My luck changed after divorcing my ex-husband

An Qimin works at home, and more often observes Zhao Xiaotang's situation.

Usually they also go to class, and they have been taking classes with the doctor's wife, and they have indeed learned a lot, Zhao Xiaotang feels that there is nothing more.

But one day, a link suddenly appeared in Zhao Xiaotang's fan comments.

The link also wrote about the problems that may arise after giving birth.

Zhao Xiaotang wanted to have a look at these things, so she clicked in and found that nothing in it was in a good condition.

What child died with the mother...

Zhao Xiaotang really finished watching all of them, just because he would feel uncomfortable after reading all of them.

She can't blame this fan for showing her this, because after the above mentioned a pathology, there is another message below telling them how to solve this matter.

When An Qimin came back from the company meeting, he saw that Zhao Xiaotang's state had changed, and he was not as happy as before.

"What's the matter with you? What are you in a daze for? I brought you the sweet and sour pork you wanted to eat yesterday, as well as some things you like to eat. All of them are made by your favorite shop."

After Zhao Xiaotang saw An Qimin, he immediately hugged An Qimin.

An Qimin's first reaction was to hold the vegetables in his hands higher, otherwise accidents would easily happen.

"What's wrong with you? Is there something uncomfortable? Someone bullied you? Tell me."

An Qimin stroked Zhao Xiaotang's hair with one hand, and put things on the table with the other.

"I'm fine, it's just that I saw something that may cause problems during childbirth, An Qimin, if something really happens to me during childbirth, and the doctor asks you whether to keep the older one or the younger one, you have to do What decision?"

This is really a very difficult decision, and it is also a question whether An Qimin wants to talk about it until now.

Why can't he have both when he has to make such a difficult decision?

The child is his, and his wife is also his. If he wants the child, so does the wife.

An Qimin doesn't want to think about such a situation, such a thing will not happen, Zhao Xiaotang and the child will be safe.

"There won't be a time like this. The child will definitely come out very well-behaved and obedient. Don't worry, you don't have to think so much. Don't always look at those things. What your fans show you may not necessarily be the same. suitable for you."

An Qimin decided to go and prepare for Zhao Xiaotang later, and find a lot of children who gave birth smoothly and safely.

"An Qimin, answer my question. If something like this really happens, you can only have one if you want to make a decision."

Zhao Xiaotang was very persistent, she just wanted to know An Qimin's thoughts.

Seeing the helpless expression on An Qimin's face, Zhao Xiaotang seemed to already know the answer.

"My idea is that both of you can be fine, but if there can only be one, I won't have children."

"You are the one I like. If you really can't have children, I will accept it. It's just that you have been wronged and suffered so much."

It is indeed a difficult question whether to protect the big or the small. An Qimin saw such a discussion when he checked the information.

In the delivery room, what is the last problem that everyone wants to face.

The comments below, without exception, are all that sentence.

"When the doctor came out, he asked me when I was still a big child or when I was a child."

They want a child, otherwise what to do with pregnancy, they can't live without the child's mother, who will be with him for the rest of his life.

Asking them to make this decision is really like ascending to the sky, but there are many times when they have to face this choice.

Of course, it is also uncomfortable for the doctor to say this, because it proves that they need to give up a life.

"What about the child? The child I worked so hard to conceive in October can't..."

Before Zhao Xiaotang finished speaking, An Qimin grabbed the back of Zhao Xiaotang's head.

He didn't want to listen to Zhao Xiaotang asking about these things, so he just talked about it, blocked it, and Zhao Xiaotang couldn't ask so many questions anymore.

I don't know what I was thinking, the child is so good, how could such a thing happen.

No, he will donate money later.

Now Zhao Xiaotang is about to become the No. 1 donation, and donate when he has nothing to do.

He really thinks this is really useful, and he hopes that the thanks from those people can make Zhao Xiaotang feel better when he goes to give birth.

Zhao Xiaotang was confused by An Qimin's actions, so aren't they discussing this matter seriously?

Why did he kiss her all of a sudden? An Qimin may be holding Zhao Xiaotang's idea that I won't let go unless you change your mind, and has never let go of Zhao Xiaotang.

"Listen to my husband, don't think about it, the doctor's configuration is already the highest. If, I mean, if something happens to you, you won't die, and neither will the child. At most, you will be tortured. "

"The kind that makes you feel uncomfortable, then I don't think such a thing will happen. If you are so gentle to the world, the world will be very gentle to you."

"I see."

Zhao Xiaotang responded like this, and after a while, Zhao Xiaotang didn't talk about it anymore.

When it was only 25 and the due date was about to arrive, An Qimin found that Zhao Xiaotang began to feel anxious.

Zhao Xiaotang couldn't sleep at night, his hair fell out in a lot, and the movements of life became more and more difficult.

He also doesn't like talking anymore, and An Qimin feels as if he has undertaken a lot of things by himself.

That's why it felt like that, An Qimin looked at Zhao Xiaotang, he felt that he still needed to take her to the hospital.

This situation may still be the prenatal depression mentioned in the book.

Another situation is postpartum depression. An Qimin remembers that it was mentioned in the book, if these two situations happen.

Be sure to enlighten her in time and tell her that nothing will happen.

"Zhao Xiaotang, your recent state is not right."

An Qimin walked to Zhao Xiaotang's side, grabbed Zhao Xiaotang's hand, and planned to have a good talk with her before sending her to the hospital.

Check to see if antenatal depression is really happening.

An Qimin felt that if there was, it was most likely that Zhao Xiaotang was afraid that something might happen to her when she entered the delivery room.

As mentioned in the book, many prenatal depressions are all due to this incident, and they don't pay much attention to other things.

"I'm doing fine, there's nothing wrong with it."

Zhao Xiaotang felt that he was thinking about more and more things recently, and he couldn't understand some things, so he felt very irritable and didn't want to talk to them.

She just wanted someone to think about these things clearly, as long as she figured it out, she didn't think there was any problem with this, and she had nothing to do.