Li Ning smiled wryly, "Love may only be a momentary thing, but if a person wants to fully understand another person, even a psychologist can't do it, and the understanding between lovers also needs a little time to go. Getting to know each other. Could it be that you can fully understand all Shao Hua's actions?"
Wang Lili frowned, thinking about Li Ning's words, but didn't respond for a while.
Li Ning continued to persuade, "Don't try to let the other party fully understand what you think in your heart. If you really want him to know, you can tell him to hear it. Two people should communicate and tolerate together, not play guessing games .”
"Then you're saying I did something wrong?" Wang Lili asked uncertainly.
Li Ning shook his head, "There's no right or wrong in emotional matters, it's just who wants to be more tolerant." After a pause, Li Ning asked, "Actually, you don't really want to break up with Shao Hua, do you?"
Wang Lili didn't respond, but her noncommittal was tantamount to acquiescing.
"Lili, I still say the same thing, if you love him and Shao Hua is willing to work hard to be with you, then don't say such things lightly, communicate well between you, and the matter will always be resolved. And I think, the starting point of everything Shao's mother does is because she loves Shao Hua, and you all start from the same point, talk about it and after some hard work, I believe that Shao's mother will see your goodness." Li Ning Consolation said.
"But I'm afraid that if his mother is really impulsive and does something irreversible, then I will never be able to face Shao Hua for the rest of my life." Wang Lili was terrified.
Li Ning didn't have any ideas at the moment, and she didn't dare to say anything about this kind of thing, so she hesitated for a moment and said: "Well, I will find a way to talk to Shao Hua about this matter, and maybe ask Mother Shao to meet and chat Chat. I don’t think his mother is an unreasonable person, maybe this matter is just out of anger, and it’s inevitable that she will get into a dead end.”
"Doctor Li, are you going to talk?"
"Of course, if you find it inconvenient, then I don't have to intervene in this matter. I just see that you and Shao Hua are unhappy about this matter, so I want to try to see what I can do to help."
Wang Lili immediately explained: "I didn't mean that, I just thought it was our private matter, but I wanted to bother you. And now you should also feel at ease to raise your baby and wait for delivery, and you shouldn't bother yourself."
Li Ning lightly held Wang Lili's hand, "We are not only colleagues but also friends. As friends, I don't want you two to be unhappy. Besides, people in our department are very optimistic about you, and everyone is still waiting to eat your wedding candy." .”
Wang Lili pursed her lips and smiled, but at the same time sighed helplessly.
"Okay, don't think about it, if you really feel uncomfortable, I can give you half a day off to adjust your mood."
Wang Lili took two deep breaths, then shook her head with a smile, "Don't worry, Dr. Li, private matters are private matters, and work is work. I know what I should do, and it won't affect my normal work."
"Well, come and tell me anything at any time. I'll talk to Shao Hua later. But don't impulsively mention breaking up. Some things can't be said all the time. They will come true as soon as they are said. " Li Ning exhorted.
"Listen to your doctor Li." Wang Lili nodded in response, then got up and left the office.
Li Ning sighed to himself, seeing what happened to Wang Lili and Shao Hua, he couldn't help but sigh. In today's society where love is free, there are still some families that have to face this so-called family restriction.
At the same time, she was very glad that the people she met were Mrs. Shen and Shen Muzhi.
Although the Li family is also a wealthy family, it had already declined day by day when her family was handed over to Shen Muzhi, and even in the heyday of the Li family, it was far from the Shen family's. Look, it can be regarded as improper.
But Mrs. Shen never cared about these things, even though Li Ning had no dowry when she got married, she still never mentioned it.
Looking at it now, the marriage between her and Shen Muzhi was really simple. A single wedding married Li Ning into the family, and their married life began from then on.
Although Li Ning was full of reluctance at the time, but now he is very grateful for all of this.
Perhaps the relationship between her and Shen Muzhi is called fate, all the seemingly coincidental inevitability lead them to go through the ups and downs of this road, and then meet happiness.
