Gentle President: Doting on Xiao Qingmei with Facial Paralysis

Chapter 280 The Definition of Success

【280】Definition of success
But Shan Yi refused them all.

In the eyes of others, perhaps Shan Yi's behavior makes them feel that Shan Yi is simply a fool. How many people dream of being accepted as a student by famous scholars and masters, and helping you further your studies and development?
How could a mere teenage girl refuse repeatedly like this indifferently?

What is the concept of success?
Success is a Chinese noun with a verb-object structure. It refers to things or events that reach or realize a certain value scale, so as to obtain the expected result is called success.Everyone's success needs to go through many tests in life. Only those who have passed different tests will prove your strength. Success includes both spiritual and material aspects. It needs the cooperation of time, place, and people. Keep striving for your own goals and reflect your own value. No matter what the ending is, you are a successful person

In An Qing's eyes, An Qing believes that in everyone's eyes, everyone's definition of success is different. An Qing appreciates Shan Yi's ability to politely and rationally refuse invitations from famous masters and masters. After all, Shan Yi Yi is only in her teens, and now is not very suitable for further study and development. She feels that Shan Yi's thinking should be consistent with hers.

There are many definitions of success. Some people think that if you can earn a lot of money, you are successful. Some people say: I am successful if I have a happy family and a wife or husband who loves me. Others say: I have a healthy body and a happy family, and I am successful. These are all right, because success is defined differently according to each person's values, and the results of success will be different. In short, success The definition of the goal is to achieve the goal process and results set by oneself within the specified time.

There is such a philosophy in marketing that success is a state of mind, that is, "belief determines thinking, thinking determines behavior, and behavior determines results." Friends, can the results of your goals satisfy you?
It is caused by your previous behavior. If you work hard but are not rich yet, then you should check whether your values ​​are wrong, because people’s beliefs depend on people’s values. If you want to If you want to earn 1000 million RMB, but your current ability cannot complete it, then you have to repair your values ​​and redefine them, or you have this ability but some methods need to be changed. Values ​​are what people treat The results we want can be divided into two categories: instrumental values ​​and pursuit-oriented values. The instrumental values ​​are our material requirements and attainment, while the pursuit-type values ​​are a feeling that we achieve the results we want, such as Say (I have 1000 million now, and the 1000 million at this time is an instrumental value, because it is a substance, an entity,) in other words "(When I have 1000 million, I will be very successful) The 1000 million at this moment has become a pursuit-oriented value, because what it wants is a sense of success. In real life, the tool-type value is easier to achieve, while the pursuit-type value is not easy to be satisfied, because many rich people in the world also Not necessarily happy.

why?Because they define values ​​too perfectly, it is not easy or even impossible to become a reality at the same time.At this time, you may have doubts, why is the value too perfect?How to clarify the value?For example, if your values ​​include (family, career, health), you must first rank these four values. If you could only choose one of health and career, which one would you choose?If you choose health, it proves that health is more important to you than career, and then we compare health with family. If you choose family, it will come out. Your first value is family. The second is health, and the second is career. From this perspective, you can give your life a life goal, which is called a mission. What you have to do is to maintain and build your family with all your strength. For your family, you must Take care of your health, and do business for your family, and then set yourself a goal, what method will you use to complete your career!
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