Adorable baby is hard to pet, Daddy let go of my mommy

After Xing Lan saw that Qi Muyan and that uncle had gone out, the little girl asked Han Jingyu in a low voice: "Father, is that uncle... your rival in love?"

Han Jingyu originally wanted to promote their relationship with her daughter, but the little girl asked Xiao Nanming if she was a rival in love as soon as she came up.

This...can be seen?

"Do you think he is qualified to be my rival in love?" Han Jingyu felt that he was better than Xiao Nanming in everything, except that he had nothing to say about donating bone marrow to Xinglan, Han Jingyu really felt that Xiao Nanming was inferior to himself.

"That uncle looks handsome, and he seems to be quite gentle, maybe he's a qualified rival in love!" Xing Lan said seriously, "And since mom can bring him here, it means that the two of them have a good relationship. It's not impossible to develop from friends to lovers?"

Han Jingyu originally thought that her daughter was on her side, but she was speaking for Xiao Nanming at this moment.

"I'm handsome, but I'm gentle?" Han Jingyu really wanted Xinglan to recognize him, because it was better to have one more ally than one more enemy.

Xing Lan spread her hands, "If you were handsome and gentle, you wouldn't be able to catch up with my mother now. You must have gone to find my mother when you disappeared, but after such a long time, you still haven't caught up with her .So either my mom really doesn't like you anymore, or you're not attractive enough."

Han Jingyu didn't know what to say for a while.

The reason for not being able to catch up with Qi Muyan so far, he couldn't accept the two reasons Xing Lan said.

He couldn't accept the fact that Qi Muyan didn't like him anymore, nor could he accept the fact that he wasn't attractive enough.

Han Jingyu felt that it was too difficult for him.

"What about you, do you want me to be with your mother, or someone else to be with her?" Han Jingyu couldn't just watch her daughter stand in other people's team, could she?
There weren't many people who agreed with them being together, but the daughter didn't support it?
Xing Lan shrugged and said, "Dad, it's not that I want you to be with mom, or I want mom to be with someone else. It's whoever mom likes, and I support her being with whoever she is."

The little girl spoke clearly, and hoped that Han Jingyu would also understand this truth.

But sometimes, adults may not understand what a little girl understands.

Just like Xinglan thinks that it is most important for her mother to be with the person she likes, but Han Jingyu thinks that Qi Muyan must be with him.

Even after Qi Muyan said that he didn't believe him and didn't like his conversations, Han Jingyu still felt that it wasn't the right thing for them not to be together.

He touched Xinglan's head and said, "Your mother likes me, but she doesn't want to admit it now."

"Maybe mom doesn't like you anymore, but you just don't want to admit it."

Xinglan is really... quite poignant.

He also told the truth that Han Jingyu didn't want to admit.

"Even if she doesn't like me now, I will let her continue to like me." Han Jingyu seemed very confident.

Xinglan looked at Han Jingyu with encouraging eyes, and said, "Then, go for it!"

Xing Lan felt that it was fine for her father to be kind to her mother, after all, it was a process of pursuit.

Faced with her daughter's cheering, Han Jingyu seemed to have no choice but to accept it.

……

In the small living room outside the ward, Xiao Nanming gestured to Han Jingyu who was in the ward with his eyes, and asked, "You two...did the conversation just now?"

Qi Muyan shrugged slightly, and said in a low voice: "I don't know why he has such strong perseverance now, he might be in a hurry."

"Maybe... I really want to understand, I don't want to lose you." When Xiao Nanming said this, he kept paying attention to Qi Muyan's expression, really wanting to see something in her eyes.

but no.

It can be said to be calm.

"How do you say that sentence? It's impossible for a person to fall into the same river twice, and it's impossible for me to stumble over and over again." Qi Muyan said that she and Han Jingyu would never have any relationship in the future.

But she suddenly realized what was wrong, so she added, "I don't plan to fall in love in the future, I'm too tired. It's not easy for me to be alone with Xinglan, why bother to fall in love to make myself unhappy?" ?”

If you don't fall in love, there's nothing wrong with it.

This is the truth that Qi Muyan has comprehended over the years.

As for why he added that he didn't want to fall in love, it was because he didn't want Xiao Nanming to misunderstand anything.

Didn't Qi Jinghe say some specious things before, and Xiao Nanming came to Sijiu City twice, once for her and once to see Xinglan.

So Qi Muyan felt that Xiao Nanming's behavior might be trying to convey some kind of message...

She had previously told Lu Wushuang that she would not fall in love with someone younger than her, let alone her brother's good friend, so Qi Muyan felt even more strange.

In order not to give Xiao Nanming a chance to misunderstand, Qi Muyan felt that it would be more important to express her position now.

"Indeed, when you fall in love, everything happens." Xiao Nanming followed Qi Muyan's words, "But if you meet someone who can make your heart move again, it's okay, after all, you are still so young."

Qi Muyan shook her head, "A first love affair can kill you, why not have a second relationship? Wouldn't it be nice to live a good life?"

It seems that persuading Qi Muyan to meet better people in the future failed.

