Warm Marriage 100 Points: Sweet Wife, Please Be Good
Chapter 765 Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
Dr. Li glanced at the two children before saying to Qi Jingchen, "Come to my office and talk!"
"Xixi, Xiao Ning, you two will wait for me here for a while, okay?" Qi Jingchen asked softly, "I'll go in and talk to Uncle Li, and we'll go home together."
"it is good."
After entering the office, Qi Jingchen couldn't wait to ask: "Doctor Li, how are Xixi and Xiaoning doing?"
"Qi Xi's mental state should not have been greatly affected, but as a three-year-old child, her mental state seems a bit too mature."
"In this regard, she may be a bit like me, what about Xiao Ning?"
Dr. Li frowned and said: "Since you brought the two of them to see a psychiatrist, you should have seen something. Qi Ning's situation is indeed not very good, but what really cast a shadow on him is not simply because of the kidnapping." , but when the kidnapper was trying to kill Qi Ning, his mother rushed over and pushed the kidnapper away. Qi Ning saw the kidnapper beat his mother to the point of blood. This is the reason for his psychological problems. .”
"What kind of problems will this incident cause to his psychology?"
"It may make him feel inferior, because he always feels that if he is braver, his mother will not be beaten like that, and he will also feel that he has harmed his mother. If this continues, he will only get worse. The more you deny the value of your own existence, in severe cases it may lead to depression.”
After listening to Qi Xi's narration, Dr. Li also felt that the kidnapper was so vicious that he didn't even spare two three-year-old children.
Qi Jingchen asked worriedly: "Then what should I do next, so that Xiao Ning can get rid of this idea?"
"In your daily life, you must encourage him more, let him understand that he has many advantages, and often express his importance to you, so that he feels that he is needed, especially the mother of the child. If conditions permit, we must spend more time with the child during this time, so that he can feel that what the kidnappers did did not cause too much harm to his mother."
Qi Jingchen nodded, "I see."
"After that, I brought him here every week. I need to understand his emotional changes before I can continue to prescribe the right medicine."
"Okay, I will bring him here every Monday from now on. I wonder if Dr. Li is convenient for you?"
"Okay, then I will spare time from two to three on Monday afternoon."
After Qi Jingchen left Doctor Li's office, he took Qi Xi and Qi Ning to the supermarket to buy some vegetables, and then went home to prepare dinner for Zhong Jiaqi.
"Xiao Ning, I heard that you didn't sleep last night, you should sleep for a while now."
Qi Ning shook his head: "I don't want it, I want to wait for you to take me to the hospital to see my mother."
Qi Jingchen knew that Qi Ning had mild post-traumatic stress disorder now, so he didn't continue to ask.
Qi Xi actively stayed by Qi Ning's side and said something to him to stop him from thinking wildly.
……
After Zhong Jiaqi had dinner, Qi Jingchen offered to say, "Xiao Ning will stay in the ward to accompany mother tonight, okay?"
A little light finally appeared in Qi Ning's eyes: "Okay, I'll stay with my mother tonight."
After Mother Zhong left with Qi Xi, Qi Ning was still by Zhong Jiaqi's side, holding Zhong Jiaqi's hand tightly.
Zhong Jiaqi smiled and said: "Look, I promised you that when you came to the hospital, I was still awake, so I didn't fall asleep. Should you trust me more in the future?"
Qi Ning nodded: "Well, mom is very good."
"Then you smile, why do you always have a straight face, I miss that little Ning who has a smile on his face every day."
Qi Ning said disappointedly: "Then you don't like me now?"
Zhong Jiaqi didn't expect Qi Ning to think so, so she could only quickly explain: "Xiao Ning, of course I like you, no matter what you are, I like you, I just want to see you smile, every time Xiao Ning smiles , I feel better."
Only then did Qi Ning raise the corners of his lips and smile slightly.
Zhong Jiaqi stroked Qi Ning's hair soothingly: "Grandma said you didn't fall asleep the whole night last night, is it because you were too worried about me?"
