Mr. Su is too seductive

Lu Yiming tapped the pen on the table, thinking for a while, "I think Mr. Su's problem may be related to his childhood. If we can start from this aspect, I believe it will be of great help to the treatment."

Wu Ze said: "Why do you have to make it so complicated, what's going on, I just ask him if it's okay."

Lu Yiming looked at him with a serious expression, "Mr. Wu, absolutely not, the patient's cognition is different from ordinary people, and there may be some paranoia.

When encountering a problem, it is easier than ordinary people to see the extreme side of the matter. Generally speaking, it is the dark and negative side. You can’t ask directly. If you do this, it will cause his psychological problems to repeat and he will have more thoughts. "

Wu Ze frowned, "He didn't cooperate, and you didn't let me ask, so what should we do? I can't turn into a roundworm and get into his stomach, can I?"

Lu Yiming looked down at the medical records again, "Mr. Wu was joking, this matter cannot be rushed. According to what you said, Mr. Su has had mental problems for many years. In my opinion, it will only be earlier, and it should have been more than ten years! His situation It's more complicated, I think..."

Wu Ze was a little angry. He wanted to doubt whether this doctor Lu was really professional, so he interrupted him, "I can't be in a hurry, I can't be in a hurry. After so many years, I still say I'm not in a hurry."

Lu Yiming sensed his emotions, and judged some important information from his words, "Mr. Su has been treated by other doctors, and they also said that they are not in a hurry?"

Wu Ze glared at him.

Lu Yiming knew that he had guessed right, "Mr. Wu, if you deliberately ask him, it will only irritate him. If what opens in front of him is a wall instead of a road, it will have more serious consequences for him!"

Before Wu Ze spoke, the doctor sighed slowly, "Mr. Wu, let me tell you something."

Later, Wu Ze learned that the doctor was also a patient when he was young, and a very serious patient!
He told Wu Ze that this is a terrible disease that can devour people's spirit and soul. In those days, he locked himself in the bedroom every day, did not go out to eat, drink, or drink, and dared not go out!

Because no one understands, it is terrible that his parents do not understand, and say that he did it, the people around him will not understand this issue at all, they will only despise him and despise him.

Most people would advise him what is wrong with him?A small number of people will accuse him of inferiority, cowardice, timidity, and ignorance.

Every time he saw those eyes, all kinds of eyes, some with contempt, some with sympathy, and some with ridicule, it would only hurt him more.

Wu Ze was dumbfounded, watching the doctor show the scars on his body, the criss-crossing scars still felt unbelievable.

Dr. Lu told him that understanding and trusting this kind of interpersonal relationship can alleviate the symptoms. When you trust him, encourage him, and understand him, it will have an invisible effect on the symptoms.

Counseling at the language level is second, and it is more necessary to understand the patient personally, but ordinary people cannot understand it, because they have not experienced it, and most people do not understand the pain involved, and only say:
"Aren't you too fragile?"

"What's the big deal?"

"It's because you think too much, don't think about it."

Lu Yiming sighed again, "Mr. Wu, think about how much people love their own lives, but there is a disease that can make you even give up your life. How terrible is this disease, do you understand? ?”

In the end, Lu Yiming told him, "Confidence is the beginning of recovery, and heart disease needs heart medicine."

For patients, certain events may be just the trigger, and they have endured more content that ordinary people cannot bear. If this feeling is perceived by ordinary people, they may also collapse. Who can say for sure?

Lu Yiming has experienced it himself, and after he recovers, he also substitutes himself into other people's incidents, and sometimes finds it difficult to accept.

Therefore, his treatment in recent years has relied on professionalism and seldom on emotion. Now he wants to change it.

After making up his mind, Dr. Lu stood up, "Mr. Wu, I talked too much today, I hope you can listen to me, this matter is really too urgent, I'll go out first, and we'll talk later."

Su Li looked at his phone. Half an hour had passed. Just as he was about to get up, the doctor pushed the door open with a bag in his hand, "Mr. Su, I've been waiting for a long time."

Su Li put down his phone, looked up at him, and saw him take out a box of chocolates from the box, "Come on, try it, my friend brought two boxes back from a business trip, I think it tastes good, very sweet."

Su Li was stunned. He thought that this doctor would prescribe a bunch of medicines for him like the countless people who claimed to be experts he had seen.

Who knew that he gave him a box of chocolates, and didn't prescribe him any kind of medicine.

Lu Yiming took one from the box and handed it to him.

"Okay, thank you." Su Li took it and put it in his mouth, feeling sweet in his heart instantly.

Seeing that he was ready to accept, the doctor was not in a hurry, and asked with a smile, "Mr. Su, how long will you be in Europe this time?"

"One week."

"I want to go to an art exhibition this weekend. I heard Mr. Wu mentioned it. Mr. Su knows a lot about it. Is Mr. Su free? Can you accompany me?"

"Just a little bit."

"That's good too. I'm bored at work on weekdays. It would be best if I could have a good friend to talk to."

Su Li looked at him.

The doctor understood what he meant, and said with a smile: "Indeed, I'm not married yet, I'm single." In fact, this is the root of his depression.

It has been the tenth day in Europe, and Su Li follows Lu Yiming every day to see art exhibitions, appreciate cultural relics, and learn about Western culture.

Wu Ze was by the side, not interested in these things. What motivates him every day is the long-legged beauties, and occasionally there are beauties who wink at him, which makes him feel very proud, which is also his motivation in Europe.

Two days later, Wu Ze had to remind him that the return ticket had been postponed twice!

Su Li had so much fun these days that he forgot about the time and regarded the doctor as a good friend.

Before leaving, he said goodbye to the doctor, "Tomorrow morning's plane, go back and deal with some things. Doctor Lu, this journey is very pleasant, thank you for accompanying me."

Then, Su Li asked questions about himself.

The doctor did not expect that Su Li would take the initiative to bring it up, and he was surprised, and once again verified that company is really much better than treatment.

In the end, Su Li still didn't tell him what was the last straw in his heart.

The doctor feels that in the process of constant struggle and communication with the self, the patient's heart may be stronger, such as the one in front of him.

After boarding the plane, Su Li remembered what the doctor said, "Your heart is very strong, and you can perceive these emotions correctly. I will return to China next year. We can chat more when we have time."

"Also, don't call me Doctor Lu from now on, my name is Lu Yiming."