Adorable Chef: Mommy is a master

"Sister Xia Lan, your guess is so accurate. As soon as I walked over and didn't say anything, you knew what I wanted to do. I was so boring working there alone, so I want to come and talk to you." Although Xiao Nizi didn't think about other things when she was working just now, she was too boring when the work was over.

"Then sit next to me, and we'll talk when you sit down." Mo Xialan saw that Xiao Nizi came to chat with her, and felt that Xiao Nizi was very cute. Maybe it was because she wanted to leave the job. Youyou suffers from pre-marital anxiety, that's why she really wants to chat with someone for a while.

"Sister Xia Lan, I don't know what's going on these days. Whenever I calm down, I'll think of some inexplicable questions." I will think about some things, look at these things, if there is no one to tell, don't even think about talking to this good friend of yours.

"Is it about the marriage of the two of you?" When Mo Xialan saw Xiao Nizi's appearance, she was really glad that she chose to accompany Missing you today. If Missing you at this time, how can someone accompany you? , maybe the current mood is extremely bad.

"Yes, I also told you that recently I have been watching some weird news, so I always see some weird sayings. They say that when a man is married, his attitude will be 180 I don’t know if this will happen if I marry him.”

When Xiaonizi thinks that when she is in love with her fiancé, that person is childish and sweet, but if the two of them become flat and sweet after getting married, Xiaonizi will have a feeling in her heart. A sense of gap will feel uncomfortable like this.

When Mo Xialan heard what Xiao Nizi said, she didn't smile, but her expression became serious.This is indeed a problem that most people have. After getting married, most people will never have the passion like falling in love, so it is understandable for a girl to worry about these situations.

"Xiao Nizi, I can understand the situation you mentioned. It is normal to be worried, but you have to know that no couple is in the same mode after falling in love and getting married. That is to say, when two people After getting along for a long time, it’s not so ritualistic to live every day.”

In Mo Xialan's heart, she always felt that when the two of them were together, although it would be very sweet at first, it could be guaranteed.After a long time, it can still be as sweet as before. After all, when two people are together for a long time, it will become a habit.

When the feeling of two people being together has become a habit, it will no longer be like the first time when they were together, so fresh, and it will no longer be the same as before, trying every means to let the other party know that they like it. up.So after two people have been together for a long time, the most important thing is to find a comfortable way to get along.

When Mo Xialan finished speaking, she took Xiao Nizi's hand and patted her hand, looked at Xiao Nizi and said, "Since this situation cannot be avoided, the most important thing for the two of you is to find a kind of you The way of getting along that both of them prefer, even if it can’t maintain the same sweetness as before, it has to become a habit and gradually develop into a family relationship.”

When Xiao Nizi heard this sentence, she nodded thoughtfully. It is true that after two people have been together for a long time, it is true that they will not be as sweet as they were when they first got together.In this case, why not develop into relatives, after all, only relatives in this world cannot be separated.

"Sister Xia Lan, I think what you said is very reasonable. It seems that my anxiety now is unnecessary. After all, if you really encounter this situation, anxiety is also useful, it is better to find some practical methods Go and solve these problems." At this moment, Xiao Nizi talked about her slightly dignified expression with a trace of ease.

"Actually, it's good that you can figure it out. Even if these things happen, it's useless for you to be anxious here. The best way is to find a way to solve these problems." Mo Xialan said to Xiaonizi, While saying these words, she was also thinking about what problems she would face when she went to get married in the future, and how to solve them at that time.

Although this problem has been temporarily resolved, there is another thing that worries Xiao Nizi. Although the expression on her face is relaxed, after a while, she regained her dignified expression and looked at Mo Xialan and said embarrassingly : "Sister Xia Lan, in fact, I have been troubled by another thing in the past few days."

After the two people lived together and were enlightened by themselves, Mo Xialan guessed that the things that you would only worry about next should be relatively long-term things. Children's business.

"Xiao Nizi, are you worried about what will happen when the two of you have children in the future?" Mo Xialan thought about Xiao Nizi, she is still very young and doesn't know what it takes to bring up a child What is it, that's why I was thinking about you. This should be said to be worried about these things.

Five years ago, I had a child because of an accident with my fiancé. At that time, I was only a child, and I just watched Xiaotuanzi being born, but after so many years, I have been making progress step by step. The small dumpling was pulled bigger.

Although a lot of things have been experienced in the middle, Xiaotuanzi was able to grow up safely in the end. It would be a lie to say that she was not afraid when she knew that she was pregnant.It's just that when I thought about the meat growing on my body, I felt a little reluctant when it was about to be cut off, so I chose to stay in the end.

Although when this little life came into this world, I was afraid and happy, but in the end I got along with the little life very happily, and even now their family is very happy, so everything is in harmony. It has two sides.

"Yes, in fact, I am still worried about children. After all, can I still be young and open a company? If I marry him, if my parents put pressure on the two of us, we Two people will have to have a child, and then I will have to live the life of a housewife."

Xiao Nizi said, when she said this, she was so dejected that as long as she thought about it, now that her career is booming, if this child breaks the current plan, Xiao Nizi is really not used to it.