Reborn 1980 Life Winner

Lin Haijing was stunned again, she thought Yun Shan was talking nonsense, but after listening again, it seemed to make sense.

But he still said: "You are also lucky to meet my second brother, he doesn't care about this, if it were someone else, he would definitely not let you like this."

Yun Shan asked strangely: "Then why did I find such a person? If it wasn't such a person, I would just change it. There are so many men, why do I have to hang myself on a tree?"

Lin Haijing was taken aback again, she glanced at Lin Suian in the distance, and said to Yun Shan, "Aren't you afraid that my second brother will hear it?"

Yun Shan clicked her tongue, "So what, I'm not wrong. And didn't he do it? What are you afraid of?"

Ge Ling next to her couldn't help but also interjected, "You are right, Yunshan. From now on, I will look for men according to this standard. If you ask me to serve my in-laws and do all the housework as a virtuous woman, then get out."

Yun Shan nodded, "That's right, love yourself first and then love others."

Lin Haijing glanced at Ge Ling and said, "Then you can only find a poor man, and a poor man should agree to it for the sake of climbing high."

Yun Shan said: "Don't look for someone who is too different from you, especially someone who is too poor and unmotivated. As you know, men's self-esteem has always been stronger than our women's, especially in our family where there are so many patriarchal families. If he finds someone who is poorer than himself, his self-esteem will not be able to bear it, and then he will belittle you and suppress you, and even domestically abuse you, just to tame you and get back his poor self-esteem."

"Also, he treats you well, maybe it's for the sake of money. The more he keeps low, the more he holds back his energy. When he locks you up, he will repay the hatred twice."

"The last one is, if the conditions are too different from his own, he will not let you go, because if you let go, it will be difficult for him to find another person with good conditions like you. Even if you wake up, this person is not you A good match, if they break up or divorce, he may go to extremes."

Ge Ling and Lin Haijing were both stunned.

Yun Shan actually told Ge Ling that she didn't know what she went through when she came home this time, but if you have time to talk to her, it's good not to focus your life on emotional men and focus on yourself.

Lin Haijing retorted subconsciously, "It can't be, many big leaders are from poor people."

Yun Shan said: "Not absolutely, but what I said is the majority. Also, you said a lot, but not that much, and their spouses are not girls from rich families. On the contrary, seeing many people, Let's rely on Yue's family to get up first, and change wives later."

Lin Haijing bit her lips, "Then when you married my second brother, he hadn't returned to the Lin family. He was also a poor man. Now that he has returned to the Lin family, he didn't change you."

Yun Shan: "When he married me, he was already at the battalion level, and his salary was three times that of mine. Our family is not rich, but just ordinary workers. Besides, I disregarded my own interests before I got married. It shouldn't be I didn’t give up a single point. He changed me, and I didn’t lose anything, I still have a career, studies, and children, and the children still have my last name.”

Of course, Yun Shan is not that confident, and their relationship will not change in the future, but she will not hurt herself for a man.

Lin Haijing didn't speak for a while.

Ge Ling glanced at her, "Well, you couldn't be talking about someone with bad conditions, right?"

Lin Haijing reacted fiercely, "What are you talking about? Who would look for such a thing?"

This time Yun Shan couldn't help but glance at her, her reaction was a little too big, could it be that Ge Ling really hit the spot?
Ge Ling pulled him to sit down, "Don't get excited, it's not right, I don't think you would be so stupid to find someone with bad conditions, even if Yunshan didn't tell me, I would know that many in-laws in such a family are uneducated , and relatives, I don't know how difficult it is. No matter how good this man's own conditions are, he can't have it."

Lin Haijing pursed her lips tightly, and said after a while: "The family's conditions are not good, and they won't be bad conditions forever. You are too contemptuous of people."

Ge Ling said: "Then wait for him to find a wife when the conditions are good. If the conditions are not good, don't you feel that you are indebted to your wife? Don't you want to give her the best if you really like someone? And a bright future? "

Yun Shan gave Ge Ling a complimenting look.

Lin Haijing concluded, "Then, when his conditions are good, the wife will belong to someone else."

"It can only be said that they have no fate."

"You really, really look down on people." Lin Haijing was a little aggrieved.

Ge Ling shrugged, "Everyone's opinions are just different, don't curse people."

Lin Haijing sat on the other side, refusing to stay with them any longer.

Ge Ling whispered to Yun Shan, "This person probably found a poor man."

Yun Shan also felt a little similar, but she couldn't control so much, if she couldn't grasp the speed, Lin Haijing would hate herself to death.

Ge Ling couldn't say anything.

Yun Shan asked her if she had encountered anything when she went back this time, and why she came back so soon.

Ge Ling didn't hide it from her either, "When I went back, I quarreled without saying a word, and within two days, I got a man to come to my house and said to go on a blind date with me, making me look like trash that no one wants."

Yun Shan was shocked, "It's too outrageous, did you run out?"

"Yes, I ran out to live in the guest house. I was so pissed off. I came back as soon as I saw the ticket."

Yun Shan comforted her, "It's good to get rid of it. Wherever you are, that's your home. Sometimes relatives also talk about fate."

"Shanshan, I also saved a lot of money, do you think I should buy a house in the capital?"

Yun Shan asked, "Then what are your plans for the future? Do you settle down here in the capital? Do you have any plans for work? Do you want to continue studying?"

Ge Ling thought for a while, "It should be. I don't know where to go. I'm quite satisfied with my job. If I want to study, I'll just learn English."

Yunshan said: "If you have enough funds, you can come out and do it yourself. There is no problem on my side."

Ge Ling hurriedly said: "No, I can't do this. By the way, Shanshan, there is something I want to tell you. Well, isn't there a remedial class near our place? I saw some English teachers, I I want to learn." Although her English has improved during this time, and she can have simple conversations with foreign friends, she can speak but can't write, and it's hard to bother Yun Shan when she comes back at night.

Yun Shan told her, "It was opened by Su Ze, do you know?" Ge Ling was stunned for a moment, "Forget it."

Yun Shan told her: "It seems that they don't teach adults there. They are targeted tutoring for junior high school and high school. It's not suitable for you to go."

Ge Ling nodded, "Forget it."