Reborn 1980 Life Winner

It can be said that Pan Xindi has lived a very transparent life, and she does not plan to remarry. She will focus on her career and raise her two daughters in the future.

Yun Shan suggested that she change the two daughters back to her own surname, so as to save her ex-husband from coming to snatch the child in the future.

Many men are obsessed with that surname, even if it is his own child, but if it does not bear his surname, he will not raise it, nor will he snatch it.

Pan Xindi nodded, "My ex-son wrote a letter to my family. I heard from my father that my ex-husband found a widow with a son. The widow gave birth to another son for him. He heard that there was something wrong with this son. He asked me where I was. If you work in the city, you want to ask me for money."

Yun Shan raised her eyebrows, "He has such a big face, what right does he have to ask you for money?"

Pan Xindi felt that her previous self was really blurred with eye feces, and she wanted to give him a third child to have a son. If the child was not gone, she would have to live with such a person for the rest of her life. Only after she came out did she realize that such a person should never be born again. He doesn't treat women as human beings. "He thinks that I took his two daughters away. The children should not belong to me, but to him. If I want to take them away, I should give him money."

After getting rid of this man, Yun Shan really opened her eyes, "You gave birth to the child and you brought it up. After a few moments of fun, he felt that the child belonged to him. He really didn't want face. He gave some money as a betrothal gift." Huh? It feels like you were bought out of your life as a slave when you married into his family, right?"

Pan Xindi had a sarcastic expression on her face, "The dowry is worth 30 yuan. The money I earned from working in his production team was paid back to him. There are several 30 yuan."

"Shanshan, don't worry, I will change the surnames of Lili and the other sisters. I figured it out. I gave birth to the child, brought it up, and raised it. Why not have my surname. He wants to use this surname to In the future, I will come to the door to ask my children to take care of me, dreaming."

Yun Shan was very pleased to see her like this, and told her, "Children don't necessarily need a father to grow up. Like Lili's father, he only instills in them the idea that women are inferior to men, oppresses, belittles, dislikes, and enslaves them." , even beating and scolding, even without him, it would be the same in the big environment of the village, which only requires women to sacrifice and dedicate. Girls who grow up there rarely have self-confidence, and they will not learn to love themselves. You should also You don't want the two daughters to be like this, do you?"

Pan Xindi looked moved, "Shanshan, if it weren't for you and the fourth aunt, we mother and daughter are still in the village. Even if I escaped from my ex-husband, I would not be able to escape from remarrying again. My mother's family can't tolerate me divorced, so I will definitely find you again." Man, finding another one may not necessarily be better than the previous one."

Yun Shan said: "Even if it's better than the previous one, it's still hard work and grievances. I have to serve my parents-in-law, I have to deal with the seventh aunt and eight aunts, I have to take care of the children, I have to work in the fields, and I have to cook and wash clothes when I come back. I want you to serve, it’s over, if you don’t do well enough, don’t care enough for the children, don’t care enough for the elderly, just wait for the village’s spittle to drown you.”

Pan Xindi nodded, "That's true. In the village, you can't be lazy or sleep late. The mother-in-law will scold you, and the villagers will gossip. Now the store opens at nine o'clock, and I can sleep until seven o'clock. In the past, in my hometown, I had to get up at five o'clock. When you wake up, you have to boil water and pig food, feed chickens and pigs, make breakfast for the whole family, go to work in the field after breakfast, and do laundry, do some sewing, and take care of the children when you are busy at night. Sleeping, and then having to wait on men. I couldn't have imagined this day before."

Yun Shan smiled and said: "Yes, everything you do now is valuable. If you want to go to bed later, you can sleep later. It doesn't matter if you wake up at [-] o'clock. When you are on vacation, you can sleep all day without anyone talking about you, no one enslaves you, no one Insult your personality, belittle you. A man scolds you to get out, but you dare not get out. When a man hits you, others persuade you to endure it, and you can’t ask for compensation. If a stranger beats someone, you can ask for compensation and report to the police. "

"No need to wait on men, and you will stay away from most gynecological diseases. Women generally live longer than men. After old age, most women take care of sick men, and they have to die for men."

Pan Xindi's expression became more determined, "I remember Shanshan, I won't find another man, I don't have that life."

Yun Shan said: "It doesn't matter whether you find a man or not, as long as you don't get married and guard your property. If you really want to fall in love, then just fall in love. Make it clear to others that you will fall in love and not get married."

Pan Xindi shook her head, "There is no one who just falls in love and doesn't get married. Isn't this a hooligan? I am not a young girl, I don't need these, I am very satisfied with my current life, Shanshan is not afraid of your jokes, sometimes I wake up laughing in my dreams , I don’t even know how much good luck I accumulated in my previous life to become Si Gu’s niece, and then I met you.”

Yun Shan admired her transparent appearance, "That's also the result of your own hard work. If you didn't have this comprehension back then, or were a little lazy, I should have replaced you."

Pan Xindi hurriedly said: "I know Shanshan, you should take care of me. After the next year, I think I can open another branch. I have visited it in the customs area. It is close to T City, and the traffic is quite large. .”

Yun Shan nodded, "It's no problem, you just take responsibility."

Pan Xindi was very happy and said to make a budget for her when the time comes.

Yun Shan said yes, and then asked her again if she wanted to go to the island with her.

Pan Xindi said no, and took the children for a walk here. It has been two years since she came here, and she hasn't taken the children to the Great Wall.And after the new year, she still wanted to go back to her hometown, move out her household registration, and change the surnames of her two daughters by the way.

Yun Shan naturally wouldn't force it, and knew that she didn't want to disturb her family.

"It's good to take more children out for a walk, it can broaden their horizons, and our daughters must also be cultivated to be confident, brave and assertive."

Pan Xindi smiled and said, "Since they came out, the two children have indeed become more cheerful and confident."

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Lin Haijing finally bought a plane ticket, but she didn't plan to take care of the child, the child was too young, and she had to watch him. If she had to watch the child when she went to the island, she might as well watch it at home.

She wanted to ask her husband Bai Yang to go with her, but he went back to his hometown to spend the New Year with his parents. A few days ago they had a quarrel over where to celebrate the New Year.

Mother He Ying helped take care of the child. She packed up a few sets of clothes and set off with Yun Shan and the others.

Before leaving, she called her friends one by one, asking if she wanted to bring them local specialties when she went on a trip. On the surface, it was to show her sisterhood, but in fact it was to show off.

The call was made at her parents' house. She and Bai Yang's house didn't have a phone, and they bought the house with their parents' money. The renovations were saved by themselves, and they had no money left.It costs thousands of dollars to install a phone, and there is no need for it. They are not politicians or businessmen, and they must have a phone at home.

When making the phone call, the voice was so loud that Zhang Qingchu, who was in the room, could hear it clearly.