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Cheng Peng and Mrs. Shen explained: "Grandma, for example, if we go to someone else's house to stay temporarily, although the host takes good care of us, it is not our own home after all, and the feeling is different. It might be okay to stay for a day or two, especially if there are no other close relatives around, and if you live there for a long time, you will feel somewhat dependent on others in your heart."

Mrs. Shen nodded thoughtfully, "You are right."

Cheng Peng continued: "Adults can digest and adjust some emotions very well, but children do not have such strong self-control ability as adults. Coupled with a little panic and fear in their hearts about the new environment, children generally have two kinds of emotions. Manifestation, either crying endlessly, wishing everything to return to the original state in his heart. Or a smart and sensitive child like Jinyi will try to suppress his negative emotions and let himself focus on other things. This is a human nature There is a self-protection mechanism. And such a child, on the surface, seems to have digested those negative emotions, but in fact they just lumped them together and pressed them in their hearts and did not disappear. "

"Then what kind of result will this cause?" Shen Muxing interrupted and asked.

"In this case, some children grow up and mature with age, and those things will still be kept intact in their hearts. Maybe they will only be remembered by chance at a certain moment in their lives, but it will not have any impact. But It may also cause psychological shadow due to coercive suppression, which will affect the healthy personality development of the child. For example, it will cause a relatively dark and withdrawn personality, and some serious ones may even be somewhat anti-social, but these are rare. You don’t have to Too worried, Jinyi's situation is not that serious."

Shen Muxing nodded thoughtfully, "This matter is really big or small."

"Mr. Xiao Shen, don't worry too much. What I said is just the worst situation. Jinyi's condition is very good, and it is inseparable from your family's care and love for him. With a little guidance, he should be fine soon. " Cheng Peng said in relief.

While talking, Jinyi and Xiaoyu washed their hands, and the two children ran over together, and sat obediently on their own dining chairs.

"Uncle Cheng, after dinner, let's do magic~" Xiaoyu was still thinking about doing magic, and looked at Cheng Peng in a childish voice and said.

"Okay, uncle still has a very powerful magic trick. After dinner, I will show it to you two little guys. If you are good, I might teach you a trick."

"Really, Xiao Yu and I are both very good." Jin Yi immediately said.

"Okay, I'll teach you after dinner." Cheng Peng agreed with a smile.

After dinner, Cheng Peng was dragged by the two children to do magic tricks. They played until almost eight o'clock. Li Ning felt a little embarrassed and forced the two children to go back to their room to sleep before Cheng Peng rescued them.

"I'm sorry, it's been so hard being dragged by two children for so long." Li Ning said to Cheng Peng very apologetically.

"You're talking nonsense again. And these two little guys in your family are smart and cute, and I like them a lot."

Shen Muzhi stood beside Li Ning, "Mr. Cheng, thank you."

"It's easy to talk about. Xiao Ning and I are old classmates. Although we haven't seen each other for so many years, we have a revolutionary friendship foundation. I am also very happy to help. And Xiao Ning is now an unattainable figure. , Maybe when I will ask you to do it.”

"Whatever you want, just ask me if you have anything." Li Ning said with a cheerful smile.

"I'm in a hurry today. Let's change Mr. Cheng's time. Xiao Ning and I will treat you to a meal to express our gratitude." Shen Muzhi said politely.

"Okay, let's make an appointment when we're free. But it's more important to take care of Jinyi first."

Cheng Peng thought for a while, and then said: "Well, I don't think Jinyi's situation is serious, and this child is indeed more sensitive. I suggest meeting two to three times a month. If it is too frequent, I am worried that the child will be more sensitive. If you think too much, it won’t work.”

"Okay, you can arrange this time, and we can cooperate at any time." Li Ning agreed.

"Okay, it's such a pleasant decision. I'll go back and study it, make a detailed summary, and then make an appointment." "Okay, thank you."

As Li Ning said, he and Shen Muzhi sent Cheng Peng out and got into the car, watching his car out of sight.

"Cheng Peng is the absolute authority in this area. I feel at ease when I hear him say that Jin Yi is fine." Li Ning took Shen Muzhi's arm and said with a long sigh of relief.

"For Jinyi's affairs, you are really troublesome. Just like grandma said, his biological parents don't care as much for him as you alone."

"I don't want to think about Uncle Er and Yao Yu right now. I just want to look at my eyes. A good child is better than anything else."

"With you caring about him so much, he will be fine." Shen Muzhi said as he gently kissed Li Ning's forehead.

Back in the house, Mrs. Shen was still in the living room and did not go to rest.

"grandmother."

"Xiao Cheng left?"

"Well, I just left." Li Ning nodded.

"How do you say it?" Mrs. Shen asked.

"Although there are some problems, they are all small problems that are easy to solve. In the future, Cheng Peng will find time to come over two or three times a month to give proper guidance. Usually, the family members should accompany Jin and care more about him. "

After hearing this, Mrs. Shen nodded reassuringly, "It's okay."

"Grandma, don't worry, go to rest early." Li Ning comforted.

Old Mrs. Shen nodded, but still looked thoughtful.

Seeing this, Li Ning asked Mrs. Shen, "Is there anything else Grandma wants to tell you?"

"It's nothing, you should go to bed earlier, don't be too busy."

"Got it, grandma."

Seeing Mrs. Shen returned to the room, Li Ning said to Shen Muzhi: "I'll go see if the two children are asleep."

"Well, let's go."

"Don't be busy too late, don't forget what we agreed that day, don't look at work half an hour before going to bed."

Shen Muzhi smiled, "Got it, go to bed between ten o'clock."

Li Ning nodded in satisfaction, turned around and went to Jinyi's room first.

"Are you asleep?" Li Ning entered the door lightly and asked in a low voice when she saw Jin Jie was packing toys in the living room.

"I just lay down for a while, so I probably haven't slept yet." Sister Jin also replied in a low voice.

Li Ning nodded, turned around and walked to the bedroom.

A very dim star lamp was lit in the room, illuminating the roof of the room like a starry sky.

Li Ning carefully sat on the edge of the bed, pulled the quilt for Jin Yi, but Jin Yi turned her head all of a sudden.

"Sister-in-law."