"It seems like you said that, I have to be cautious about falling in love."

"Of course I don't mean to encourage you not to fall in love. If you meet someone you like and also likes you, it's okay. Don't let my failed relationship affect your relationship outlook, as long as your parents are still together , I think you should believe that love is beautiful."

Qi Muyan is actually very surprised that some people see a certain couple breaking up, and they cry and say that they don't believe in love anymore.

In fact, Qi Muyan has always felt that it is really absurd to put the matter of whether or not she believes in love on people who don't understand.

She has always believed in the existence of love, like her parents, for more than 20 or 30 years, they still support each other, understand each other, and help each other.

And she also believed that in a certain period of time, she and Han Jingyu had a short-term love, but it came and went quickly.

"I've never been in a relationship, why should I discuss emotional matters with you?" Xiao Nanming couldn't figure it out.

Qi Muyan spread her hands, "Probably because I can provide you with some negative lessons from my failed marriage, so that you can avoid those things when you are with the person you like in the future."

"for example?"

Qi Muyan thinks about the failures in her relationship with Han Jingyu...

"For example, after you are with someone you like, you have to keep a safe distance from other women. Girls are very sensitive to the relationship between men and women."

"Is it okay to have good friends of the opposite sex?"

"See what kind of good friends you are, but if you have a girlfriend, you don't need to tell me, I will keep a distance from you." Qi Muyan thinks that this is what a normal friend of the opposite sex should do.

Xiao Nanming nodded clearly, "How about another example?"

Qi Muyan thought for a while about some problems in her relationship with Han Jingyu, but they were actually trivial matters, if they really talked about it, they would not be able to finish it for three days and three nights.

What she just mentioned is actually the most serious and the most unacceptable point for her.

"For another example, you have to remember your various anniversaries, her birthday. Remember what she likes to eat, what allergies she is allergic to, what flowers she likes... In short, there is nothing wrong with getting to know this person better." Qi Muyan said, what she said was actually Han Jingyu basically didn't take it to heart before.

It seems that she needs to remind Han Jingyu to show something.

Once or twice, you can think that Han Jingyu is a straight man and doesn't understand these things.

But after many times, Qi Muyan would think, maybe that man doesn't care about her, maybe that man doesn't like her.

……

Han Jingyu, who was in the ward at this time, actually heard the conversation between Xiao Nanming and Qi Muyan clearly, because the sound insulation of the ward was not very good, and the door of the ward was not closed.

Originally, Han Jingyu felt that Xiao Nanming was just instilling in Qi Muyan that she wanted to fall in love, and that the next one she met would be better.

The subtext of these words is that he, Xiao Nanming, is Qi Muyan's next better candidate, let her take a look at him quickly!
But fortunately, Qi Muyan obliquely rejected Xiao Nanming.

But after listening to it again, Han Jingyu felt that there was a problem.

On the surface, Qi Muyan was giving Xiao Nanming advice on dating, so that he can avoid those pitfalls when dating in the future.

But after listening carefully, Qi Muyan's words seemed to be complaining about what he did not do well back then.

It's not bad, it's very bad.

Even if he is with Qi Muyan, he still has unexplainable relationships with other women.

Can't remember the anniversary, don't send gifts or flowers, can't remember what she likes to eat, what allergies she is allergic to...

From Qi Muyan's words, Han Jingyu felt that he was really not a qualified boyfriend.

However, Qi Muyan didn't give him a chance to change together.

Yes, the trust between them has indeed collapsed, but even if the trust collapses, isn't it possible to rebuild it?

Qi Muyan didn't give him any chance to rebuild trust.

Han Jingyu felt a headache.

On the contrary, Xiao Xinglan also listened to the conversation outside, and then asked Han Jingyu in a low voice: "Father, do you know what mother likes to eat, what kind of allergies she is allergic to, and what kind of flowers do she like? When is her birthday?"

"Birthday is July 31, I like to eat..." Han Jingyu remembered Qi Muyan's birthday, but he didn't seem to remember what he liked to eat.

Xing Lan shook her head, and began to answer questions with Han Jingyu, "My mother likes to eat sweets, because she thinks that eating sweets can relieve fatigue and bad mood. She doesn't like sour foods, and she can't accept them at all. She is allergic to peanuts , she can't eat any food with peanuts in it. Also, her favorite flower is baby's breath."

The little girl speaks clearly and clearly, telling Qi Muyan's likes and dislikes.

Finally, the little girl asked: "You don't know all of this?"

Han Jingyu was left speechless by the little girl's question.

"Heh, it's no wonder you can't catch up with mom anymore. You don't even know about these things, and you still say you like my mom. You're really not sincere at all!" Xing Lan originally wanted to help her father speak well in front of her mother.

But seeing that his father didn't understand his mother so well, Xing Lan gave up.

"You can figure it out, I won't help you anymore." Xing Lan shook her head, now she finally understood why her mother didn't accept her father.

And Han Jingyu was powerless to fight back what Xinglan said.

For a moment, he himself felt as if he didn't like Qi Muyan at all, and didn't care about her at all.