Qi Ning nodded: "I'm really afraid that you won't be able to wake up, Mom."
"Fool, don't I have nothing to do now?"
Only then did a smile appear in Qi Ning's eyes: "It's as long as mom is fine."
Qi Ning didn't sleep the whole night, and now he was by Zhong Jiaqi's side, and Zhong Jiaqi's hand was placed on his back and patted gently, he soon began to feel sleepy, and fell asleep lying on the bedside after a while .
Zhong Jiaqi was worried that Qi Ning would be uncomfortable sleeping like this, so she whispered to Qi Jingchen, "Put Xiao Ning on the escort bed to sleep."
Qi Jingchen told Zhong Jiaqi what the psychiatrist said today: "Maybe he can sleep well when he is by your side now, he didn't sleep all night last night, let him just sleep on his stomach for a while, wait for him to sleep When it's ready, I'll carry him to the accompanying bed again."
After hearing what the psychiatrist said, Zhong Jiaqi kept frowning: "How could this be?"
"Xiao Ning has mild post-traumatic stress disorder, but Dr. Li said that Xiao Ning's current situation is not particularly serious. As long as we encourage him more and express our love for him, let him understand that yesterday's kidnapping It doesn't have much impact on you, Xiao Ning will come out slowly."
Zhong Jiaqi nodded: "I know, I will definitely pay more attention in the future."
She looked at Qi Ning distressedly, now she wished to dig out Ding Lei's bones, and smoked it once, if what happened yesterday, Qi Xi and Qi Ning would not have received such a blow.
Qi Jingchen also noticed Zhong Jiaqi's emotions, he said comfortingly: "Jiaqi, I will not make it easier for anyone who has hurt you, Qi Haosheng will pay the price for doing such a thing, although Ding Lei is dead, But I will not let Qi Haosheng go."
"I know, but now I just want to see Xiao Ning get better. I suddenly miss him. He always has a smile in his eyes."
Qi Jingchen nodded: "He will definitely return to his original appearance."
At ten o'clock in the evening, Zhong Jiaqi was also a little sleepy, so Qi Jingchen stretched out his hand to hug Qi Ning, and wanted to put him on the accompanying bed next to him, but just as Zhong Jiaqi's hand was taken away from Qi Ning, Qi Ning was asleep He shouted anxiously: "Mom!"
Immediately afterwards, he opened his eyes.
Qi Jingchen also didn't expect that Qi Ning has reached such a sensitive state now, his eyes turned red instantly, Qi Jingchen shook Qi Ning lightly.
"Xiao Ning, don't cry, it's Dad!"
Qi Ning took a careful look at Qi Jingchen and the surrounding environment before hugging Qi Jingchen's neck tightly: "Dad, I was almost scared to death just now. I dreamed that my mother didn't want me anymore."
"Stupid child, how could mom not want you? Isn't she just lying on the hospital bed?" Qi Jingchen pointed to the accompanying bed next to him and said, "But we should go to bed now, so I want to carry you to sleep on this bed." of."
"But I can't sleep by myself, I have nightmares."
"I'll sleep with you in my arms, okay?" Qi Jingchen said distressedly, "Mom's hospital bed can't fit you now."
Qi Ning nodded obediently: "Okay, sleep with Dad tonight."
Qi Jingchen was worried that Qi Ning would not be able to fall asleep, and worried that Qi Ning would have nightmares when he fell asleep, so he simply let Qi Ning sleep on his body. He hugged Qi Ning tightly, just wanting to give him a sense of security.
When he woke up the next day, Qi Jingchen felt that half of his shoulder was about to go numb, but seeing how Qi Ning was sleeping soundly, Qi Jingchen even felt that the saliva he left on his clothes was nothing.
But as soon as Qi Jingchen got up and put Qi Ning on the bed, Qi Ning opened his eyes, rubbed his own eyes, and asked in a daze, "Dad, are you up?"
