Rebirth and Raising a Baby

"If you don't want to live with him, then divorce, the child is gone, just in time you can find another job!"

"If you still think about it, it's the same. Start looking for a job again, and you both have to look for it."

Lin Ling spoke more practically.

Having a job is especially important these days.

Especially a good job.

Can play a role in changing the marriage.

Lin Meichan and her husband lost their jobs because of the superbirth, but now that the children are gone, it is also in line with the regulations to find another job.

The point is, this lost child still has the relationship between the two of them. I'm afraid it won't pass so quickly.

Lin Meichan sighed heavily.

"To be honest, I don't know what I'm thinking right now."

She's out of her mind.

Angry, angry that her husband made her pregnant maliciously, but to a certain extent, she understood her husband's uneasiness, and even blamed herself, whether she was busy with work and failed to take good care of the family, which made her husband have such thoughts.

Lin Ling frowned when she heard her words.

In any case, it is not acceptable to puncture the condom and get your wife pregnant to achieve your own goals.

Lin Meichan, on the other hand, blamed herself for this incident. Although she was the victim, she wanted to show consideration for the perpetrator instead.

"If you can't figure it out, go back to your mother's house for a while and calm down with each other."

Time is the best antidote.

Let the two of them think slowly.

If you don't have children, leave and leave.

But with kids, it's not that simple.

What Lin Ling wanted to express was definitely not the kind of shabby reasons such as "we are all together for the sake of the children" and "we are all for the children to have a complete family".

Yes, the state of the parent affects the child.

When the parents are separated, whether they follow the father or the mother, the children are destined to reduce the company of the other party in the future.

If the parents remarry in the future and have more relatives, the children will have to adapt to the new environment and new family.

Even the society has some strange views on single-parent families.

But what Lin Ling wants to express is that he needs to think clearly, and make decisions after making sure that he can face these problems.

If the couple does not separate, then Zhuang Zhuang can grow up under the arms of his parents without so many twists and turns.

But if Lin Meichan is determined to separate, as long as she takes good care of Zhuang Zhuang, cares about the child's mentality and health, and provides a good environment, that's okay!

The life of a child is life, and the life of parents is also life. Even if they become parents, they have the right to choose the life they want.

Lin Meichan held her hand with a grateful expression, "Lin Ling, I'm really glad to have met you!"

She could only talk to Lin Ling about this kind of thing.

If others knew that something like this happened to her, the secretary of the Women's Federation, how could she have the face to stay in the county town!

"It's okay, we're good friends!"

Lin Ling patted her arm.

"By the way, your current physical condition is not suitable for running around, at least half a month's confinement."

Seeing her pale face, Lin Ling felt a little angry with Zhuang Zhuang's father.

It's okay to calculate that Lin Meichan is pregnant. If she can conceive again at this age, she will lose her job. She didn't take good care of Lin Meichan's belly. Now that the child is gone, the relationship between the couple is broken, and the whole business is losing money.

Speaking of this, Lin Meichan smiled awkwardly, "My mother-in-law always said that when she gave birth to my man, she went to work in the fields on the same day, and she didn't pay much attention to it, and I thought I was in good health."

So she just lay in bed and rested for a few days, and she had no scruples in the following days.

Lin Ling looked at her with the eyes of a fool.

"Are you stupid? That's your mother-in-law, not your own mother, and you can actually believe it?"

"Ah?" Lin Meichan was puzzled, "But my mother-in-law is quite nice, she also said that if she becomes pregnant, she will give birth, at worst she will help me carry it."

Lin Ling curled her lips, "Cut, you asked her to help you take care of Zhuangzhuang before, but it didn't go anywhere."

When she was in the county, Zhuang Zhuang's noon meal was all handled by her!
If Lin Meichan's mother-in-law was really that good, she wouldn't have never seen her until now.

Not to mention anything else, since Lin Ling treated Lin Meichan so well and took care of Zhuang Zhuang for so long, at least she should come to say thank you, right?

Lin Ling shook her head and stopped thinking about it.

Maybe she misunderstood it?

"I will consider your proposal. I really want to escape from here recently." Lin Meichan smiled bitterly.

Her ambitions, her expectations, her full expectations, all became like a joke.

This made her unwilling to go out, let alone see people she knew in the past. She always felt that those people were smiling on their faces, but they were actually laughing at her behind their backs. She almost shed tears in front of people several times.

The stubborn Lin Meichan is naturally unwilling to show weakness, so she can only see few people.

