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If it were any other parent, I'm afraid they would have died of anxiety long ago, and they must rack their brains to find a way to get their children out of this addiction.

However, Lu Yanchen didn't seem to care about it, and let Cheng Cheng use his temper.

This obsession took me half a month...

Even Mr. Lu was a little worried after learning about the situation, so he went to Lu Yanchen to ask him, and asked him to take care of him a little bit.

Lu Yanchen didn't take it seriously, and only said that he knew it well, and told Mr. Lu not to worry too much, just watch.

Mr. Lu had no choice but to frown and take a look for now.

Sure enough, after a while, Cheng Cheng is still in this state, and if Lu Yanchen insists on letting go, Mr. Lu will have to come forward to say a few words, he can't just watch the child indulge in playing like this all the time, can he?
Although it is a child's nature to play, it depends on how he plays.

Sitting still for a long time, putting all your mind on a pile of building blocks, and not paying attention to anything except eating and sleeping, this state is not good, and it is not a normal state of play.

Mr. Lu was thinking in his heart, and he had already considered how to divert Cheng Cheng's attention, so that he would no longer be obsessed with Lego blindly.

But who knows...

At this juncture, Mr. Lu has not yet come up with a suitable solution.

As if overnight, Chengcheng's interest in Lego blocks suddenly disappeared!

He swept all the colorful building blocks that were piled all over the floor into the cabinet, as if he didn't want to take another look at them.

Originally, he usually stayed in the toy room for more than ten hours a day, but later he didn't even come close to the toy room, and he had nothing to do every day, and could only rely on reading books and watching animations to pass the time.

The servants in charge of taking care of him were extremely surprised by this, on the surface they didn't dare to ask more questions, but they were secretly speculating in their hearts.

Mr. Lu, who had been secretly following this matter, was also confused by Cheng Cheng's moodiness.

After much deliberation, he couldn't figure it out. Mr. Lu endured it for several days, and finally couldn't help asking Lu Yanchen, and even vaguely suspected that Cheng Cheng was sick...

Otherwise, how could he explain that the toy he liked so much one day suddenly didn't even look at it the next day?

For a child of three or four years old, no matter how moody he is, it shouldn't be like this, right?
Facing Mr. Lu's doubts and worries, Lu Yanshen's attitude was unusually calm, as if he had expected such a day would come...

The reason is actually not complicated.

It's not that Cheng Cheng's personality is moody, and he changes at will.

It's not like Mr. Lu worried that Cheng Cheng suddenly stopped playing because he was sick.

But in fact, the little guy is just tired of playing...

He has invested so much time and energy in playing Lego before, except for the official exclusive series that cannot be disassembled, most of the time is actually spent on assembling and creating by himself.

For half a month, he disassembled and reassembled those dazzling colorful building blocks, assembled and dismantled, and he didn't know how many tricks he created.

Until the end, he seemed to have figured out the rules and tricks of building this building block toy, and had experienced it himself, so his interest naturally diminished.

Although Lu Yan didn't show it on his face, in fact, he knew Cheng Cheng's character better than anyone in the Lu family.

Cheng Cheng likes all kinds of new things the most in his life, and the more novel they are, the more he likes them, because this special novelty often stimulates his curiosity and fills him with the joy of exploration.

However, his liking is different from that of ordinary people.

Ordinary people like something, and they often want to keep it for themselves. Even if they don't cherish it anymore after getting it, they must have that thing they like to belong to themselves to feel satisfied.

But Cheng Cheng is different.

Rather than saying that what he likes is the object itself, it is better to say that what he likes is actually the process of exploration.

Therefore, like ordinary people, he doesn't care whether the things he likes belong to him or not. He only cares about whether he can enjoy sufficient fun in the process of his own exploration.

Such a character can be said to be an advantage, but to some extent, it is also a disadvantage.

Because his freshness often doesn't last long.

Children themselves are very fickle, and no one can grasp his changing preferences at any time.

And Cheng Cheng's fickleness, compared with ordinary children, can barely be regarded as traceable, but it is more obvious because of this.

When he is very interested in something and is full of novelty, he can devote all his energy to it without any hesitation, without any room for reservation, and he will be tireless and focused to the end.

Such seriousness and devotion, which ordinary people can't match, allow him to maintain extremely high efficiency when exploring anything. Often, it doesn't take long before what he wants to know is already clear in his mind.

But... also because of this.

Once he knows everything he wants to know, I will naturally lose the novelty of things.

Or, when some things he likes can no longer bring him the joy of exploration, Cheng Cheng's interest in those things will soon disappear completely.

It's like his interest in Lego.

How much he loved to concentrate when playing before, and even forgot to eat and sleep, even the tutor who wanted to stop him was driven away by him.

And once he figured out the rules, and there is no novelty and difficulty in playing, the little guy feels boring instead, and doesn't want to play anymore...

So he packed up all those toys without hesitation, never wanting to look at them again.

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And Lu Yanchen was not worried at all precisely because he understood the character of the little guy.

On the contrary, he knew it very well.

If it was when Cheng Cheng was interested, he insisted on stopping him and interfering with him...

With Cheng Cheng's personality, even if he doesn't fall out with his own father, he will definitely be very unhappy, and it may even arouse his rebellious psychology, making Cheng Cheng directly stand on the opposite side of him and fight against him everywhere.

With Lu Yanshen's character, he would never do such a difficult and thankless task lightly.

What's the point of wasting your own energy and time, and the result is likely to be self-defeating?

Is it possible that in order to show the majesty of being a parent in front of the children, do you have to press the children to listen to yourself honestly?
Lu Yanchen wasn't so bored yet.

Instead of choosing to be right with your child and insisting on correcting your child's mistakes according to your own ideas, it is better to follow the child's personality.