That afternoon, Li Ning called Shao Hua to the office alone when he was not busy.
"Have you had a good chat with Lili today?" Li Ning poured a glass of water for Shao Hua and handed it to him.
Shao Hua shook his head, "We are all busy today, and the time is always staggered."
Li Ning nodded slightly, and said directly: "In the morning, I chatted with Lili for a long time."
Shao Hua took a sip of water, his brows were slightly frowned, and the word helplessness was written all over his eyes.
"Lili also said that she doesn't want to break up with you, but it seems that you have been caught between her and her parents, so you want to help you solve the problem in this way, not because you want to To force you to make a statement."
"But what I want is for us to find a way to solve the problem together, and find a way to persuade my parents to agree to our marriage, instead of breaking up to escape the problem."
After hearing this, Li Ning couldn't help laughing, "I can see that the biggest problem between the two of you is the lack of communication. She thinks you should understand her thoughts, but you feel that there are some things that don't need to be said Come out, both of you should know it well. In the end, although you are both thinking about each other, you can't understand what the other is doing, and instead cause misunderstandings, but you only feel that everything is because the other doesn't understand you enough. "
Shao Hua's brows were tightened, and Li Ning was silent for a while, giving him time to think alone.
After a while, Shao Hua raised his eyes to look at Li Ning, "I understand what you mean, Dr. Li."
Li Ning smiled, seeing that he understood, he stopped talking, and asked instead: "Auntie disagrees with your marriage, is there any other reason besides Lili's rural background?"
Shao Hua shook his head, "They want to find a daughter-in-law who has a distinguished family background and will be very face-saving, not someone I like."
After the words fell, Shao Hua couldn't help sighing deeply.
Li Ning said: "Most Chinese parents are like this. They think they are doing what is good for their children, but they ignore what their children want most. But it cannot be said that they are not good. After all, their starting point is also for you, but they may use it wrong. The way is."
Shao Hua sighed again: "My mother is well educated and reasonable, but this matter is very stubborn. I have been persuading her for many days, but it still has no effect."
Wang Lili frowned, thinking about Li Ning's words, but didn't respond for a while.
Li Ning continued to persuade, "Don't try to let the other party fully understand what you think in your heart. If you really want him to know, you can tell him to hear it. Two people should communicate and tolerate together, not play guessing games .”
"Then you're saying I did something wrong?" Wang Lili asked uncertainly.
Li Ning shook his head, "There's no right or wrong in emotional matters, it's just who wants to be more tolerant." After a pause, Li Ning asked, "Actually, you don't really want to break up with Shao Hua, do you?"
Wang Lili didn't respond, but her noncommittal was tantamount to acquiescing.
"Lili, I still say the same thing, if you love him and Shao Hua is willing to work hard to be with you, then don't say such things lightly, communicate well between you, and the matter will always be resolved. And I think, the starting point of everything Shao's mother does is because she loves Shao Hua, and you all start from the same point, talk about it and after some hard work, I believe that Shao's mother will see your goodness." Li Ning Consolation said.
"But I'm afraid that if his mother is really impulsive and does something irreversible, then I will never be able to face Shao Hua for the rest of my life." Wang Lili was terrified.
Li Ning didn't have any ideas at the moment, and she didn't dare to say anything about this kind of thing, so she hesitated for a moment and said: "Well, I will find a way to talk to Shao Hua about this matter, and maybe ask Mother Shao to meet and chat Chat. I don’t think his mother is an unreasonable person, maybe this matter is just out of anger, and it’s inevitable that she will get into a dead end.”
"Doctor Li, are you going to talk?"
"Of course, if you find it inconvenient, then I don't have to intervene in this matter. I just see that you and Shao Hua are unhappy about this matter, so I want to try to see what I can do to help."
Wang Lili immediately explained: "I didn't mean that, I just thought it was our private matter, but I wanted to bother you. And now you should also feel at ease to raise your baby and wait for delivery, and you shouldn't bother yourself."