She locked herself at home for two full months.

If it wasn't for Lin Ling's family having a happy event this time, she probably wouldn't even come out.

"Think about it," Lin Ling grabbed her hand, "If you keep the green hills, you won't be afraid of running out of firewood."

"Take good care of your body, maybe in a different environment, your mood will be different."

Lin Ling felt that Lin Meichan was thinking too much right now, but she was acting on tiptoe, with too many scruples, and nowhere to vent her emotions.

If this continues, sooner or later, he will go crazy.

"I'll listen to you!"

Lin Meichan sniffed, and at some point, tears were streaming down her face.

Send Lin Meichan away.

Everyone in the house gathered around.

"Sister Lin Ling, what's the situation with that eldest sister?"

Lin Junze asked curiously.

"Children don't care about adults' affairs." Lin Ling glanced at him, he was so grown up, and his face was greasy.

Lin Junze puffed up his face, "I'm not a child anymore, my father has already said that he will start arranging blind dates for me next year, and if there is a suitable partner, I can get married by the end of next year."

"So fast? How old are you?"

Lin Ling was really surprised.

Junshou is only 20 years old this year, Junze.

If it was said that Junshou was the one to get married next year, she would not be so surprised. After all, Lin Junshou already had a partner, and she was short of convincing the future father-in-law to marry the girl to him.

But Junze, he himself is still a child, and he doesn't say anything about his partner, yet he even started to think about getting married?
Could it be that she is out?
Speaking of this, Lin Ling couldn't help but become concerned.

"Jun Shou, how is your talk with your partner?"

Lin Junshou was stunned at first, then looked at the people around him, well, they are all from his own family, and there seems to be nothing to hide.

But his face turned red in spite of himself.

"Well, at Teacher Song's house, my uncles and aunts are very kind to me. They just ask me to work harder, and I'm worried about whether my job will last for a long time."

"Didn't you say when you will get married?" Lin Chunhua couldn't help interjecting.

The old lady Xu on the side also watched expectantly.

Surrounded by the whole family, Lin Junshou lost his breath and stammered: "I said, Uncle Song said that he would stay for another two years. Aunt Song is very happy. She asked me last time where I will live in the future." , I didn't know what to say at the time, so I was stunned."

Although he really wanted to be with Mr. Song, he also thought about getting married.

But where to live after marriage, he has never thought about this question.

Lin Chunhua was so angry that she slapped him on the head, cursing: "You silly boy, Mr. Song's mother asked this question, didn't she just agree with the two of you, and you didn't answer! Is this plausible?"

Lin Junshou avoided being beaten by two female elders.

"Auntie, I was wrong!"

"I really don't know, and I didn't expect Auntie to mean that."

"I thought at the time that I had to discuss it with Teacher Song, but I didn't have to take care of it, and it wouldn't be on topic if I talked about it later."

Lin Junshou held his head, quite aggrieved.

"Then you have discussed the answer now?" Lin Ling raised her eyebrows.

Lin Junshou glanced at the other two women tentatively, and then said: "Ms. Song doesn't know either, she just said that if you get married, you can live closer to the school, and then you have to go home every week one trip."

"Go back every week?" Lin Chunhua frowned, isn't the relationship with her natal family too close?
"This thing is totally fine!"

Lin Ling didn't think there was anything wrong.

Those young people in the later generations will find opportunities to go out for a good meal, a big meal or something, when they are on weekends and weekends every week. It is reasonable to go back to their mother's house for a meal instead.

"Really?"

Lin Junshou has no experience, but the two young men discussed it, and when Lin Ling said yes, they felt affirmed, and they were very happy.

"Lin Ling!"

Lin Chunhua raised her voice, her eyes disapproving.

If it was Lin Ling, of course she would have no objection.

After all, Lin Ling is his niece, and the two have the same natal family, and the Lin family is very good, there are back and forth between the two sides, and they have always been in harmony.

But if Lin Junshou wants to accompany his daughter-in-law back to her natal home in the future, she will not be very happy.

Teacher Song's natal family was originally higher than the Lin family's, and the two really got married, so I don't know what gossip will be waiting for them.

They are all married, and they still have to go back to their mother's house every week. Do you think you are a baby who has not been weaned?How can others say Junshou?
"Mother, Teacher Song's house is not far away. It only takes half an hour to go back on weekends. It doesn't take much trouble."

"Besides, there is no mother-in-law watching over Junshou's family, and he is two brothers living in the county town. He must have a good relationship with Yue's family, right? So that we can help each other in the future." Lin Ling spoke the truth.