Qi Jingchen rubbed Qi Ning's hair: "Yes, mother will change her dressing in a while, can Xiao Ning get up and wash her face by herself?"
Qi Ning nodded, and said obediently: "Okay."
He bounced to the bathroom, brushed his teeth and washed his face, and even brought a small basin of hot water on the bedside to wipe Zhong Jiaqi's face.
Zhong Jiaqi was a little embarrassed to ask her three-year-old son to wipe her face, but thinking of what Qi Jingchen said, she obediently accepted it.
"Xiao Ning is so good. She has already learned to take care of me. If you weren't here, your father would be very busy."
A smile appeared on Qi Ning's face: "It's as long as mom is fine."
"Seeing how well-behaved Xiao Ning is, my mood has improved, and the wound will heal soon," Zhong Jiaqi said with a smile, "Thank you Xiao Ning."
Qi Ning clung to Zhong Jiaqi's ear and whispered: "Mom, yesterday my father took me to meet a strange uncle, and he asked me a lot of strange questions."
Zhong Jiaqi knew that the strange uncle Qi Ning mentioned should be a psychiatrist, she smiled and asked, "Xiao Ning, don't you like that uncle?"
"It's not that I don't like it, but I don't know why he asked those questions."
Zhong Jiaqi touched Qi Ning's hair: "That's Dad's friend, he just cares about the problems in our family, if Dad takes you to see him again in the future, you must answer his questions honestly, okay?"
Qi Ning nodded vigorously twice: "Okay, I will agree to whatever Mom says."
"Then I want to drink water now, can Xiao Ning pass me the water glass?"
"it is good."
Seeing that Qi Ning's eyes were finally no longer full of gloom, Zhong Jiaqi's mood improved a lot. She knew that post-traumatic stress disorder would not recover so quickly, but at least Qi Ning's condition is slowly improving now. It is also something to be happy about.
"Xiao Ning, what do you want to eat this morning?"
"I eat the same as my mother."
Qi Jingchen rubbed Qi Ning's hair: "You little sycophant, you have to be like your mother in everything."
"Xixi, Xiao Ning, you two will wait for me here for a while, okay?" Qi Jingchen asked softly, "I'll go in and talk to Uncle Li, and we'll go home together."
"it is good."
After entering the office, Qi Jingchen couldn't wait to ask: "Doctor Li, how are Xixi and Xiaoning doing?"
"Qi Xi's mental state should not have been greatly affected, but as a three-year-old child, her mental state seems a bit too mature."
"In this regard, she may be a bit like me, what about Xiao Ning?"
Dr. Li frowned and said: "Since you brought the two of them to see a psychiatrist, you should have seen something. Qi Ning's situation is indeed not very good, but what really cast a shadow on him is not simply because of the kidnapping." , but when the kidnapper was trying to kill Qi Ning, his mother rushed over and pushed the kidnapper away. Qi Ning saw the kidnapper beat his mother to the point of blood. This is the reason for his psychological problems. .”
"What kind of problems will this incident cause to his psychology?"
"It may make him feel inferior, because he always feels that if he is braver, his mother will not be beaten like that, and he will also feel that he has harmed his mother. If this continues, he will only get worse. The more you deny the value of your own existence, in severe cases it may lead to depression.”
After listening to Qi Xi's narration, Dr. Li also felt that the kidnapper was so vicious that he didn't even spare two three-year-old children.
Qi Jingchen asked worriedly: "Then what should I do next, so that Xiao Ning can get rid of this idea?"
"In your daily life, you must encourage him more, let him understand that he has many advantages, and often express his importance to you, so that he feels that he is needed, especially the mother of the child. If conditions permit, we must spend more time with the child during this time, so that he can feel that what the kidnappers did did not cause too much harm to his mother."
Qi Jingchen nodded, "I see."
"After that, I brought him here every week. I need to understand his emotional changes before I can continue to prescribe the right medicine."