Li Ning lightly held Wang Lili's hand, "We are not only colleagues but also friends. As friends, I don't want you two to be unhappy. Besides, people in our department are very optimistic about you, and everyone is still waiting to eat your wedding candy." .”
Wang Lili pursed her lips and smiled, but at the same time sighed helplessly.
"Okay, don't think about it, if you really feel uncomfortable, I can give you half a day off to adjust your mood."
Wang Lili took two deep breaths, then shook her head with a smile, "Don't worry, Dr. Li, private matters are private matters, and work is work. I know what I should do, and it won't affect my normal work."
"Well, come and tell me anything at any time. I'll talk to Shao Hua later. But don't impulsively mention breaking up. Some things can't be said all the time. They will come true as soon as they are said. " Li Ning exhorted.
"Listen to your doctor Li." Wang Lili nodded in response, then got up and left the office.
Li Ning sighed to himself, seeing what happened to Wang Lili and Shao Hua, he couldn't help but sigh. In today's society where love is free, there are still some families that have to face this so-called family restriction.
At the same time, she was very glad that the people she met were Mrs. Shen and Shen Muzhi.
Although the Li family is also a wealthy family, it had already declined day by day when her family was handed over to Shen Muzhi, and even in the heyday of the Li family, it was far from the Shen family's. Look, it can be regarded as improper.
But Mrs. Shen never cared about these things, even though Li Ning had no dowry when she got married, she still never mentioned it.
Looking at it now, the marriage between her and Shen Muzhi was really simple. A single wedding married Li Ning into the family, and their married life began from then on.
Although Li Ning was full of reluctance at the time, but now he is very grateful for all of this.
Perhaps the relationship between her and Shen Muzhi is called fate, all the seemingly coincidental inevitability lead them to go through the ups and downs of this road, and then meet happiness.
That afternoon, Li Ning called Shao Hua to the office alone when he was not busy.
"Have you had a good chat with Lili today?" Li Ning poured a glass of water for Shao Hua and handed it to him.
Shao Hua shook his head, "We are all busy today, and the time is always staggered."
Li Ning nodded slightly, and said directly: "In the morning, I chatted with Lili for a long time."
Shao Hua took a sip of water, his brows were slightly frowned, and the word helplessness was written all over his eyes.
"Lili also said that she doesn't want to break up with you, but it seems that you have been caught between her and her parents, so you want to help you solve the problem in this way, not because you want to To force you to make a statement."
"But what I want is for us to find a way to solve the problem together, and find a way to persuade my parents to agree to our marriage, instead of breaking up to escape the problem."
After hearing this, Li Ning couldn't help laughing, "I can see that the biggest problem between the two of you is the lack of communication. She thinks you should understand her thoughts, but you feel that there are some things that don't need to be said Come out, both of you should know it well. In the end, although you are both thinking about each other, you can't understand what the other is doing, and instead cause misunderstandings, but you only feel that everything is because the other doesn't understand you enough. "
Shao Hua's brows were tightened, and Li Ning was silent for a while, giving him time to think alone.
After a while, Shao Hua raised his eyes to look at Li Ning, "I understand what you mean, Dr. Li."
Li Ning smiled, seeing that he understood, he stopped talking, and asked instead: "Auntie disagrees with your marriage, is there any other reason besides Lili's rural background?"
Shao Hua shook his head, "They want to find a daughter-in-law who has a distinguished family background and will be very face-saving, not someone I like."
After the words fell, Shao Hua couldn't help sighing deeply.
Li Ning said: "Most Chinese parents are like this. They think they are doing what is good for their children, but they ignore what their children want most. But it cannot be said that they are not good. After all, their starting point is also for you, but they may use it wrong. The way is."
Shao Hua sighed again: "My mother is well educated and reasonable, but this matter is very stubborn. I have been persuading her for many days, but it still has no effect."
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