?Talk about love with rich people, saying that they need company, and would rather not have a superior life.Money is nothing but possessions, love is the greatest.

Talk about making money with a man who has no money, how can you provide for me if you don’t have money, you can’t even afford the bag I want.My sisters all have bags, how do you want me to play with them?

You can't give me the life I want, we won't be happy, let's break up.

What else would a man do?
What is even more infuriating is that you may not be able to get a wife for hundreds of thousands of dollars, but you may spend hundreds of dollars somewhere to get it.

Why do men work so hard?Why does it have to be so difficult?
Women always say that men should understand women and be considerate of women, but who will be considerate of men?
Men also have times of depression, times of mental breakdown, and times of being overwhelmed and lost. What should we do at this time?

At this time, a song appeared in Lin Yu's mind. The title of the song was "it's not a sin for a man to cry".

Lin Yu couldn't help being taken aback for a moment, thinking that although the song appeared very fitting and appropriate.But Lin Yu has been taught for a long time that men shed blood but not tears. What the hell is it that it is not a crime for a man to cry?

When a man sheds tears, he is a sign of being worthless, incompetent, cowardly, incompetent, and irresponsible, so how can he cry casually?

With deep curiosity, Lin Yu closed his eyes, sat on the sofa in a comfortable posture, and listened to the song seriously.

First, there was a burst of tragic and majestic music, which made people know that it was a song about a sad man as soon as they heard the prelude.

At the end of the prelude, a magnetic male voice sang in Lin Yu's ear:

"When I was young, people around me told me not to shed tears."

There is a famous saying: "Women are made of water."

That is to say, it is reasonable to let a woman cry with this sentence.

Because women are made of water, it is normal to cry and shed tears.

When I was a child, a girl accidentally fell down and sat on the ground wiping her tears and crying, which made people feel distressed.Immediately, a group of relatives would rush up, surrounded by seven aunts and eight aunts, asking the girl if she was injured, where did the pain come from?

What's more, some relatives slapped the ground vigorously with their hands to show punishment.It's all its fault to use this to help the little girl vent her anger. It hurt our little princess.

But try it as a boy, and sit on the ground wiping tears and crying a few times.It is estimated that the kind old father will immediately lift his leg and kick his butt, and then say: "Boys are like a family, they cry when they fall, they are really useless."

Even if it is a gentle and considerate mother, she only helps the boy up when she walks over.While helping the boy wipe away tears, he educated: "Boys must be brave and strong, and they cannot cry casually like girls."

At this time, the old father on the side may add viciously: "Don't cry, if you cry again, I will hit you with a shoe."

When it was time to go to school, the female students were under a lot of pressure because of the heavy learning tasks and difficult knowledge points, and she wept while reciting the book.In the eyes of others, this is such an inspirational picture, so it was another burst of praise.

But when male students try the same method, it is estimated that in addition to saying that they are not promising, they will be scolded for their poor psychological endurance, and they cannot bear even a little pressure.

"When I mature, tell the mirror that I can't regret it."

After growing up and maturity, set foot on the job.

Women work hard in the workplace, encounter setbacks and grievances and shed tears, but what they get is soft comfort and affectionate care.

Even if the girl did something wrong, seeing the girl crying, I am afraid that as a leader, I am too embarrassed to continue scolding her.

He was also afraid that others would say to him: "You rubbish leader, you have made other girls cry, what else do you want? Do you have any sympathy?"

At this time, the leader may change from scolding girls for doing wrong things to coaxing girls.

"Don't cry, I scolded you because I wanted you to be careful not to make similar mistakes in the future."

Just like that, the smoke cleared and everything was fine.

Try the same situation as a man, and you will be scolded by the leader, and you will not save any face.

What?You let men try to cry? I advise you not to try this.

Otherwise, you will be scolded even more fiercely, with no prospects, no brains, no skills, poor psychological endurance, not suitable for our company's employment standards, and get out as soon as possible.

After marriage, the woman sheds tears because of household chores.

Immediately, a large number of virgins will jump out, scrambling to comfort.

"What's going on as a husband, is it your fault that she's crying, why don't you hurry up and coax her?"

"Come back when you have difficulties, Mom and Dad will always be your home."

"Speak out if you have any grievances, and your parents and your brother will decide for you."

"Son, is that brat bullying you again? I'll ask your brother to find him."

And what about men? ...

What?Do you want to try it too?I advise you to forget it, or you won't be able to meet people.

"Wandering in a certain range, my heart is constantly reincarnated on the lifeline, and I sleep with a mask on my face day and night, I am physically and mentally exhausted.

......"

However, the pressure of life, all kinds of setbacks and failures, are like a mountain pressing on the man.

There are also all kinds of negative factors such as indifference, rumors flying, and ridicule surrounding men.Even facing one's opponents, enemies, and those who want to murder him, he has to cover up his emotions and socialize with a mask-like smile.

However, men are also ordinary flesh and blood, they will be tired, and they will also feel exhausted.

Men also need a little psychological comfort and a little space for self-healing at this time.

This is why many men obviously go back to their own downstairs after get off work, but they don't go there immediately.I just wanted to stop downstairs and smoke a cigarette, and then I went home with a tired heart.

"The invisible pressure made me very tired, and I started to feel a little difficult to breathe, and slowly let go of my defenses, and slowly regretted and cried."

When metal is fatigued, it may fall apart when it is fatigued.

And the man is exhausted to the extreme, perhaps only by shedding tears can he vent his sadness.

Just like Li Shaobing, he became a seller of property to treat his seriously ill girlfriend, and he would not hesitate to change from a rich man to a poor man with nothing.

However, after his girlfriend recovered from her illness, she disliked him for having no money, so she abandoned him.

Who doesn't break down when encountering such a thing, who doesn't shed tears.

The man did not shed tears, but he did not go to the sad place.

"It's not a sin for a man to cry, cry, cry, no matter how strong a person is, he has the right to be tired. If there is only heartbreak behind a smile, why should he be so embarrassed."

That being the case, it's better to let go of all defenses, cry out loudly, and cry out all the unsatisfactory things in your heart.

Or get drunk, get a good night's sleep, and tomorrow is a new day.