After being reborn, he was tricked by paranoid Fu Shao

Shangguanjing received the signal from Xiruo, and immediately walked over to give the little fish in her hand to her mother. Fortunately, Xiaochiyu woke up at this moment, otherwise her mother must have grabbed that girl Ruoruo and asked this and that. .

"Yeeeeeeeeee~~~~"

The little girl didn't know what alien language she was speaking, she kept spitting out bubbles and screaming.

When Mrs. Shangguan saw that her granddaughter was in her hands, she stopped arguing with Xi Ruo and started playing with the child in her arms.

Fu Junmu originally wanted to stay with Xi Ruo, but he was called to play chess. He had no choice but to be the only person here who had nothing to do, so he was called away by his aunt, but it's okay to call him away Otherwise, I will be urged to have a child here again.

At this time, Hua Wuque, who was arranging the ingredients in the kitchen, suddenly thought of something, he was going to marry A Jing soon, and A Jing was the cousin of the little sister-in-law, so he was the cousin-in-law of the third brother ! ? ?

Ah ha ha ha ha ha ha ~ ~ ~
Thinking of this question, Hua Wuque was excited for a while, there was no way, he could finally have one thing to suppress the third brother, it was not easy.But he dared to say this behind his back, if it was in front of Fu Junmu, he would probably be scared to death.

Thinking of this, I couldn't help curling my lips, glanced at the recipe, and thought about what to cook?

Spring bamboo shoots with pickled vegetables, steamed bean skin, pickled vegetables, golden pepper oil, braised bamboo shoots with Yunnan flavor, cold white chicken, stir-fried yam, eggplant, sweet potato balls, multicolored beans, fried rice cakes with carrots in soup, spicy potato shreds, puerh pumpkin, and crab roe rolls.
Hua Wuque looked at the recipe for a long time, and finally decided on the meal to cook before starting to cook.

What surprised Shangguanjing's parents the most was that although Hua Wuque's cooking wasn't delicious, it wasn't impossible to eat it, it just lacked some heat, and it would get better after more practice.

After staying here for a day, Xi Ruo and Fu Junmu left.

The next morning.

In the training hall, on the boxing ring, a beautiful woman with a ball head, wearing a black racerback vest, black sports shorts, and bright red boxing gloves on her hands, has a graceful and sexy figure, and her continuous offensive moves are very handsome. Uppercut, right uppercut, final hook, on the jaw of a muscular boxing trainer in a black vest and black boxing gloves!
I don't know what's wrong with Xiruo recently. Before, her fists weren't strong enough, but now even his coach is about to be beaten to the ground. How embarrassing is he!
If it weren't for the certificate and trophy of his national boxing champion in his hand, he would have thought that his three or two blows would be useless.

Every time Xi Ruo came here, she was here to abuse him, and every time it was complete abuse! !
But today, Fu Junmu did not accompany Xi Ruo to the training hall, he was browsing something on Baidu in the study, and taking notes from time to time.

After Xi Ruo came back from the training hall next to her, she didn't see Fu Junmu, but the computer in the study room was still on, so she looked over it curiously.

"Preparation for a child?"

"About the child's attention?"

"What do you need to prepare for having a child?"

There are too many questions like this, and Xi Ruo didn't scroll down, but just saw a post that was opened just now.

80% of family education work is diagnosis, 20% work is environment creation, and 0% work is teaching knowledge.It is difficult to popularize this with other parents, because most parents want to teach their children knowledge.But my personal idea is that 80% of the time, I will look at what the child needs and what he wants, diagnose his current problems, help him review, help him meet his needs, and help him problem sooting, this is my 80% of the work.

20% of the work is to give him the environment he needs.For example, if a child likes to play Lego, buy it for him.Children like to read books, so build a study room.In the early childhood stage, parents do not have to teach their children knowledge themselves.Knowledge should be taught by teachers.

Find a good teacher at all costs; help your child find a good teacher for what he likes to do.The teacher and the child's personality must match, and the knowledge must be profound.

Parents can help disassemble the task; children encounter setbacks and failures, it may be that the current task is too big.All we need to do is task dismantling.

For example, children cannot write essays.Then mother can let him write sentences first.If you can't write sentences, you can form phrases first.With a little practice, big tasks become small ones.

Emotional education is the core of everything, and the method of emotional education is to give opportunities to express; how does he feel? What does he like and what does he dislike? What problems does he feel at home and in school? This should guide him to express.