Lin Chunhua's frown was gradually loosened.

"You're right!"

"I just don't feel well, which makes me like my son-in-law."

"Mother, just relax. Mr. Song's family are all intellectuals, and they won't suffer if they have a good relationship. If Junshou accompanied his wife home every week, people would say that he loves her, what else can he say?" Does it sound good?" In fact, Lin Ling thinks that Lin Junshou has made money!
Mr. Song is such a good target, if Junshou didn't strike early, and the young man is good-looking, he probably wouldn't be able to turn to him.

"Auntie, I think sister Lin Ling is right!" Lin Junshou muttered in a low voice.

"Okay, okay, I don't care about you young people!"

Lin Chunhua said she was letting go, but in fact she was persuaded by Lin Ling in her heart.

I didn't see that Chu Yi was so kind to Lin Ling, everyone just said that he loved his wife, and some people secretly asked about her Xiaozhi's situation.

After all, the brothers above are all very good to their daughter-in-law, and the whole family is promising, which is a good condition in the village.

"Hey, next time I go to Teacher Song's house, I'll tell my mother-in-law that!" Lin Junshou rubbed his hands expectantly, feeling that he would be able to hug Teacher Song back soon.

"Jun Shou, I suggest you, when facing your future father-in-law and mother-in-law, just say what you have and be honest!" Lin Ling suggested sincerely.

I don't know if it's because the two young men are the youngest among the group of cousins, they don't have much thought, so they can only take the naive and straightforward way.

"Sister Lin Ling, what you said, I dare not lie in front of my uncle and aunt!" Lin Junshou was still a little unhappy when he heard that.

He really wanted to be with Mr. Song, how could he lie and deceive people!
Lin Ling: "Yeah, that's pretty good!"

Later, Lin Chunhua and Mrs. Xu went to the lounge to have a private conversation.

Lin Ling ushered in a new guest.

Wang Jianjie and Lin Yin.

After primary school, Wang Jianjie came to pick up Wang Shiya after get off work.

By the way, bring over the gift for Xiaobao.

It was a joy to meet the children again, chattering in the store, almost breaking the ceiling.

"Da Bao and Er Bao, Xiao Bao is so cute~"

"I really want a younger sister too~" Yuanyuan clenched her fists with envy, "I'll tell my father when I get back and ask him to give me a younger sister!"

"I want a sister!" Shi Ya's tone was a little sad, "If you are older than me, you can take me to play, my brother can't play with me now!"

"Xiao Bao is my sister, and of course your sister too!" Er Bao said proudly.He said so, but he understood in his heart that Xiaobao is his and his brother's sister, and no one else can take her away!
After speaking, he was ready to receive the gift.

"Shiya, everyone gave Xiaobao gifts today, are you ready?"

Wang Shiya was slightly taken aback, "Of course, it's in my schoolbag."

Soon, she took out a music box from her schoolbag and said, "My grandfather asked someone to buy this for me from the Shanghai stock market. It looks good and can play songs."

"That's good, where can Little Treasure listen to music!" Er Treasure nodded in satisfaction.

This gift is expensive and real, good stuff!
"What about you, Yuanyuan?"

Er Bao stretched out his little hand.

Yuanyuan grabbed her schoolbag, "But I want to give it to Xiaobao, not you."

"I'm Xiaobao's older brother, can I still steal her things?" Erbao put his arms around his hips, unhappy.

"No, no, me." Yuanyuan quickly apologized, looked to the side, but found that Xiaobao had fallen asleep, and could only take out the gift she had prepared with infinite regret.

It's a remote control car.

"My father's good brother gave it to me. I like it very much, so I gave it to Xiaobao's sister to play with." Yuanyuan emphasized.

Erbao is very satisfied.

Although I feel in my heart that this toy should be played by myself, how can Xiaobao play with it?It's a pity that Yuanyuan agreed, he must be a good brother and not steal gifts from his sister.

"You two have a heart!"

Er Bao nodded his thanks seriously.

Dabao was at the side, looking at this scene quite familiarly.

At today's banquet, that's what Second Uncle seemed to say to the gift giver?

"Dabao and Erbao, how are you doing in Pengcheng?"

"I haven't seen you for a long time, it's been so many autumns!"

The little friends expressed their miss in a voice.

Dabao doesn't care, he thinks it's the same wherever he goes to school, as long as his younger brother is with him.