"Okay, I will bring him here every Monday from now on. I wonder if Dr. Li is convenient for you?"
"Okay, then I will spare time from two to three on Monday afternoon."
After Qi Jingchen left Doctor Li's office, he took Qi Xi and Qi Ning to the supermarket to buy some vegetables, and then went home to prepare dinner for Zhong Jiaqi.
"Xiao Ning, I heard that you didn't sleep last night, you should sleep for a while now."
Qi Ning shook his head: "I don't want it, I want to wait for you to take me to the hospital to see my mother."
Qi Jingchen knew that Qi Ning had mild post-traumatic stress disorder now, so he didn't continue to ask.
Qi Xi actively stayed by Qi Ning's side and said something to him to stop him from thinking wildly.
……
After Zhong Jiaqi had dinner, Qi Jingchen offered to say, "Xiao Ning will stay in the ward to accompany mother tonight, okay?"
A little light finally appeared in Qi Ning's eyes: "Okay, I'll stay with my mother tonight."
After Mother Zhong left with Qi Xi, Qi Ning was still by Zhong Jiaqi's side, holding Zhong Jiaqi's hand tightly.
Zhong Jiaqi smiled and said: "Look, I promised you that when you came to the hospital, I was still awake, so I didn't fall asleep. Should you trust me more in the future?"
Qi Ning nodded: "Well, mom is very good."
"Then you smile, why do you always have a straight face, I miss that little Ning who has a smile on his face every day."
Qi Ning said disappointedly: "Then you don't like me now?"
Zhong Jiaqi didn't expect Qi Ning to think so, so she could only quickly explain: "Xiao Ning, of course I like you, no matter what you are, I like you, I just want to see you smile, every time Xiao Ning smiles , I feel better."
Only then did Qi Ning raise the corners of his lips and smile slightly.
Zhong Jiaqi stroked Qi Ning's hair soothingly: "Grandma said you didn't fall asleep the whole night last night, is it because you were too worried about me?"
Qi Ning nodded: "I'm really afraid that you won't be able to wake up, Mom."
"Fool, don't I have nothing to do now?"
Only then did a smile appear in Qi Ning's eyes: "It's as long as mom is fine."
Qi Ning didn't sleep the whole night, and now he was by Zhong Jiaqi's side, and Zhong Jiaqi's hand was placed on his back and patted gently, he soon began to feel sleepy, and fell asleep lying on the bedside after a while .
Zhong Jiaqi was worried that Qi Ning would be uncomfortable sleeping like this, so she whispered to Qi Jingchen, "Put Xiao Ning on the escort bed to sleep."
Qi Jingchen told Zhong Jiaqi what the psychiatrist said today: "Maybe he can sleep well when he is by your side now, he didn't sleep all night last night, let him just sleep on his stomach for a while, wait for him to sleep When it's ready, I'll carry him to the accompanying bed again."
After hearing what the psychiatrist said, Zhong Jiaqi kept frowning: "How could this be?"
"Xiao Ning has mild post-traumatic stress disorder, but Dr. Li said that Xiao Ning's current situation is not particularly serious. As long as we encourage him more and express our love for him, let him understand that yesterday's kidnapping It doesn't have much impact on you, Xiao Ning will come out slowly."
Zhong Jiaqi nodded: "I know, I will definitely pay more attention in the future."
She looked at Qi Ning distressedly, now she wished to dig out Ding Lei's bones, and smoked it once, if what happened yesterday, Qi Xi and Qi Ning would not have received such a blow.
Qi Jingchen also noticed Zhong Jiaqi's emotions, he said comfortingly: "Jiaqi, I will not make it easier for anyone who has hurt you, Qi Haosheng will pay the price for doing such a thing, although Ding Lei is dead, But I will not let Qi Haosheng go."
"I know, but now I just want to see Xiao Ning get better. I suddenly miss him. He always has a smile in his eyes."
Qi Jingchen nodded: "He will definitely return to his original appearance."