I don't have to interrupt, let him talk more.In this way, he has the opportunity to express his own opinions and emotions, and he will often think about these issues consciously.And this kind of thinking will promote meta-learning and increase the ability of meta-consciousness.This will facilitate the development of everything.

Find your love early; create a rich environment for your child, take him to watch various industry annual conferences, robotics, HCI, games, expos, FI games, football games.

Put more encyclopedias at home, so that he can find the points of interest early.If you like it, spend a lot of money to hire a famous teacher to teach it.Teach a skill, and it is a skill he likes, and if he can crush others, the rest will be easy.

When encountering learning problems, there is no need for comprehensive tutoring. Be patient and overcome them one by one. The most unbearable thing for children is that the battle line is too long and there is no sense of accomplishment.If my child is not doing well at school, I will let him take a class first, or even a point.

Attack this point well, and then attack the next one.To break down one by one.The front line is too long, and mathematics, Chinese and English are all tutored, which will consume too many cognitive resources.

Let him understand early that his dad and I are a family, and he will be a family when he grows up.

a family.

I have a deeper feeling for his father than for him.I gave birth to him because I like his father, not the other way around.When you grow up, you must always be ready to decouple from your parents.

When I was young, I had to do "unhooking" training.Mom won't ignore you, but the purpose of my care is to make you independent.Mom will never stop loving you, and will always love you unconditionally, but the day I die, you can't live for me.

Have your own ideas, ideals, love, opinions, boundaries, principles, abilities, and personality earlier. This is what I expect from you.The purpose of education is "decoupling".Parents, don't forget this.No matter how much you love your child, you can only get him off the hook.

Do something well, love someone deep; I have only two requirements for him: do something well, love someone deep.
I believe that these two requirements are two bags, even if I die, they can save him from all kinds of degradation and misery.

Looking at these things, Xi Ruo was a little funny, she thought he never expected the arrival of the child, but now it seems that he cares more than a mother like her!

Just when she was about to leave, she saw a notebook on the table and curiously let go of it to take a look. It said that it was written by Fu Junmu.

First, physical preparation before pregnancy.People with chronic diseases, such as heart disease, high blood pressure, kidney disease and other diseases, should prepare for pregnancy after the condition is stable and the doctor's permission is obtained, so that the whole pregnancy will be safer and will not aggravate own disease, or the adverse effects of the disease on pregnancy, and if it is engaged in pregnancy
For jobs that have specific impacts, an application for job transfer should be made in advance.

Second, mental preparation before pregnancy.First of all, don't put too much mental pressure on yourself, the mentality must be stable, and both parties should make a plan. If it is not suitable for pregnancy when the work pressure is high, the ideal state of pregnancy is: the most relaxed mood, work It is the most relaxed, so it is very important to prepare mentally for pregnancy.

Third, life preparation before pregnancy.First of all, we must change our unhealthy lifestyle, develop regular work and rest habits, and refrain from smoking and drinking.To grasp the ovulation period and the best time to conceive, don't use drugs blindly.

Looking at these flamboyant words, Xi Ruo felt powerless for a while, maybe the position was reversed, why did Fu Junmu feel so sentimental.

Turning back, she also saw a lot of jokes, which seemed to be about couples, and dying of curiosity made her read them word by word.

———————How do I observe whether you love me or not? It’s like I’m not feeling well. You force me to take medicine in the morning and force me to eat when we quarrel. My expressive hand stroked my hair naturally, as gently as a rare item.

When facing me, the smile is different from usual. You can see the pampering face. Do you know why I dare not look into your eyes when you are arguing, because I am afraid that I will compromise with the affection in your eyes.

——————— Zhang Zhilin once said: "Every time I quarrel, I think about how I would lose her, so I cherish it very much. I would rather take the initiative to admit my mistakes and take the initiative to reconcile, because I cherish every day with her, Men! It’s okay to admit your mistakes, I’m most afraid of losing and regretting before it’s too late.”

This shows that quarreling is a very normal thing in marriage, and even model couples quarrel sometimes.The important thing is whether you really love each other enough and are willing to make concessions for each other.Quarreling is definitely not for breaking up, but for getting together better in the future.

I still remember this sentence in the movie "Previous Strategy": "Actually, many couples quarrel to prove that they care about each other more and love each other more, but what they say often turns into venting dissatisfaction. The more the other party doesn't want to hear anything, What to say more. Originally thought