She is secretly married to Dr. Lu

The so-called upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked. To educate children, we must start from the mother!

"Er Mian, did you come in to see me for something?" Jiang Mi sat on the bed, looking at her with pretended doubts.

Shen Jiamian pursed her lips, although she had already agreed with Lu Heng that she would apologize when she came over, but now that she was really in front of Jiang Mi, she felt that she couldn't speak anymore!
Jiang Mi watched her hesitate to speak, and sighed helplessly: "Did Lu Heng ask you to apologize to me?"

Shen Jiamian looked up at her, and after a while, she nodded embarrassedly.

"In other words, you didn't want to come, did you?"

Shen Jiamian: "..."

Jiang Mi waved at her. "Er Mian, come here."

Shen Jiamian lowered her head, and moved to Jiang Mi step by step.

Jiang Mi reached out and pulled her to sit beside him. "You look up into my eyes."

Shen Jiamian did as she did, staring at her with big eyes and blinking.

"Er Mian, tell me first, do you think you were wrong about what happened just now?"

Shen Jiamian pouted, in fact, she still felt that she was right, but she came here to apologize, she just didn't want Jiangmi to be sad.

"Sister, I don't want to make you sad."

Jiang Mi sighed helplessly. "You don't want to make me sad, but your behavior just now really made me very sad. I always think that Er Mian is the most sensible and reasonable, but your behavior just now is wrong."

Shen Jiamian was a little unconvinced: "But sister, you made me angry first."

"My sister was joking with you." Jiangmi looked at her and said very seriously: "I think we are the closest sisters, so I deliberately teased you, but you just got angry and hugged Tangtang and left, then Think about it, how did my sister react at that time?"

Shen Jiamian lowered her head and did not speak.

Jiang Mi continued: "You are Tangtang's mother, so you care about Tangtang, this sister can understand.

But sometimes you have to pay a little attention to your emotional management.You are a mother, if you are always really angry because others say something you don't like, then when Tangtang grows up, he will follow suit and become like you, crying and making noise at every turn, wanting everyone I'm coaxing you, so you think it's okay? "

Shen Jiamian looked at her incomprehensibly. "What is emotion management?"

"That is, when you feel that you encounter some unhappy things, you have to learn to face and solve them with a calm mind. In today's situation, if you really don't like what my sister said, you can Tell my sister directly that you don't like my sister making such jokes, then my sister will understand that you care about this, and I will not continue to make such jokes.

But you walked away with Tangtang angry, and then you cried to Lu Heng that you took a simple and pleasant thing to extremes and complicated it, which is wrong, do you understand? "

Shen Jiamian listened carefully, what Jiang Mi said seemed to have a different meaning from what Lu Heng said.

But she felt that what Jiang Mi said was more reasonable.

She looked at Jiang Mi and said seriously: "Sister, I'm sorry, I know I was wrong."

"You don't need to apologize to me. The reason why I am so serious today asking you to deal with this small matter is to let you understand a truth."

"What's the point?"

Jiang Mi looked into her eyes and said very seriously:

"Ermian, my sister really hopes that you will get better and better. You have been ill, so you have forgotten many things, but that doesn't matter. Memories can be regenerated, but We have to develop in a good direction.

Lu Heng loves you very much, so he is willing to give you all the pampering, and you have every right to enjoy his pampering, because this is the right you should have as a wife, but there is one thing that my sister must tell you.

We women, no matter at any time, must learn to be independent, and have the ability to survive on our own even without a man. This is self-love and self-respect, and we are also responsible for ourselves!
We can't indulge your nature just because someone pampers you, and squander your emotions unscrupulously to make others cater to you. This is wrong. After a long time, men will gradually feel that such a woman is a burden. So you understand? "

"Can't you have a husband?" Shen Jiamian blinked in confusion. "My husband said that as long as he is here, he will protect me for the rest of my life, love and pamper me all the time, and will not let me suffer any grievances."

Jiang Mi sighed and said, "Your husband can love and spoil you, but didn't I say that? You have to learn to be independent, don't you understand what I mean?"

"Then why do you want to be independent?" Shen Jiamian asked very incomprehensibly: "Could we still be separated?"

Jiang Mi was a little helpless, stroked his forehead and said, "Although you said that you will not be separated, but he has a job. When Tangtang grows up in the future, you will also want to go out to the outside world."

"What if I don't want to?"

"You'll think about it!"

Jiang Mi said very firmly: "You are just beginning now, but a person's life will be very long. Tangtang will grow up from a baby to be like us, and we will also grow old slowly. During this process, you will not You may stay in this house every day, the outside world is huge, and you need to grow up and learn to be independent in Ermian.”

Shen Jiamian was frowned upon by Jiangmi's words, and she frowned in distress.

Seeing her like this, Jiang Mi finally understood why Lu Heng didn't want to force Shen Jiamian.

Because these words are really too hasty for Shen Jiamian!

Jiang Mi sighed, and said, "Er Mian, I'm sorry I was too anxious, let's take our time!"

After Shen Jiamian heard Jiang Mi apologized to her, she thought that the effect of her visit had been achieved.

"Sister, then we are reconciled now, right?"

Jiang Mi couldn't help but smile bitterly after hearing this. "We didn't quarrel in the first place. Fool, I'm not angry, don't think too much about it."

"Great!" Shen Jiamian took Jiangmi's hand and hugged her tightly. "I thought you wouldn't treat me as well when you were angry!"

"Fool, my sister can't treat anyone badly, but I can't treat you badly!"

"Haha, let's go and see Tangtang now, I won't be angry this time, he can call you aunt if he likes!"

"Little silly, how can he bark at only four months? You're right, it's just what he said casually, but I haven't hugged him yet, and I really want to hug him!"

"Then let's go!" Shen Jiamian pulled Jiang Mi to stand up, "He's sinking now, little chubby!"

"Haha, that means the little guy is healthy."

"My husband said I was very healthy and that I was great! Sister, you don't even know that I got a big gash in my belly for the sake of being healthy!"