At ten o'clock in the evening, Zhong Jiaqi was also a little sleepy, so Qi Jingchen stretched out his hand to hug Qi Ning, and wanted to put him on the accompanying bed next to him, but just as Zhong Jiaqi's hand was taken away from Qi Ning, Qi Ning was asleep He shouted anxiously: "Mom!"
Immediately afterwards, he opened his eyes.
Qi Jingchen also didn't expect that Qi Ning has reached such a sensitive state now, his eyes turned red instantly, Qi Jingchen shook Qi Ning lightly.
"Xiao Ning, don't cry, it's Dad!"
Qi Ning took a careful look at Qi Jingchen and the surrounding environment before hugging Qi Jingchen's neck tightly: "Dad, I was almost scared to death just now. I dreamed that my mother didn't want me anymore."
"Stupid child, how could mom not want you? Isn't she just lying on the hospital bed?" Qi Jingchen pointed to the accompanying bed next to him and said, "But we should go to bed now, so I want to carry you to sleep on this bed." of."
"But I can't sleep by myself, I have nightmares."
"I'll sleep with you in my arms, okay?" Qi Jingchen said distressedly, "Mom's hospital bed can't fit you now."
Qi Ning nodded obediently: "Okay, sleep with Dad tonight."
Qi Jingchen was worried that Qi Ning would not be able to fall asleep, and worried that Qi Ning would have nightmares when he fell asleep, so he simply let Qi Ning sleep on his body. He hugged Qi Ning tightly, just wanting to give him a sense of security.
When he woke up the next day, Qi Jingchen felt that half of his shoulder was about to go numb, but seeing how Qi Ning was sleeping soundly, Qi Jingchen even felt that the saliva he left on his clothes was nothing.
But as soon as Qi Jingchen got up and put Qi Ning on the bed, Qi Ning opened his eyes, rubbed his own eyes, and asked in a daze, "Dad, are you up?"
Qi Jingchen rubbed Qi Ning's hair: "Yes, mother will change her dressing in a while, can Xiao Ning get up and wash her face by herself?"
Qi Ning nodded, and said obediently: "Okay."
He bounced to the bathroom, brushed his teeth and washed his face, and even brought a small basin of hot water on the bedside to wipe Zhong Jiaqi's face.
Zhong Jiaqi was a little embarrassed to ask her three-year-old son to wipe her face, but thinking of what Qi Jingchen said, she obediently accepted it.
"Xiao Ning is so good. She has already learned to take care of me. If you weren't here, your father would be very busy."
A smile appeared on Qi Ning's face: "It's as long as mom is fine."
"Seeing how well-behaved Xiao Ning is, my mood has improved, and the wound will heal soon," Zhong Jiaqi said with a smile, "Thank you Xiao Ning."
Qi Ning clung to Zhong Jiaqi's ear and whispered: "Mom, yesterday my father took me to meet a strange uncle, and he asked me a lot of strange questions."
Zhong Jiaqi knew that the strange uncle Qi Ning mentioned should be a psychiatrist, she smiled and asked, "Xiao Ning, don't you like that uncle?"
"It's not that I don't like it, but I don't know why he asked those questions."
Zhong Jiaqi touched Qi Ning's hair: "That's Dad's friend, he just cares about the problems in our family, if Dad takes you to see him again in the future, you must answer his questions honestly, okay?"
Qi Ning nodded vigorously twice: "Okay, I will agree to whatever Mom says."
"Then I want to drink water now, can Xiao Ning pass me the water glass?"
"it is good."
Seeing that Qi Ning's eyes were finally no longer full of gloom, Zhong Jiaqi's mood improved a lot. She knew that post-traumatic stress disorder would not recover so quickly, but at least Qi Ning's condition is slowly improving now. It is also something to be happy about.
"Xiao Ning, what do you want to eat this morning?"
"I eat the same as my mother."
Qi Jingchen rubbed Qi Ning's hair: "You little sycophant, you have to be like your mother in everything."
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