Dressed as the ex-wife of a high-cold boss

Li Yue especially liked listening to Shen Zheng talk.

Shen is the one who can serve as a role model for his parents.

He respects children's ideas and encourages them to pursue their dreams and try.

Unlike other parents who only suppress and oppose their children.

Even if they have no experience and dabble in a certain field, they can't stop them from giving guidance at will.

Especially after the child starts working, all kinds of things hold the child back.

They will never learn, shut up, and always use their parental status to overwhelm their children.

If the child does not accept their opinions, they feel that the child is not filial.

Or just treat the child with a bowl of water that is not level, causing one of the two children to have an obvious imbalance in his heart.

These are the reasons that make children farther and farther away from their parents.

And those parents never reflect on their behavior and always feel that they are right.

Shen Zheng is completely different.

He has broadened his horizons, and his career has been very successful.

Even if his legs are not good, it doesn't affect his attitude towards things.

Shen Zheng saw that the two children were looking at him, and said with a smile: "I used to run around outside, and I saw a little more things than you for a while. So I still have a little right to speak.

Now fewer and fewer people are willing to enter into marriage, and more and more people are willing to leave marriage.

A large part of the reason is that society is developing too fast, and our marriage model is still 100 years ago.

Other aspects of our society are developing rapidly, trying to keep up with the times, except for the concept of marriage.

It has been stubborn and guarded by a group of people.

On the other hand, the level of education of women is getting higher and higher, and they are unwilling to continue to enter the old marriage system.

As for marriage, from many perspectives, women generally pay much more in marriage and have to bear more.

I have to take care of the trivialities of life and my career, and if I do something wrong, I will be blamed by everyone immediately.

But not too many people blame men, the overall meaning is always biased towards blaming women.

You can feel this when you look at history. Many beauties in roles are responsible for various emperors.

In the era of top patriarchy, women's abilities are limited, and their power is even more limited. It is impossible for them to shake a dynasty?
It's just an excuse for men to fail.

We are in an era of peace, without war, the family has become a new battlefield.

Many men make a mess of the family and constantly blame the family members. "

Li Yue listened with gusto, "Uncle Shen, if it were you, would you support your child not to get married?"

"If it's Xiaoyi's own choice, of course I will support her, and while supporting her, I will try my best to help her prepare for the future.

There is nothing wrong with not getting married, and there is nothing wrong with not having children.

This is everyone's free choice.

Look at me and Xiaoyi's mother, she left so early, I'm the only one left.

The companionship between husband and wife can't be with the end, and people must be lonely in the end.

After Xiaoyi gets married and has her own family and children, no matter how much she wants to take care of me, she will ignore it.

At that time, I will also face the pain and loneliness of aging alone.

This is something that human beings have to face.

Not having a partner, having children can avoid it.

If you haven’t met someone you like in your life for the time being, and you still feel resistant to being with him, just calm down temporarily, don’t have to get married or have children just because you reach a certain age, nothing is necessary .

Except for the necessary substances to sustain one's own life, everything else is fake.

What I said is not to make you lie flat all day long and stop thinking about falling in love and getting married.

Opportunities still need to be fought for, and it is best to try to confess when you meet someone who is interested.

In the process of falling in love, it is easiest to improve EQ. Even if the love relationship fails, the improvement of EQ is not without gain.Are you right? "

"Uncle Shen, you are so right." Zhang Yun came over to listen at some point.

Shen Zheng smiled and said: "The truth is this, the important thing is practice. Don't cover yourself tightly for fear of getting hurt, and don't try anything."

Li Yue was very emotional, "Uncle Shen, what you said really helped me gain a lot. I don't know whether it was the influence of others or the Internet in the past two years. Not high, every time I see all kinds of underworld news, I feel that it means to persuade me not to get married.

Or I read all kinds of legal aid stories and feel that marriage is terrible, and so are men.

I intellectually believe that there are many very good and very good men in the world, but those real examples also scare me.

In the past, I was quite active in dating, and when I saw a handsome guy I was attracted to, I immediately confessed to him, but now I think of all kinds of weird and hellish news within two seconds after seeing a handsome guy who is attracted to me, and I dare not talk about it. "

"These are a minority after all, it's just that the information age presents all this information in front of you, making you feel that this era is getting more and more terrifying.

In fact, it is not. This era has very important advantages in this era.

In this era, the quality of many people is even better than before, and their affordability is also better than before.

Education is to make the whole better, not to make the whole era worse.

There have been extreme examples both in the past and now, and there will be no shortage of them in the future.

You can think of marriages and divorces as the ratio of people who drive to people who get into accidents.

A car accident is terrible, right?
Either death or injury, an accident is a matter of several families.

But why are many people not afraid of driving, and why do a lot of people buy it one after another?

Because it is not inevitable.

Just drive carefully and manage your marriage carefully.

You can't imprison your own life because of other people's bad experiences.

People only live for a few short decades, and at most only 50 years are completely controlled by themselves, so there is no need to live so tremblingly. "

Shen Zheng felt that he was giving these children poisonous chicken soup.

But there are still some things that need to be said and comforted.

Anyone who is barren and barren has also had a dream of having a happy family, but the dream was broken.

He supports them to take such a lonely road.

At the same time, I also want to see them get married and have children, and walk a road to a fulfilling life.

Huo Linyue listened to their chat while driving.

Shen Zheng is the legendary elder, knowledgeable, well-spoken, and broad-minded enough to be friends with such a person is already a blessing.

It is a great thing to have such a person as a father-in-law.

Huo Linyue's cell phone rang, and he answered it with a bluetooth earbud.

"Hey."

Huo tingheng: "where is it?"

"Driving outside, what's wrong?"

"Hurry up and get back to me!"

"If you can't go back now, it will be night at the latest."

"Your wings are stiff, and you still dare to talk back!"

"Aren't my wings always this stiff? You just met me today?"

"Don't talk about these things, let me deal with the messy things outside of you quickly. Don't let me take the last trace of your face off."

Huo Linyue saw his anger growing, and hung up the phone directly.

Shen Yi's father, whom he envied just now, immediately gave him a realistic version of his own father.

The contrast was too great for him to accept.